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I’m glad you’ve found some resolution. Please be kind to the child even though he is not your biological kid he still considers you his dad and he is not at fault here
You are right about one thing this sounds like a very toxic relationship. You guys are clearly not happy with each other.
My advice get a DNA test first. Leave this situation and if the baby is your co parent to the best of your ability. If the baby isn’t yours cut your losses
You were at the receiving end of her horrible behaviour. Not her. Did she even asked her OB how likely it is that her mood can be worked on? Right now she promise you everything because she wants to reach her goal, but who knows how it will turn out as soon as her hormones kick in again. She didn't wanted to speak with the OB last time, even though you plead to her. Why should it change this time? Before the first pregnancy she would also have said that she would never treat you like she did back then, but still she did and she didn't try to talk to her doctor in thd full nine months. I would also be afraid that it will be the same and when you go with “when will you talk with you doc like you promised”, you will get full rage.
Since she didn't even had the talk with OB -at best with you – i wonder if she doesn't take your position really serious. You say that she admits that she was awful but does she maybe deep down thinks “for a child, it is worth it and I was the one that was pregnant, so why does he complain about bad mood?”
If you can't get through to her, maybe get a few hours couple counseling.
And as bad as it sound: keep your eye on your birth control. She wants a child even though the last pregnancy was traumatic for you. Maybe she will think “if i just end up pregnant, he won't have a choice as to accept it”. Better be save than sorry.
She wasn't 19 when they met, she was 18. He thought she was nearly 21. A couple of years actually does make a difference when you're talking about a barely-legal teenager vs. someone in their 20s. You're being intentionally disingenuous by acting like this is the same as a difference of a single day.
Regardless, she lied repeatedly for months even when given the opportunity to come clean. It's likely because she knew he wouldn't date her if she told the truth, but how is that any better? She took away his right to informed consent. That's a shitty thing to do and he's well within his rights to end the relationship if he can't trust her anymore.
What in your mind is a valid reason to lie about this?
I’m glad you’ve found some resolution. Please be kind to the child even though he is not your biological kid he still considers you his dad and he is not at fault here
You are right about one thing this sounds like a very toxic relationship. You guys are clearly not happy with each other.
My advice get a DNA test first. Leave this situation and if the baby is your co parent to the best of your ability. If the baby isn’t yours cut your losses
You were at the receiving end of her horrible behaviour. Not her. Did she even asked her OB how likely it is that her mood can be worked on? Right now she promise you everything because she wants to reach her goal, but who knows how it will turn out as soon as her hormones kick in again. She didn't wanted to speak with the OB last time, even though you plead to her. Why should it change this time? Before the first pregnancy she would also have said that she would never treat you like she did back then, but still she did and she didn't try to talk to her doctor in thd full nine months. I would also be afraid that it will be the same and when you go with “when will you talk with you doc like you promised”, you will get full rage.
Since she didn't even had the talk with OB -at best with you – i wonder if she doesn't take your position really serious. You say that she admits that she was awful but does she maybe deep down thinks “for a child, it is worth it and I was the one that was pregnant, so why does he complain about bad mood?”
If you can't get through to her, maybe get a few hours couple counseling.
And as bad as it sound: keep your eye on your birth control. She wants a child even though the last pregnancy was traumatic for you. Maybe she will think “if i just end up pregnant, he won't have a choice as to accept it”. Better be save than sorry.
If 20 was “ok” then why not 19?
She wasn't 19 when they met, she was 18. He thought she was nearly 21. A couple of years actually does make a difference when you're talking about a barely-legal teenager vs. someone in their 20s. You're being intentionally disingenuous by acting like this is the same as a difference of a single day.
Regardless, she lied repeatedly for months even when given the opportunity to come clean. It's likely because she knew he wouldn't date her if she told the truth, but how is that any better? She took away his right to informed consent. That's a shitty thing to do and he's well within his rights to end the relationship if he can't trust her anymore.
What in your mind is a valid reason to lie about this?