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♥, LET ME BLOW YOUR DAY WITH THIS DELICIOUS PUSSY AND WHY NO WITH MY ASS TOO?♥/GET ALL MY MEDIA JUST FOR 99TOKENS/@TWERK MY ASS [Multi Goal]
Date: October 3, 2022
♥, LET ME BLOW YOUR DAY WITH THIS DELICIOUS PUSSY AND WHY NO WITH MY ASS TOO?♥/GET ALL MY MEDIA JUST FOR 99TOKENS/@TWERK MY ASS [Multi Goal]
Not actually too young to settle down. I was married younger than that and we both travel the world whenever we can, have kids that shit coming with us because we are still fairly young and can look forward to many years after the kids leave for more travel. It may be too young for some, but it's definitely not too young full stop.
Don't expect to parent the adult. She doesn't need a new dad. You'll always just be “mom's new boyfriend” to her.
You should sit down with your GF and have a proper discussion about expectations as a family unit though. 22 is an adult, but she's also freeloading if she's not paying rent or helping out around the house(most people grow out of the broody teenager phase by this point, just fyi). Your girlfriend is the one who needs to have that discussion with her daughter though, not you.
The younger one is a whole different game. You should settle on what your expected contribution is with her now, while the situation is still fresh. Are you going to be her “new dad” or are you just “mom's boyfriend”?
Its sounds like you two have different future expectations. He is stringing you a long and hopes to buy a house with you which he hope will keep you staying.
Marriage and Children should never be compromised.
Giving an ultimatum is also a bad idea.
Walking away from something good is also difficult.
Surely he should know after 7 years if he wants to get married or not.
Most of my female friends would have walked away from this after 5 years with no ring.
You need to sit him down and tell him you want to get married or be engaged but the problem is, you have asked this. I personally believe that it has to be discussed early in the relationship and you should walk away if it is not a mutual priority.
I would tell my dad everything.
I would tell my dad everything.
I live in a small city and we have a murder outside a bar at minimum 3x a year.
Having a crush is ok. Feeling bad about how this went down is okay too.
But you know it would have been wrong if anything else happened. Which he knows too. Worse for him actually, and he has the moral responsibility to shut down. Which he did. So this is good thing.
Be proud that you found yourself attracted to a good people. He treated you with respect and genuine admiration. No surprise you caught some feelings. But now that you know what these positive traits look like, keep your eye out for them in someone more age appropriate and not in position of power over you .
Then don’t date her. It’s been only 2 months, not 7 years and 2 kids. If you find out a major dealbreaker this early on then the responsible thing to do is go your own way and not drag the dead horse around. Trust is not easy to build, and sounds like the girl needs to work on herself.
If you’re really adamant on building trust then you’ll need external help like therapist and such. It takes a long time and a lot of effort as it is, but in your case it’ll take longer because she’s been in your life only 2 months and you really don’t know who is and what she wants (even if you knew each other in a social context previously, that’s not the same as dating). So think carefully whether you want to do that or just cut your losses.
And yes the other comments are right she’s too young for you. You can’t override the age gap problem by drilling in the trust issue problem
I mean, if it's men's day, fair game, no?
Leave. There is no other option.