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Edging with Alexa Payne & Johnny Palms
Date: February 6, 2023
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Edging with Alexa Payne & Johnny Palms
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Every. Single. Day. I have to ask this man to brush his teeth. It's always an argument. I finally got fed up and told him that it's not my responsibility to tell him to brush his teeth every day. His response was: “you don't have to tell me to, I have perfect teeth and will brush them whenever I feel like I need to”. Side note: he hasn't been to the dentist in many years so that's bs. In addition, he doesn't take responsibility to do basic chores like washing dishes. I just graduated college and am looking for a job, he's unemployed as his job doesn't have winter work, so it's not an issue of either one of us being more busy than the other. He makes up these cleaning “rules”. Like if you make a dirty dish, you clean it. But this only lasts a few days as he himself can never keep up with it. So lately I've been trying to have us swap out doing dishes; I do it one day and he does it the other, but it starts a fight. I get really stressed with clutter and dirty dishes, so after several days of the dishes sitting in the sink when he was supposed to do them, I got upset. He tells me if I get stressed out by clutter, then I should clean it. Then he says if they were the majority of his dishes, he would have cleaned them up right away. When I pointed out that they were in fact, all his. He told me to shut up. I, firmly said “I do not deserve that sort of disrespect, do not tell me to shut up”. He said “what're you going to do about it”? He consistently changes the narrative to fit his liking and it's mentally exhausting. I'm hopeless. I dont know what to do. I'm supposed to be moving across the country in a month with this man but idk if I can. We've been together for over 4 years and he's the love of my life, but I'm so tired of taking care of a man-child.
Thank you hopefully when I'm in therapy I can lay all this out a little better and get help and resolve my feelings
Does she do drugs at raves? Seems like she doesn't want to be judged or seen as overstepping relationship boundaries when getting mixed up with a bunch of strangers at a rave.
No, everyone is jumping on the fact that she just got out of an abusive relationship and the fact that she sees people as “missions” to be conquered as an indicator that she isn't thinking clearly.