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Date: October 24, 2022
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Communication is as always key.
Let your boyfriend know how much you appreciate his gestures, AND let him know that you have struggles reciprocating/accepting them properly because of your past. You're right to worry that he will be dejected if he only sees you dismissing him, so make sure he is fully aware.
Additionally, let him know that you're working to improve on the difficulties your past has established. Not just posting on Reddit, but that you're seeing a therapist (even if only a few times) to help you identify your issues and build techniques to grow).
Far too often people view therapy as something for broken people or last ditch scenarios which is silly. Relationships, hell just life, is incredibly complicated, and it should be obvious that a professional can be an incredibly powerful ally. No one expects to be born knowing how to swim, and that's a lot less complicated than love.
Lastly, don't be afraid to use some tricks. You seem like you're able to logically reflect upon the situations after the fact, and that's great. That means you can plan. Not everything must be spontaneous perfection. Think about ways/things you can do/say for him, and put reminders on your phones calendar to prompt you. Train yourself to be the person you want to be, and you'll build the loving relationship you deserve!
While I love giving them, if you don’t want too and he requires it then you are simply not compatible.
Just break up with him, let him go find someone that loves to give bjs
They were getting high.
“I trust my girlfriend and I am not insecure”
Then this problem that you have manufactured wouldn’t exist
Look, you might hope it never happens and that his love carries over to the kid, but you'd be an absolute fool to stick your head in the sane and believe it never could, and fail to prepare.
Thanks for the input. It’s good to be reassured that I don’t owe him. After this whole blackmailing thing, I do plan on just distancing myself from him entirely until maybe somebody he gets his act together.