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Date: November 20, 2022
It kinda sounds like you just didn't even try and to an extent rook advantage of him. I'd be done too. You really should let him go and work on yourself and be happy on your own before being with someone again. It's extremely very hot to take a mental and physical load for someone else. Especially when the other person takes advantage and doesn't help.
YTA. You wanted something that you could control, and that would obey you. Instead, you got a feeling and thinking human being, and if he feels repressed, it's because he is. You sound like an unwavering dictator with your rules.
You may want to seek therapy to try and understand human feelings and to understand why you chose to threaten his college when he expressed his feelings and thoughts. You dismiss him. You dismiss his feelings. You refuse to look inward.
And that's why, so many parents your age have kids who won't speak to them anymore. When you find freedom, it's torture to have to go back to a.prison on holidays and breaks. We tire of hearing how we should be grateful that you clothed and fed us. We're tired of hearing how WE were always the problem and are ungrateful.
Provide your son w the mental health help he needs, admit you shoulder some of the blame and start there. Or ignore everyone here, and you'll be completely estranged from him in less than 5 years.
When you weren't looking, we were all here, learning about healthy boundaries and that we don't have to continue relationships w people who have toxic traits.
Thete is no excuse for cheating…ever. I can see why your wife wants you to cut her off. You're basically an apologist for her. I dont think your wife thinks you will cheat, but just doesn't want you to hang around with someone of that character.
My really good friend of 20 years cheated on his wife. I never thought he would do such a thing. I thought about for a bit, then went no contact with him. I just couldn't be friends with someone who would do that to the person they supposedly loved.
So now you can pick from 2 people. Your friend, who it sounds like you're having an EA with, or the person you are supposed to spend your life loving. Choose wisely.
Are you sure she's ready for a relationship?
because she thinks it’s no different than live chat room, because why would I wanna chat with random people?
You get what a weird take that is right? Literally you talking to random people is considered cheating?
Absolutely, it’ll slowly increase in severity until the point you’ve reached full blown blatant abuse wondering how the f you got there
Why did you have kids with him? Why are you SAH?
This is so nuts.
Get a job. Get a therapist. Then get out. He’s just going to keep moving the goal post.
'Genuine'. Yikes.
“I want to manipulate other people's perceptions of me so they will see me as a selfless hero. My wanting to manipulate them makes me appear 'genuine' (but I'm actually not, I just want them to think that I am).”
This guy has a seriously scary personality disorder. You should dump him and stay far, far away
Tell her the truth if she ever asks, but don’t volunteer the information unless she asks.
Ok go ahead and explain why then
I would just raise concerns, ask about hours she’s working, refund amount, just excel it out together(it’s good practice for real life if y’all make it).
If it won’t be a big stretch, she can figure it out(trust her).
If it is, and she’s adamant about it, understand she’s only gonna learn by figuring it out the hard way.
What are your respective incomes? Imo the most fair split is one proportional to income, not necessarily a 50-50 split. It's also fair to expect you to pay any pet deposit and pet fees.
If you earn about the same (or if she earns more), then I would consider her expectation unreasonable, assuming you want a partner and not a child or another pet, and she may be right that your expectations of your respective roles in a relationship are incompatible.