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There is no specific definition of cheating, which is why it is important for every couple, especially a married couple, to have a conversation and agree on what it means for them. It really doesn't matter what us randos on the internet have to say, even if we all agree with you, that doesn't change the fact that she views this action as cheating. If two people in a relationship do not agree, well, the more restrictive definition is the one that needs to be used.
It was especially silly for you to go to a strip club without having a conversation about this, given that many people have issues with strip clubs!
Apologize to your wife, and then have that conversation.
he sounds like less of an equal partner and more like a rag doll acquiescing to what you want because he can’t be bothered to participate in your relationship……
I love doing things for other people, I don't expect it to be reciprocated, but I admit that I do love when someone thinks of me, moreso in small unexpected ways. For example, I would get more joy out of someone who left a donut on my desk because they were at the bakery, knew I was having a nude day, and just thought I'd like it, rather than someone buying me a big expensive thing for my birthday that really doesn't show that they actually get me, if that makes sense.
She's still away for the next few days, and it's not a conversation I wanted to have over text, so we haven't talked about it yet. I was hoping to gather some perspective before she got home, and we had a real talk about it
The way OP describes their night it sounds like between the drinking, fantasizing about their future, and addressing the wedding invitations she had a moment like OP with blurting out what was on her mind. It all became too real and she told him that she was unsure about kids. It was clearly bad timing but better now than after the wedding.
There is no specific definition of cheating, which is why it is important for every couple, especially a married couple, to have a conversation and agree on what it means for them. It really doesn't matter what us randos on the internet have to say, even if we all agree with you, that doesn't change the fact that she views this action as cheating. If two people in a relationship do not agree, well, the more restrictive definition is the one that needs to be used.
It was especially silly for you to go to a strip club without having a conversation about this, given that many people have issues with strip clubs!
Apologize to your wife, and then have that conversation.
he sounds like less of an equal partner and more like a rag doll acquiescing to what you want because he can’t be bothered to participate in your relationship……
I love doing things for other people, I don't expect it to be reciprocated, but I admit that I do love when someone thinks of me, moreso in small unexpected ways. For example, I would get more joy out of someone who left a donut on my desk because they were at the bakery, knew I was having a nude day, and just thought I'd like it, rather than someone buying me a big expensive thing for my birthday that really doesn't show that they actually get me, if that makes sense.
She's still away for the next few days, and it's not a conversation I wanted to have over text, so we haven't talked about it yet. I was hoping to gather some perspective before she got home, and we had a real talk about it
Sure, you say that now, however, neither of you knows how the situation will look like later.
And flying is one thing….what about the whole divorce process?
Abusive people NEVER change!
Write that sentence on a card and stick it onto your bathroom mirror.
And never forget.
yeah, that's not cool
I commend you for being so open.
You even came to a compromise that was very fair.
It sounds like she cannot handle what she is asking of you.
So you should either try your best to talk through this, maybe therapy? But it sounds like y'all are on very different pages.
The way OP describes their night it sounds like between the drinking, fantasizing about their future, and addressing the wedding invitations she had a moment like OP with blurting out what was on her mind. It all became too real and she told him that she was unsure about kids. It was clearly bad timing but better now than after the wedding.
Space is good, especially safe space.
Don’t get stuck on a project just because you think nobody else will want you.
You will have better luck making yourself the project, changing your own quirks, than changing someone else.