She also lost a bunch of friends too. No wonder he dad looked so mad and her mom was sobbing. She really messed up everything.
She should leave that salon immediately even if OP doesn't take her back.
The salon is not the problem… people gossip at work. That's just what they do. I was practicing spanish with a lady at work that's from Colombia. I speak french and englisg.
Almost daily coworker would joke about me dating her. No amount of me telling “I'm more interested in her daughter cause she's my age” has deter them (am in my 30's, her daughter is in her 30's)
She was going to nuke this relationship one way or another.
You mean your ex boyfriend. His boss knew exactly what she was doing, as did your boyfriend, but him trying to gaslight you afterward is twisted. Know your worth—which is above the both of them. He is trash, leave him on the curb where he found her.
Wow, people are quick to send you to the therapist. I'm not on board to that. You just came out an abusive relationship, so you crushing on somebody that's the opposite is not weird. Just remind yourself that that's just a rebound behaviour.
I agree! Jim is a idiot! With double standards. He watches porn, probably pleasuring himself whilst watching and possibly lusting after the women. You listen, no lusting after other men, but he has a problem with you! And calls it cheating! Seriously! The lies to his friend about you knowing his stance on porn! How manipulative is that?? Pack up his things and drop it off to his mates house!
If your not ok with it, then yes. It’s cheating
She also lost a bunch of friends too. No wonder he dad looked so mad and her mom was sobbing. She really messed up everything.
She should leave that salon immediately even if OP doesn't take her back.
The salon is not the problem… people gossip at work. That's just what they do. I was practicing spanish with a lady at work that's from Colombia. I speak french and englisg.
Almost daily coworker would joke about me dating her. No amount of me telling “I'm more interested in her daughter cause she's my age” has deter them (am in my 30's, her daughter is in her 30's)
She was going to nuke this relationship one way or another.
You mean your ex boyfriend. His boss knew exactly what she was doing, as did your boyfriend, but him trying to gaslight you afterward is twisted. Know your worth—which is above the both of them. He is trash, leave him on the curb where he found her.
Wow, people are quick to send you to the therapist. I'm not on board to that. You just came out an abusive relationship, so you crushing on somebody that's the opposite is not weird. Just remind yourself that that's just a rebound behaviour.
I agree! Jim is a idiot! With double standards. He watches porn, probably pleasuring himself whilst watching and possibly lusting after the women. You listen, no lusting after other men, but he has a problem with you! And calls it cheating! Seriously! The lies to his friend about you knowing his stance on porn! How manipulative is that?? Pack up his things and drop it off to his mates house!
This guy is unreal!
I feel like you are wired to want kids or arent, you can never really explain it to someone on the other side of the fence.