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Date: October 30, 2022
I'm 6 foot 2 and have been treated like trash by my highschool love. Does matter if you were taller…a shitty person is a shitty person. You could be 6 foot 7 and make a million dollars a year and she would still bag on you over things. She seems toxic. She has lowered your self esteem, to the point where you take all her abuse because ” who else would want me”
They're is someone out there who won't be a manipulative bitch. Respect yourself… Your gf clearly doesn't.
My rescue parrot said things I've never heard before, in her old owner's voice. Like even 5 yrs after I got her. The first time I had a dog over, she immediately whistled and said, “come here Fido!” Then i realized she must have had a dog named Fido with her previous owner.
Fair enough you don't want to. My hub bathes with our 2 year old girl. I still bathe with my five and two year old daughters. Sometimes my eight year old but not nearly as much now since she's rather independent. We mostly do it because cost of living (uk) is crazy high and we get charged for water consumption.
Your gf does have insecurities issue, by what you have said. Dont lie to her, thats a big no.
Just reassure her nothings going on , as long as theres nothing going on. XD
But that person is his father on whom he is entirely dependent on
You sense something has changed, and things are not the same anymore. Most likely you are right. Some day you would hopefully be able to identify what exactly changed and would be able to put it in words. But until then, looks like you need a different gf because this one is clearly bored of you.
No, there's no solution here. The girlfriend's expectations and entitlements are the problem, and your friend has not created a boundary (likely because she is too dominant personality in the relationship. To solve the problem is to fix her behaviour, which nobody is in a position to do. Sadly, your friend is going to get lost in this relationship with a controlling partner, and the best you can do is hope that at some point he realises the toxicity for what it is, and learns from it. Until then, you're just slowly watching a bro disappear.
He never said what sex his really good friend is. Which could be it's a female and that's WHY the GF wants her sister to go.
El stupido!!
I mean, tbh I would not say it worked out 100% or even call it a win. My kids have major anxiety and trust issues. My ex try's to get them to hate me.
Example, when my oldest was 16, For his b day I took him to paint ball. He was having a blast until his phone died. He wanted me to go back to the house to get the charger because his mom might need to reach him. I Said no, if its an emergency she can call me plus we're have blast. He went in to a full melt down saying, ” you don't understand, she's going to get upset. shes going to be super pissed off. please”. I'm like no, She cant be treating you like that. My youngest and I had a blast for the rest of the time we were there. my youngest isn't that bad compared to my oldest but he does fear their mom too.
You're allowed to feel weird about it, anyone who tells you you can't is wrong, but I think I understand where your husband is coming from.
And then my husband said “she’s special because she stuck around. I tried to push her away like I do to most people but she stayed.”
This to me is actually a very valid answer, I've given similar responses when asked what it would take for me to have another relationship. The person needs to be able to deal with my kind of crazy. You deal with your husband's brand of crazy and still love him for it when others have run the other way.
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It would bug me too, but this is what your generation do. If you wanted exclusivity from date one you should have said that.
You should be with who you want to be with. Then it's up to your parents to choose between love and hate. If they choose hate, so be it.
They tell me I should have enough because I spend time with their parents and know who their friends are.
They then claim they try because they try to come and meet my parents too
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No it's not fine in a work environment where bosses are around (or their spies are). What you do at your own locations is one thing but a work environment is a 100% no-no.
Harsh truth. Ditch her. That's not a mistake. It never is with that sort of thing. Sorry to be so blunt but it's true. It could happen again or it might not, but past behavior is very much indicative of future behavior.
Should you break off? YES.
He tells you, you're perfect but wants to change you because he likes big tits? That's manipulation.
I never said you coerced her into having the kids. But I can see her deciding that she doesn't want you anywhere near her -always uncomfortable- private parts.
I guess when they tell you about the joys of a big family they forget the little detail that having children can do a lot of damage to a woman's body, but that most of it is something private, that's not discussed, because what mother would say she regrets having her precious baby because now she has hemorrhoids. She deals with them and life goes on.
I have no idea what this means. She should try and tap into the feminine space to learn how to communicate.
That’s a good average in an older relationship or more typical libido relationship.
Twice a week for someone this horny is like saying once a month for the rest of us lol.
You sit down with his mother, look her in the eyes, and ask to talk about these things you’ve heard. Tell her they hurt you.
Stop using a possible self-diagnosis to avoid having adult conversations.
Empathy. That’s what you should feel.
Statistically, couples who move in after being together for less than a year are doomed to fail. You can't possibly truly know someone in that time, as you are learning. It didn't go unnoticed that the first nice things you say about her are that she cooks and cleans, is a nurse and would be a good mother. None of these are personality traits, these are actions. You don't actually like her! You like what she does for you! Do both of you a favor and end this, you aren't happy and as long as you're still in this, you're wasting both yours and her time.
I lived through parents who wanted to stay together 'for the sake of the children' myself. They ended it off 8 years after an incident. They should never have been together.
I hear you out guys. The general opinion seems to be to throw her away. I figure that's kinda too late and honestly that's not what I'm hoping for.
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I just don’t know what to do. I love him so much but he can be a real fucking dick sometimes.
At first I think I just excused this behaviour due to his parents, which isn’t his fault, & the fact he hasn’t had a real relationship before. Him still living at home & not having real responsibilities. (& clearly some heavily rose tinted glasses). But at this point now it is just getting to be too much.
I feel like I have communicated this to him many times before so it isn’t something I just bottle away, & now it’s blown up. He is aware of this being a thing, but it’s almost like he just doesn’t see it as an issue.
He just gets defensive so easily & that doesn’t allow him to listen to me & understand that I am not just nagging him or telling him off or being rude but I am desperately trying to communicate the issues so we can fix them bc I do want to be with him & love him.
I just feel like he just takes advantage & I don’t know how to make him see how unfair this is.
I want to be his girlfriend, not his maid, & not his mother or caregiver. I want an equal & balanced relationship where I am helped & my life is made easier too, not harder, & where he wants to do that. But it’s like if it doesn’t benefit him directly he doesn’t do it.
Again sorry for the rant but what do I do?
How can I communicate with him & get through to him in a way that isn’t going to make him feel attacked or defensive?
I just feel like it’s ruining what we were &/or what we could be. I feel like I’ve slowly turned from a loving, patient & insanely supportive girlfriend, to an angry, irritable caregiver.
I have literally no patience for it anymore & feel like I have excused his behaviour for too long.
I don’t want to be irritated by him all the time. I love him & I want it to work.
I just wish he could see all the times I’ve tried & tried to communicate with him isn’t to be annoying or nag or have a go at him, but it’s bc I bloody love him & I just wanted it to work. It just makes me want to cry lol.
Right, like what is there to overthink. Fuck that shit.
I used to professionally model nude and boudoir and I would never put them on the wall personally.
If I was married and my husband told another woman he had a crush on her, it would break my heart. But then to know that she came home and told it to you, I don't know what to say. It seems like she is more of a best friend than someone that romantically loves you.
Then you shall get shafted, esp once you have a kid. You can't force a lazy person to work unfortunately if you'll just let them access all of your money.
I fully agree with this! Turn it around on him to get him to see what you see or move on.
If your gunna do this, have the balls to atleast end the marriage first before you break your wives heart even more.
The preferable answer is, talk to your wife, talk to a professional. Therapy helps. But don't be a snake in the grass.
Why would your friend try to make you jealous. Unless she has previously bullied you for your small chest or taunted you this is toxic and irrational thinking. Your insecurity is coming out. She just wearing what she feels comfortable with, why should she have to cover up for you or anyone else? Your mental is pretty insecure and while that sucks, it’s your responsibility to control your emotions and not attack others for your feelings. Go to therapy and stop being toxic to yourself and your friend.
No? I really don't even know why you're still in contact. His cheating partner is having his baby. Good for him? Are you overjoyed?
Like I really don't understand this.
Yes, you both screwed up. But this is why you move on with life without them. You're not there to be his emotional crutch. That's her job now.
It was his first time cheating. They’ve been married 6 years, together 10 yrs. I thought it was meant to be because we feel something we have never felt before. This is also my first time falling in love. I’ve had relationships before but I never felt this way. I’m sorry you had to go through that too. Thank you for commenting I appreciate it a lot
A person has to want to change if they're going to change. Do you think she wants to change?
I feel the need to clear my name bc I don't want him thinking that I'd ever do something like that. We we're doing good before this. I probably shouldn't try and prove myself but it sucks when someone you love thinking you're capable of something like that when you have them no reason to. I'm trying not to let it get me down
My sons father completely understood that sex was out of the question for me after I had our child. Until I was ready. He was super supportive and we had a little joke that it might not happen until Julaugust 37th. Because that makes no sense and I couldn’t give him a time frame of when. He was so patient. It took me a while. I just didn’t feel right down there yet. But it did come back so don’t worry. What I would be worried about is your PPD. Doesn’t mean you are sad…like me I was frustrated a lot. He needs to support you in all of those things. Your body just did some amazing shit and if he can’t see that, it’s truly unfortunate. Congratulations knew mama. I know you’ve got this. Im glad you have your brother who helps you! Lean to him if needed. Would having a family meeting with more than just your husband work? Have your brother there? Maybe mom and dad too? Maybe his parents as well? That way y’all are all on the same page! Try and have a conversation with your husband. I only had one child for a reason…. Please know how amazing you are and know that you are not alone in your feelings or physical. Our bodies are so amazing and you just grew a whole human inside yours!
Don't understand what's wrong
Pretty obvious what the problem is, you wrote it in your post
she admitted that her watch is keep vibrating because her mom is asking where she is. Her mom called her and she had to go.
She said that she hided to her mom that she was meeting me, and that she never used dating app before
She really can't. She also doesn't have time for a boyfriend because she should be working every second she can while she's young. She's already 26 and paid none of the debt off even though she's living at home. Her expenses are never going to be lower than right now.