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First, I'm sorry you are going through this. I'm going to give you some advice here as someone who went through things with a disabled parent for a while. It may seem like it's advice about her, but really, this is about making your life easier.
1) Debt collectors can't do anything to you as long as your name isn't on the debt. If they call you, you don't have to answer or respond. At worst, tell them “I am not (gf's name) and therefore I cannot help you.” They will try all sorts of illegal and dirty tricks. Don't fall for them. At this point, her debts are #15,987 on the list of things to be worried about. Let them default.
2) If you are in the US, you need to get her on Medicare asap, and your state medicaid if your state has it. If she can still sign things, you can get appointed as Power of Attorney. If you start applying for state medicaid for her, you will likely get a case worker at some point. TELL THIS PERSON EVERYTHING. They won't have all of the answers, no one does, but they will start to point you in the right directions for the help you need and resources you can access (i.e. getting therapy covered by medicare, etc.)
3) Enlist help for your life NOW. Her family is off the table, but what about her friends? Your friends? Do you have someone who can come over and hang with her/watch her for a few hours here and there? Think back to when you told people in your life what was happening. All of those people who then said “well if there's anything I can do…” HIT THEM UP. More often than not, as awkward as it is, people want to help but have no idea what or how to do. You need support. You need to find a support group for caregivers so you can get some air. Be in a room with people who've been through it, who already know the tricks, who can share in the sad, happy, and funny but dark moments and understand what you are going through.
You are a good person for doing so much. But you can't do it all.
Drop her like a hard potato. People hardly ever change especially if they have these traits. Make yourself a service and see if that’s what you want to marry. You are getting to know her other side. If you marry her, you will have to deal with that long term. Not the best option to be honest.
I'd be concerned and confused too if my partner did that but I would leave it at asking why. Arguing with logic against people that show no logic will just get you in an idiot argument
As a man That sounds unhinged to me
They are to busy reading feminist literature…
Yea I need to do some work myself on my Deck. Sand it. Couple squeaky boards and then finish It off with a new coat
I'd be jumping up with joy if that was done.
Agreed. OP, this made my skin crawl. Stay far away from this woman. There’s a reason she’s not pursuing men her age, and it isn’t because you’re “so much more mature” than they are.
Well it is not normal to him as well, because then he wouldn’t hide it if it’s “normal” behaviour. Respect yourself, you’re gonna respect his “rules” and question yourself is being with a this kind of a scumbag normal?
This is the way to handle this, OP. You’ve now positioned yourself into accepting this treatment, so you have to basically “get off your knees” so to speak. Stop accepting this treatment in the moment it happens and ACT accordingly. Words are not enough and letting it slide is going to put you back where you don’t want to be. Assert your personhood, your partner hood and your motherhood in this relationship by not letting him treat you this way any longer. Hey also includes fighting. If he tells, calls you names, etc…walk away! “When you’re ready to discuss this like adults, I’m more than willing to do that. But you WILL NOT talk to me like this anymore.” And WALK AWAY.