I've been in your shoes many times. Please take my advice so that my many shitty relationships means something. I know how this ends. He's never going to change. He doesn't respect you as a person. It's going to start showing in other ways. You deserve to be respected. You deserve to be loved properly. Real men want to help you carry the mental and physical load. You can vent to this random stranger anytime
She essentially robbed you of your choice and possibly robbed you 6 years.
Idk if i could come back from that.
She was nineteen, maybe young and stupid, and mistakes happen as we all are human. This is an explanation, not an excuse. What she did was very selfish and it's up to you if you want to try and forgive her.
The one thing / only thing she has going for her now is that she fessed up on her own before marriage, knowing full well that you might leave her.
Take your time with this decision, for her the cheating was six years ago, for you it just happened. I'd go on a weekend trip to a spa (or something like that) alone and think on it by myself.
You two are sexually incompatible. There's no reconciling this and you shouldn't marry someone because you want to get in their pants.
I've been in your shoes many times. Please take my advice so that my many shitty relationships means something. I know how this ends. He's never going to change. He doesn't respect you as a person. It's going to start showing in other ways. You deserve to be respected. You deserve to be loved properly. Real men want to help you carry the mental and physical load. You can vent to this random stranger anytime
She essentially robbed you of your choice and possibly robbed you 6 years.
Idk if i could come back from that.
She was nineteen, maybe young and stupid, and mistakes happen as we all are human. This is an explanation, not an excuse. What she did was very selfish and it's up to you if you want to try and forgive her.
The one thing / only thing she has going for her now is that she fessed up on her own before marriage, knowing full well that you might leave her.
Take your time with this decision, for her the cheating was six years ago, for you it just happened. I'd go on a weekend trip to a spa (or something like that) alone and think on it by myself.