Feels like it would come pretty close. She invited somebody back into her life that she insisted she had cut contact with. And is continually trying to break up the marriage. Seems pretty fucking serious man
Yes, you are absolutely dealing with a womanizer. Don’t waste your time, he sounds like a schmuck. Did he love you? I mean yeah, sure. But that word gets thrown around a lot, what do you mean by that? Does he think fondly of the time he had with you and does the possibility of not seeing you again make him sad? Yeah probably. But love is also a verb as they say and this guy has done nothing to commit to or even be honest with you. Not very loving.
Why should we have to put our own comfort aside for someone else? Why do men have to go down on us? It’s not bringing them physical pleasure, and if we aren’t able to relax, it isn’t bringing us any either.
He wants to do it because he thinks it should being her pleasure, and he’s butthurt that his masculinity is taking a hit. It has nothing to do with bringing her pleasure, or he’d respect that she doesn’t want it right now.
okay, so it sounds like the complaints were about your work, not simply that they didnt like you, though it is possible that you simply didnt mesh with their work culture, which is fine. It just seems like “they didnt like me” is a cop-out and wont serve to help you moving forwards.
But that may be irrelevant to your relationship issue
Yes leave her to it. She’s probably not that interested. The only other reason could be mental health issues such as anxiety causing her to flake.
Feels like it would come pretty close. She invited somebody back into her life that she insisted she had cut contact with. And is continually trying to break up the marriage. Seems pretty fucking serious man
Yes, you are absolutely dealing with a womanizer. Don’t waste your time, he sounds like a schmuck. Did he love you? I mean yeah, sure. But that word gets thrown around a lot, what do you mean by that? Does he think fondly of the time he had with you and does the possibility of not seeing you again make him sad? Yeah probably. But love is also a verb as they say and this guy has done nothing to commit to or even be honest with you. Not very loving.
Stop going to his place and tell him the truth about it.
Why should we have to put our own comfort aside for someone else? Why do men have to go down on us? It’s not bringing them physical pleasure, and if we aren’t able to relax, it isn’t bringing us any either.
He wants to do it because he thinks it should being her pleasure, and he’s butthurt that his masculinity is taking a hit. It has nothing to do with bringing her pleasure, or he’d respect that she doesn’t want it right now.
What do folks get for making up these nonsense stories? This one isn't even well done.
okay, so it sounds like the complaints were about your work, not simply that they didnt like you, though it is possible that you simply didnt mesh with their work culture, which is fine. It just seems like “they didnt like me” is a cop-out and wont serve to help you moving forwards.
But that may be irrelevant to your relationship issue