Eh, it happened. She admitted. If things are good now then they will even be better going forward. Don’t get stuck in naive picture perfect idea of marriage. We’re just animals 🙂
I agree with everything here except talking about it “exhaustively” one last time. Retroactive jealousy often includes intrusive thoughts, mental images, etc. that will be made worse by giving her boyfriend more details/information. I’d typically agree with you but retroactive jealousy is a form of OCD & the less he knows the better.
Trust me, this is not going to work out in the long run. Been there; done that. He's not going to suddenly change his entire diet and palate. Not gonna happen. You're going to get more and more frustrated and resentful as you watch an important part of your life wither and atrophy. Just end it now and date a man who eats like a man, not a toddler.
Are you sure these people are actually your friends? I know that’s a lot of friends to lose, but I’d be questioning if I want these people in my life at all if that’s how they treat me.
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Eh, it happened. She admitted. If things are good now then they will even be better going forward. Don’t get stuck in naive picture perfect idea of marriage. We’re just animals 🙂
Are there any rules or boundaries set.
I agree with everything here except talking about it “exhaustively” one last time. Retroactive jealousy often includes intrusive thoughts, mental images, etc. that will be made worse by giving her boyfriend more details/information. I’d typically agree with you but retroactive jealousy is a form of OCD & the less he knows the better.
Trust me, this is not going to work out in the long run. Been there; done that. He's not going to suddenly change his entire diet and palate. Not gonna happen. You're going to get more and more frustrated and resentful as you watch an important part of your life wither and atrophy. Just end it now and date a man who eats like a man, not a toddler.
Are you sure these people are actually your friends? I know that’s a lot of friends to lose, but I’d be questioning if I want these people in my life at all if that’s how they treat me.
Exactly. He raised them, and they don't have anyone else. They're his kids.
The hot truth is that you did what he intended to do but didn’t have the courage to pull the trigger. Now he’s blaming you.
It’s not your fault. Your relationship was already over.