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With the strong implication that he needs to protect himself because of witch hunts like the people posting here saying he raped her.
Lol You've been lucky.
I've encountered men I dated who even worked in security that have been outed as pedophiles….all checks, screenings, etc totally clear. Totally naked working, seemingly family oriented.
You never know people. Better to take everything into account rather than burying your head in the sand and ignoring a guy's online activity. I'll look at everything.
I think you've tried you best here, but there's nothing else that you can do. It's down to him.
I know it hurts because you love him, but I think I would tell him until he ends this arrangement with his mum, you don't want to see him. It's that or accept the situation and carry on like this always.
You cannot change people. Only they can change themselves.
So he didn’t tell you he had gotten the things BUT he also did not hide them as y’all exchanged these gifts in front of you and other friends. It doesn’t sound like he’s doing anything with her he was just a dumbass about how he went about it for sure. If you think he’s faithful and this slight isn’t a deal breaker just have a serious talk with him that in your eyes it’s inappropriate to do such things without at the very least discussing it with you first because tho it may not have been a sexual thing between the 2 of them it was indeed sexual in nature and thus out of bounds. If it is a deal breaker, if it’s something so big to you that you don’t think you can forgive it then you know what to do. I hope whichever your choice it all works out as best as possible. Good luck!
ILLEGAL! Holy fucking shit! STOP! YOU are going to get into some serious trouble. Don't be stupid. Stop the process immediately and cut off all communication with her.
“Oh, but she says she doesn't even really want the visa.” Homie. Come the fuck on. Remove your emotions from the situation and engage your brain. It does not matter one tiny bit how much you love her. It does not matter one tiny bit what she SAYS her intentions are. Humans are capable of lying. Don't get yourself into trouble for this person. Even if she's being 100% honest (doubt) the risk to yourself is not worth it.
I desperately want to flame you lol DUMP HER and CANCEL THIS for the love of god. No offense but cannot believe people are this pathetic that they would allow themselves to be so blatantly taken advantage of this way
I think he might not have had many sexual experiences or maybe they were not good , but I’m here wanting to be with him dispite all that
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He works a normal office work week. He's an accountant. There used to be more OT, but his job's actually chilled out in recent years. Covid and kids has definitely taken a toll on our romantic relationship, but this specific issue extends back to before that. He has always had issues with self love – his mum in particular is terrible for that (calls herself fat all the time, makes a big deal about weight). I have done what I can to counteract that, but I can't lie to him. His physical fitness has markedly deteriorated over the decade we've been together.
Therapy isn’t just for couples on the brink of breaking up! Also sounds like she needs a vacation. Without the little one.
“I already asked you twice if you wanted some dumplings, and twice you said “no” so it seems ridiculous of me to apologize to you when I had already asked you twice if you wanted any, I do not appreciate this behavior”
Yeah, he might be upset because someone dares to breathe in a space he paid for, I guess.
Or, maybe, because he woke up and chose abuse.
I don't know…
You can co tact police and tell them he is threatening you. If you have screenshots even better.
someone from her past “that felt they could have become something”
i respect u either way but lemme just say this: dump her, u deserve better
It’s not a boundary, it’s controlling. A boundary would be “please don’t bring up your dad and his mistress around me.” This is controlling who she sees outside her mothers sphere. Understandably the mom is hurt but no reason to then lose her child too as a result unless that child is actively trying to hurt her and not just Persuing a relationship with her father.
Oh, honey.
John is dating someone else.
If you’re looking for long term stability in a relationship, you should get out now. This is based on the age comment; I found the couch thing a bit confusing. You’re going to continue to age. There’s no way around it. You didn’t elaborate on what his age limit for attractiveness is, but you’ll inevitably age out. If he doesn’t respect you enough to give you the space you need, what will you have when you’ve become too old for him? He might be one of those guys who is immature for their entire life.
Movies, are just that movies. Trust your gut, because your gut is right, neither of them will be a good relationship, and here’s why. The first guy sounds codependent due to how he felt overly responsible for his exes depression and often codependency seems very intense. They can often care deeply about feelings but also they enmesh too much, where they can lose their identity and you might end up feeling smothered. The second guy sounds avoidantly attached as avoidants break up when they’re struggling rather than seek support from their partners. This dynamic isn’t healthy and ends up undermining the relationship. Both these patterns are fixable, but often need therapy to do so. You’re probsbly better off to say thanks but no thanks and find someone who can commit to you in a healthy way from the get go.
Did he have it insured by any chance ?
I am sorry but what? We talked through instagram. If i start date or if i am friends with people i look them up.. are you not guilty of looking up people you date? It took me 3 minutes to find this out. It is not like i spent whole night digging stuff up. He mentioned that he wanted a serious relationship so don’t you think for a person wanting that it is a bit shit to lie about having a whole ass family? And i was very into hanging out with him hence I went out, but after spending some time I realized we are better off as friends.
It sounds like you need to end it and move on. Not in a month or two but now. Both of you want really different things from a relationship and it doesn’t sound like either of you are happy with a compromise.
This, also forgiving does not mean forgetting what occurred. Be honest to anyone who asks that while yes T did apologize, you still have feelings that you can't just turn off. This event is connected to your past relationship so it is going to take some time for you to process and heal.
First, thanks for you answer, but no we don’t have a car. I’m considering buying a motorcycle so I can pick her up go at her house, and maybe a weekend out could be a good idea.
Thanks bud ??
Your bf has a very twisted worldview, and I personally would not be hitching my wagon to anyone like that.
He thinks he'll be more respected working in retail?
I feel bad for Max and your daughter because they’re going to one day figure out what the fuck you did and it’s going to hit them like a ton of bricks and it’s going to break their hearts. I feel bad for them and your son.
Have the day you deserve
Also this is probably the only time I hope someone gets cheated on.
Genetics don’t make you owed anything. Your behavior is bad, so you have to deal with the consequences of your own shitty treatment of your son and his wife.
I guess I don’t understand why you care so much if he has pictures from past relationships on his social media. Do you expect everyone you date to not have had a life before you? Is everyone you ever date expected to scrub their social media completely of pictures from past relationships?
Don't do it. She's using you as her emotional support cushion for feels and tingles. You deserve to be more than her back up plan
Time for a new husband.
Do you are good enough to do all the heavy lifting of parenting but don’t matter when he feels like it. I’d be rethinking my marriage.
research scientists make shit money, that's not similar
I’m okay to provide as long as he is struggling career wise. Like if he says that I have an unpaid gig but it will help me in career I can provide but when he I see him texting with a girl and scrolling insta it burns the hell out of me
But are the pictures of people cuddling/kissing?
Oh I don’t think he’s without blame, but if OP doesn’t want herself or him around Mary Anne (which I don’t think is wholly unreasonable) but also wants him to just vaguely make up reasons why he can’t go to something (I find this unreasonable) then I’d have a different response vs her just wanting him to take responsibility for the stupid shit he said/did that put tension in their relationship.
I think it’s unfair to silence your partner to the extent that they’d have to continually make up reasons why they couldn’t go. Eventually the friends will just stop asking him to do things if he’s saying no a lot of the time. It unintentionally or intentionally will end up isolating him from his friends.
It I also don’t think he should throw OP under the bus because he’s the one that fucked him. The boundary in their relationship is because of HIM not OP.
Depending on how integrated Mary Anne is in the friend group additional advice might be to get a more nuanced boundary. Like he can’t go solo if she’s there, but most group things with OP are included.
It sounds like he just wanted a place to talk about his problems that he may not have felt that weren’t important to being enough. Maybe it was just bugging him at the time so he decided to get it off his chest and didn’t want to make you feel bad so he came to a bunch of strangers who will listen for a quick minute