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Dgdex, 22 y.o.
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Date: October 23, 2022
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Nope! I probably won’t unless we get closer and spend me time together, now I will just sit on it
You did amazing, sweetheart! I am so, so proud of you for standing up for yourself!
You did something many people twice your age don't have the proverbial balls to do.
You will heal, you will move on and you will find someone who truly and genuinely deserves you.
Be as proud of yourself as we all are!
If you think you're ready now just imagine the place you'll be in, say, 5 years. Give yourself time to enjoy adulthood before adding a child.
if she is flaking, you need to get off ur phone and go out with ur friends. literally, anything you can think of alright.
There will be new people you'll meet and enjoy the company.
ask her for her phone number or ig, maybe say something like im gonna be gone for the week and ask for her ig or number so you can stay in contact together
Is that enough for you to stay satisfied? It doesn’t seem like it considering you mentioned wanting to break up with him. I suggest you just rip the bandaid off and tell him you’re are done!
For this guy's sake, just break up with him
You normally get a song, a cake and a gift for your birthday. This list is ridiculous.
People who usually want to get married fast do so because they are not being real and want to tie you down before the mask comes off. 5 years is a very long time to wait to get married. I think normally a year to 3 yeas is what most people do! Being long distance he can hide a lot from you. Take you time. Be engaged for over a year! Do not let him dictate the time line! Voice your opinions to him about your timeline.
Wow
Bail. Tell her mom, call the cops, and wipe your fucjing hands of it man. This was a seventh month relationship. You both need serious therapeutic help and to be separated from each other permanently.
Forgive him by telling him that you're going to work on yourself without him in your life. Forgive yourself for putting up with it for however long it was, and learn from it and make sure you know what you want from your future partner and do not tolerate anything less than what you deserve, which is love, kindness, and respect.
U find her attractive she finds u. Get her done.
(An look for an new place at same time just in case lol)
Can you chill out? You don't know this person at all. All you have is tidbits from a reddit post. Let the person decide if she's in danger or not.
Which part are you asking about?
So it's OK for him to swing his dick all over. I'm with him. Sorry not sorry
Why is everyone forgetting there's 2 kids?? One is at school 6ish hours 5 days a week. Still needs to be cared for the other 18 hrs 5 days and 24 hr 2 days during the school year.
Marriage counseling isn't therapy
The hell it isn't. My husband and I are going through marriage counseling. It IS therapy, it's therapy for our marriage.
I'm very similar but it's more because unless I actually care and am interested in what the person is saying I can look them straight in the eyes and can see they're speaking but my brains like, fuck you.
So 1% of me focuses on what they're saying while I think about other things so I automatically respond without actually knowing what I'm saying because I'm not paying attention. But I also believe what people say because I can't read sarcasm.
Not at this age. They are only 20 and have been with OP since they were 14. Is highly likely that this is simply a personal discovery of who they think they might be.
I have I’m on my Journey and is not like I’m obese, I at least deserve an honest response when I ask. If this is the reason why he is being like this then I don’t think I want to keep married. Why would I want to be with some one that only wants me for my looks when we suppose to love each other. I’m not saying trying to look better for my parter is bad and I’m doing my best in everything but at least he could be honest the countless times I asked why all times trying to be understanding.
Such a bizzare world. If a man doesn't pay for your food and drinks he's not interested… no mention of how the date went, just a blanket disconnect if he doesn't get his wallet out.
Drop them all. Your friend knew the situation yet proceeded to sleep with him. Your friend does not care of your feelings nor does the guy care you have friends he can sleep with. Friends don’t do that. I dropped my whole friend group bc they acted like this and guess what I’m doing way better without them
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You obviously did something to make him angry. No way you would admit it on here if you're to blame.
Anybody come to the conclusion he was the one cheating and that was his confession. So he knows he fucked up, she was a good one, and now he is running in shame.
It's not that, it's just I've seen so many people on this sub jump immediately to 'just break up' and I wanted to make it clear that it was never on the table in the first place.
We're worried, probably too worried, because this is a completely new situation for us and we both have other responsibilities too other than work. We just want to know how other people do it.
It’s OK to be insecure. We all get insecure about things. What is not? OK, is being insecure and putting the responsibility on the other person.
I don’t think it’s the picture that’s bothering you, I think it’s the secrecy of it. Since you went in there, and you didn’t find anything, actually incriminating as far as local people, or things of that nature, maybe you can find some security in that.
I didn’t answer because I don’t have to explore myself to you. You came with the attitude that I did something to provoke the bullying. I . DON’T.ANSWER.VICTIM.BLAMERS.
But you are a good example of what I’m going through. I don’t explain myself good enough. You started spinning lies based by your own assumptions.
Anyone who is interested in understanding what I meant that it was very easy for people to believe rumors please read this users comment because it started exactly this way
Yeah that's weird
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Break up with your bf, go be alone for a while, maybe get some therapy, work on your sense of self worth and then come back to this post. You will realize this relationship was toxic too and you deserve way better. Not all men are like this. You deserve someone who values you and respects you ❤️
Why?
How much money was your daughter given, just curious what the going rate for child bribery these days
He cooks for me and looks after me when I’m with him, but I need to be close to feel close and he likes to have space at times. but I struggle to respect his space as it makes me feel distant and we are not compatible in that way I believe and you’re right
This is a comment you made. This makes the context so much different.
You are in a toxic relationship and you keep asking for something he can't or won't give.
For crying out loud, find someone that will give you what you need instead of expecting someone to change.
Have some self respect.
Fuck, all these posts about people that get used and abused and ask how to change their torturer rather than finding someone that won't treat you like shit is astounding.
My husband loves my bare face. He knows I like make up. Something he did was tell me what styles of makeup he likes on me and that was his olive branch. Perhaps if you can explain to her that 1) you see her as beautiful 2) accept that she likes to wear makeup, ask her what looks she’s into 3) complement her skills and give her pointer on what you find appealing. It maybe not just about makeup but her feeling like you’re interested in things she is into. She’s responsible for her own insecurities but you can be a positive influence in her life while she finds confidence.
Your wife needs to see a psychiatrist ASAP.
Should the second ‘husband’ of the title have been ‘brother-in-law’?
It should be “brother”. He left his wife for his brother's widow.
I was expecting a story where a man left his wife for the wife of a man he used to be married to.
Also the only reason I clicked on the post. That would have been an interesting story.
And that's pretty much best case scenario, divorced with a kid you didn't plan for. Fucking bleak man lol
I think it’s important you tell your wife how you feel as soon as you can. It might cause issues when you tell her but those issues will only get worse the longer you wait to share your feelings. I think it’s the same case for your friend but having that conversation with him is secondary to working this out with your wife
That’s my situation too. I moved to the city from a regional area, whereas he grew up here. It’s a tough life.
There’s a man out there who dreams of sleeping in a big pile with you and your dogs. I hope you decide to find him.
So it seems like your girlfriend had no remorse, your brother had no remorse, your parents have no remorse. There are a few things in life where you can legit cut out your family members, and no one would blame you or try to change your mind, and this totally is one of them
I know they do, but men are not happy about it, especially if they not cheated, and this lost of trust, like here, will most times end a relationship
Maybe she’s realised she can’t keep up this intensity? It’s great fun getting to know someone but life keeps happening and it can become all too much if you’re so invested in another person.
My wife and I always fell right on the same line thankfully which is right between you two, I think anything OTHER than a consensual act by both persons is reasonable to excuse the abortion but given the availability of contraceptives and such that any child created by 2 willing partners is ment to be.
I am an adopted child born to a teenage mom who was given away before I was born, I lived a blessed life with my adoptive parent's and 33 years later met my birth mother and connected with her family (but not my bio-dad or his)
I am a mistake that my birth mother took ownership of and carried me to term but made sure I was given a great home with people incapable of having children.
I have always said I would have understood if they had terminated me, I get it but as my wife and children constantly remind me I am the only me there will ever be and I am loved.
I think this is a serious discussion but through reasonable planning and prep you should never have to confront these issues and I wish that no one did but I do believe this is worth destroying your life together over.
Could she be his daughter? Else I believe blackmail.
He's absolutely cheating and is sugar daddying. No doubt in my mind after reading your post. Sorry. Put a recorder under his car seat and a gps in his trunk.
Thanks for the birthday wishes!
I had a feeling that might be the case. I enjoy the gym and walking on my own but I think I should expand my social circle and hobbies. I don't have a big group of friends though either
It sounds like you were very invested in this relationship and cared deeply about this person. However, it also seems like there were some communication issues and conflicting expectations between you two. It's important to be clear and open with your partner about your feelings and boundaries, but it's also important to respect their boundaries and give them the space they need.
It's understandable that you wanted to know where you stood in the relationship, but it's also important to approach these conversations in a calm and respectful manner. Blowing up and forcing someone to give you an answer can create unnecessary pressure and stress for both of you.
It's also important to recognize when someone might not be emotionally ready for a relationship, and to respect their decision if they feel like they need more time or space. It's possible that this person was not ready for a committed relationship, or that they were not interested in a relationship with you specifically. It's important to not take it personally and to move on if that's the case.
Overall, communication, respect, and understanding are key in any relationship. It's important to listen to your own needs and boundaries, as well as your partner's, and to approach any conflicts or misunderstandings with an open mind and heart.
It’s not even march 3rd yet……
Wait, she ruined his relationship with his friend because his friend cheated on her? The mental gymnastics! Just say you’re insecure.
Not a chance in hell.
Thank you I needed that
The Offspring said it best with “Spare Me The Details” I mean get the fuck out of there for sure. Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. But I feel like this is just what long term relationships are. honestly, “happy couples” are likely just one kept in the dark by the other till the day they get found out lmao. “True love” is a fucking joke.
Dude she has a kid. She has to think ahead. When you date someone with a child, you have to take them into consideration. Do the interview, if you get it then cool but you best prepare her and talk about your future, like yesterday
As the title suggests, I’m looking for feedback and suggestions about how to strike a balance between being thankful for a gift but also expressing the disappointment when the gift is at odds with something you’d want, and surprised your partner (who is otherwise normally really great) would pick something they know is problematic.
I will just say that statistically, at least in the US, men leave their sick wives at a staggering rate – much, much more often than women leave sick husbands. Have you had any sort of illness since you’ve been together? Anything where you were feeling really bad compared to a typical day? If so, how did he behave?
Yeah, from the way you handled the conversation,it sounds like there’s no need to follow up. You mention you felt like you had to check in on her—listen to these feelings, they are your instincts and they are usually right.
And yeah, I feel you with the people trying to take advantage of your kindness. It took me (is still taking me?) a long time to learn that those people are not your people: you’ll find those who appreciate your kindness and treat you kindly back. Those people exist. Don’t focus on the bad ones. Don’t waste your mental and emotional energy on them. Keep being kind and follow your instinct. Don’t let the harsh world break you, my friend. You are important. I’m rooting for you.
He really SA’d you and then told you you were the problem and made you feel bad for reflexively defending yourself against an attack.
Have you confronted him about this after reading all these comments? Really curious to hear what his explanation was, bc it sounds like he’s starting to gaslight you about his actions and your reactions and what it’s okay for him to do to you. Abusers start “small”.
By your “definition” every strictly gay biological male who's never had sex with a woman is a virgin. That's dumb.
This!
Honey, you're drowning in a glass of water.
You do not need his permission to break up with him. Drop him, and fast.
He's escalating the abuse REALLY QUICKLY. Do not meet him again, block him and tell everyone about him. And I mean everyone. Do not meet this pervert psycho ever again.
You are miserable and you know you're better than this. Why is he giving you orders? And why are you doing what he says????? Also, your friends are right, please harden your backbone. You deserve much better.
As a way to do that, I think it would be wise to actually tell your parents. If they are trustworthy, they'll be a great help. You're allowed to make mistakes. If not, any other trustworthy friend that doesn't just complain about your relationship and actually helps you. This WILL escalate. Be careful, please.