I think she’s stuck on the “we should have to” idea. As while we could afford the car, it would delay our saving for a down payment. Thank you for the reassurance, I definitely feel guilty but don’t want to sacrifice my job happiness.
Fair point, but given the circumstances of her life irl, i'm not so sure. Without going into too much detail, she has, in her words “0 friends irl” and all her friends are live!. Shes said multiple times that she just wants the physical feeling of someone, which makes me think she is just using me for that and doesn't want to pursue a relationship.
I'm thinking the same. My ex told me he never wanted to get married, and it's stupid. He got married 2 years after we broke up.
It just gave me the notion that I wasn't good enough to marry anyone, especially him.
Maybe she never felt validated by ex.
I think she’s stuck on the “we should have to” idea. As while we could afford the car, it would delay our saving for a down payment. Thank you for the reassurance, I definitely feel guilty but don’t want to sacrifice my job happiness.
Fair point, but given the circumstances of her life irl, i'm not so sure. Without going into too much detail, she has, in her words “0 friends irl” and all her friends are live!. Shes said multiple times that she just wants the physical feeling of someone, which makes me think she is just using me for that and doesn't want to pursue a relationship.