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Room for live sex video chat Devika_Malhotra
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Date: November 17, 2022
Thank you for your advice I appreciate it and I'd definitely like to go the constructive way and keep him ? its just a difficult situation because I don't want him to think I'm trying to start an argument or piss him off but I'll try my best to work on what you said.
Nah. At that point it's a person too weak-willed to function as an adult and they should be institutionalized.
I think this may be a dealbreaker, sadly š Iām autistic as well and luckily grew up with an understanding mom (despite being oblivious about autism). All kids, autistic or not, deserve to be told when something is wrong rather than punished for it. (physical) Punishment is cruel, yeah, but itās also plain ineffective. I think you know your own boundaries and I donāt think thisāll be an easy thing to ignore long-term.
its possible to think of consequences before choosing to drink
Then I guess thatās a haram on this part ?
You didnāt make him feel like heās not good enough for you. He is just insecure and has a low self esteem. That really isnāt anything you did because as you mentioned that is a result of his past. Donāt let his flaws make you doubt who you are.
I know you said his love language is quality time but often times our love languages are what we missed out on from our parents (typically the parent of the opposite gender). So I would be willing to bet that his love language or close second is words of affirmation. You can share with him that you love him (if you are there) and reiterate that you want to be with him. It can take some time to build somebodyās self esteem but at the end of the day he has to put in the work as well.
It honestly sounds like he needs some therapy to resolve his childhood trauma and work on why he has such bad self esteem. Though this has to be something he wants to do for himself and not something you can want for him.
If you are being good to him and you are happy with your relationship, there isnāt much more you can do. Please donāt feel guilty as he is his own person in charge of his own thought process and you shouldnāt be responsible for how he thinks of your relationship when you arenāt doing or saying anything g to make him feel otherwise!
Get ready to be cheated on by her when her “shitty” memory comes into play. I've been smoking weed since I was 13 and my memory isn't so bad that I forget who I've had sex with. Your GF is using weed as an excuse and it's pathetic. Break up with her before she breaks your heart.
You're right about testing being immature. But what do I do now? I want to trust her still. Is that ok? But then, should I admit to the test?
Ah… welll… super easy!
Drop her ass! Would you trust her again after all this? Come on. Do yourself a favour and get your life back
I sat down to watch TV and noticed there were emails from the site FetLife (a bdsm Facebook equivalent) saying she got a new message, and then another one asking for a new account verification
A couple of days ago, she messaged me from work about a guy who was hitting on her really hot and was asking all about her. Then she said he asked for her number, and it was awkward.
“Yeah, he's some social media guy, and I need that for my business, and that's the only reason I gave him my number.”
…… OP….. you already know
She's also been a little more attached to her phone, and occasionally closes it when I come into the room.
….. you already know
Oh nothing is wrong with that, but for me it's the expectation that comes with being hard at a girl's door and I think him joking about it kinda freaked me out a little, which is at the route of all this. That long term he'd want the expectation to be met before marriage, and often. Heck joking about that 5 days in to me shows he wants it and I respect that, but I feel like a deer in the headlights even joking along and it's making me uncomfortable.
I think you should ask him, if you are concerned about it.
Maybe itās not about you at all, and this is one of those things (as like many situations on this sub), that could be cleared up by communicating.
r/flr
Generically, I would always recommend a complete no contact of ex.
Besides the outlier situations, normally people have a way of maintaining a small spark for their ex which keeps them emotionally invested, even though they're acting as friends.
Its like they cling to hope something will change. But really, if the relationship ended, it shows it was dysfunctional to begin with. And reconnecting, couples typically fall into the same patterns that originally caused them to fail.
Not only that, you bring baggage forward to your next relationship. Some don't mind, but a lot would see a close friend whose an ex as a red flag. Something that plenty people would rather not get involved with.
Its incredibly challenging to shift your mind from “I am madly in love with this person”' to being completely platonic. You will always view them in that romantic light. And because they're still participating in your life, you will be holding yourself back emotionally when you should be moving on in full to date other people.
The new person deserves all of you, not half.
You can't make him not want to treat you like garbage. If you're choosing to stay with someone who's going to treat you like garbage, that's the choice you're making.
I encounter crazier stuff all the time while working in the hospitality business.
You sweet sweet sweet sweet boy. Best of luck to you with that.
If she's doing this now and in front of you, yes, she absolutely is the kind of woman that would cheat.
I don't think you should have a wedding at all.
I get where you're coming from. I do. But honestly? The intense anger, hostility and vitriol you spewed in your post over possibly getting a freaking gift at your wedding is super concerning. Sounds like if someone shows up with a gift card, you're gonna be an angry, aggressive, stomping, shouting, tantrum-throwing asshole and just make everyone in attendance deeply uncomfortable.
We get it. You hate gifts. Hate hate hate them. Like, really fucking hate them. Like, so much fucking hate. Like, hate streaming out of every pore of your fucking being hate. You really, really really need people to know how much you hate this one thing. So. Fucking. Much. Your hate for gifts consumes you. If someone even thinks about bringing you a gift … why … you'll hate them too, that's how much you hate gifts. Just so much hate. For gifts.
I feel meh about gifts. About people like you however ….