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If you don’t want to do anything to mess it up ditch your “friend”. You already disrespected your BF by talking with him at all. You said F is being disrespectful by making those comments? Okay sure but he’s not the one in the relationship. You’re the one entertaining him and those comments. While this isn’t cheating per say it’s disrespectful and I’d be gone if knew my gf was talking to someone they slept with especially if they still were making suggestive comments.
Let’s start with the fact that he’s messaging other girls behind your back and saying that you two are only friends. But he’s also not disagreeing with her about your looks? GIRL THROW THAT GUY AWAY. That’s a huge a red flag that’s being waved in your face.
I know this hurts you, but why in the hell would you want to be with someone who doesn’t feel the same about you or even denies that you two are together? Time to stick that nose and chin up and walk away from this “relationship”. Trust me when I say that there are men out there who wouldn’t even dream of doing this to you. There are men out there who will treat you like the queen you are.
Your mum sounds like an ass. It’s really got nothing to do with her who you end up with. Also, long gone are the days when you rely on a man to keep you.
We had discussed marriage in the past when things were good— which is a whole other ordeal that I got hurt in— and subconsciously was still holding on to that.
I think you’re right. Maybe I should take this situation as an opportunity to focus on myself and heal.
You have 50% of the voting rights in any relationship. You can bring up whatever you want. If he’s a good option long term, he will respect your viewpoint. If he shuts it down, you saved yourself a lot of hassle.
Sometimes who you are chasing isn't who you need or who needs you. Looking at the trates, I admire my husband fits the bill, but he's not the package I expected. Mt recommendation is to write down what you are looking for in a person and break down those trates outside of the 'alt' genre. What is it you admire so much?
I was a hustler for most of my 20s and felt like something was wrong with me. I ran 3-7 miles every day, worked respected jobs, dressed very snappy, recieved accomendations, awards and accolades as i pushed my way through the work force. The whole time I kept lusting after the wrong kinds of guys. I kept looking for someone who could keep up with me.
I opened my restaurant and two months later my husband walked through my doors looking to buy a cup of coffee. He is the chillest most down to earth guy who let me love myself as much in rest as when I was “achieving”. He amped me up when talking about what I did to his friends and always focuses me when I try to make decisions on my goals. He thoughtful and kind. He supported me as i agonized over closing my restaurant because I was “tired” We got married and 6 months later my restaurant was closed and i was diagnosed cancer at the literal same time. he dropped everything to take care of me for close to an entire year.
He is NOTHING like who I envisioned myself dating or marrying for my entire life. He is the most loving stoner geeky gamer man of my dreams and I can't imagine my life without him.
You need to leave this relationship and spend 100% of your effort focusing on your mental health. You aren’t doing yourself or him any favors and potentially causing long term damage.
If you don’t want to do anything to mess it up ditch your “friend”. You already disrespected your BF by talking with him at all. You said F is being disrespectful by making those comments? Okay sure but he’s not the one in the relationship. You’re the one entertaining him and those comments. While this isn’t cheating per say it’s disrespectful and I’d be gone if knew my gf was talking to someone they slept with especially if they still were making suggestive comments.
Let’s start with the fact that he’s messaging other girls behind your back and saying that you two are only friends. But he’s also not disagreeing with her about your looks? GIRL THROW THAT GUY AWAY. That’s a huge a red flag that’s being waved in your face.
I know this hurts you, but why in the hell would you want to be with someone who doesn’t feel the same about you or even denies that you two are together? Time to stick that nose and chin up and walk away from this “relationship”. Trust me when I say that there are men out there who wouldn’t even dream of doing this to you. There are men out there who will treat you like the queen you are.
Your mum sounds like an ass. It’s really got nothing to do with her who you end up with. Also, long gone are the days when you rely on a man to keep you.
We had discussed marriage in the past when things were good— which is a whole other ordeal that I got hurt in— and subconsciously was still holding on to that.
I think you’re right. Maybe I should take this situation as an opportunity to focus on myself and heal.
It’s just a lot easier said then done.
Thanks for your advice (:
You have 50% of the voting rights in any relationship. You can bring up whatever you want. If he’s a good option long term, he will respect your viewpoint. If he shuts it down, you saved yourself a lot of hassle.
Sometimes who you are chasing isn't who you need or who needs you. Looking at the trates, I admire my husband fits the bill, but he's not the package I expected. Mt recommendation is to write down what you are looking for in a person and break down those trates outside of the 'alt' genre. What is it you admire so much?
I was a hustler for most of my 20s and felt like something was wrong with me. I ran 3-7 miles every day, worked respected jobs, dressed very snappy, recieved accomendations, awards and accolades as i pushed my way through the work force. The whole time I kept lusting after the wrong kinds of guys. I kept looking for someone who could keep up with me.
I opened my restaurant and two months later my husband walked through my doors looking to buy a cup of coffee. He is the chillest most down to earth guy who let me love myself as much in rest as when I was “achieving”. He amped me up when talking about what I did to his friends and always focuses me when I try to make decisions on my goals. He thoughtful and kind. He supported me as i agonized over closing my restaurant because I was “tired” We got married and 6 months later my restaurant was closed and i was diagnosed cancer at the literal same time. he dropped everything to take care of me for close to an entire year.
He is NOTHING like who I envisioned myself dating or marrying for my entire life. He is the most loving stoner geeky gamer man of my dreams and I can't imagine my life without him.
You need to leave this relationship and spend 100% of your effort focusing on your mental health. You aren’t doing yourself or him any favors and potentially causing long term damage.
I would not have sex with ANYONE eho used the word rape around me until thay have had MONTHS of therapy.
You are only 6 months in and you only know her history FROM HER DESCRIPTIONS of it. You have no idea what their actual relationship was.
Be very careful right now.
Tell her that you'll be her friend while she sorts out her trauma but the last thing she needs right now is ANY kind of sex.
Don't fuck up your life permanently to get a few weeks of sex.
I think that she wanted divorce for some time and this situation is the perfect excuse for it. Dont believe her word.