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If you stay with him you open yourself to risk getting a more long term disease cause you’re not sure whom he is sleeping with. Keep yourself healthy and safe even if it means giving it all up and starting over
Break up with him. He isn’t respecting you from minute one and pushing you to do things you aren’t comfortable with after a month? When he should be trying to be his best self? Tell him if he wants to cum on someone’s face so bad he can cum on his own face, he better practice his aim.
OML, I had a similar situation recently. My boyfriend was living off my parents while complaining about their way of life and rules too. Eventually he was kindly moved out, but he holds a grudge against them now. It's exhausting being stuck in the middle, girl I know
You mentioned he has untreated ADHD – he is not seeing a therapist? That might help so he can learn coping skills to be able to be a more present partner, and learn how to show you he cares about you the way you need him too. Have you heard of ‘love languages’?
Yes his brain is wired differently – yes he is going to need to do things differently – but he needs to figure out what those things are so he can apply them to this relationship.
I’m sorry you’re going through this – I can understand your feelings and frustration and not feeling as though you’re being seen or heard. Hopefully things change for the better.
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No, the daughter is with a different woman. He told me that she'd send those messages over the last few years saying that she “loves him” then “hates him” from different numbers but using the same area code. I know there's an app to do that…I haven't ever seen them on his phone but he seemed really paranoid and worried when we first got together that she'd show up to where he was at and would tell me this over the phone (we were long distance at first) and also told me once she when he was staying at his mom's she showed up. Thank you for the advice, yes I'll look into it.
Sounds like you breaking up with her was a god sent to that poor girl. I'm sure you groomed her into liking a older guy. I have no sympathy for you. I'm sure she find a great guy soon.
Nobody is saying that once she enters this guys room, her right to not consent to sex is null and void.
What we are saying is she kissed him, flirted with him and went to his room. Whatever happened after is irrelevant to OP. What she did was cheating. Whether she was coerced into sex after that is another matter entirely.
Naming a baby is naked. You both need to agree on the baby's name. Grandma didn't want her Granddaughter to be named after her. Your fiancee needs to respect that. Besides, you don't like the name anyway.
Do you have any family nearby or close friend that you can stay with temporarily that you feel you can talk to? But you need to have somewhere you can go once you confront her.
Why is everyone married at 18 tf. On-line a little she should be single and fuck around. Not married and cheating. Tel her that she can come but she needs to be single first.
Nope, you're not an asshole, i'd feel the same on your place.
It's your friend's right to keep the baby and it's your right to study in peace without constantly screaming and shitting baby around. Stop feeling guilty and just tell your friend how you feel.
You can leave a relationship for any reason. Tell them you’re proud of them, love them, and wish them the best. Offer to be their friend if you’re in a place to do that and support while they come out to others. But tell them a romantic relationship is something you don’t want to pursue any longer.
You were already attracted to a woman- them, long enough that you actually got engaged. Transition doesn’t change the content of the person, just the outsides. It’s fine to leave because they’ll no longer be physically attractive to you, but just something worth keeping in mind, especially since if you do wanna maintain a friendship you need to start thinking about them not as a “former man” but as a woman their whole life, regardless of how she had to portray herself.
If you stay with him you open yourself to risk getting a more long term disease cause you’re not sure whom he is sleeping with. Keep yourself healthy and safe even if it means giving it all up and starting over
Exactly Right. Best of Luck…..
Break up with him. He isn’t respecting you from minute one and pushing you to do things you aren’t comfortable with after a month? When he should be trying to be his best self? Tell him if he wants to cum on someone’s face so bad he can cum on his own face, he better practice his aim.
Yeah I’d not continue with this guy. Seems like he doesn’t care about you. He cares about getting his needs met
Wow. You’re not ready to be in a relationship. If you care about your bf at all, please exit this relationship gracefully. He doesn’t deserve this.
stay together for the kids
So what does a FERPA release actually do? it looks like its about personal information.
Can you stay with your Dad given your mum & step dad are… a bit nuts? I'm guessing their is a financial incentive in it for them?
Because if it really was complicated and difficult to navigate they should sit you down and SHOW you how it works…
Good luck.
Leave him be there are more issues due to lots of resentment and bad communication
Old Trick to resolve this:
When you go into the house with your bag make sure you ask your SO beforehand
to go straight to HIS room. You will go past where He turns in and wander a bit
until one of the parents takes note and will guide you to where you need to be.
You won't have to do anything except sorta “play dumb”. They will do all the work.
FWIW.
OML, I had a similar situation recently. My boyfriend was living off my parents while complaining about their way of life and rules too. Eventually he was kindly moved out, but he holds a grudge against them now. It's exhausting being stuck in the middle, girl I know
So you encourage your wife to see her ex-fwb? Try not simping for a day and see how that turns out
You mentioned he has untreated ADHD – he is not seeing a therapist? That might help so he can learn coping skills to be able to be a more present partner, and learn how to show you he cares about you the way you need him too. Have you heard of ‘love languages’?
Yes his brain is wired differently – yes he is going to need to do things differently – but he needs to figure out what those things are so he can apply them to this relationship.
I’m sorry you’re going through this – I can understand your feelings and frustration and not feeling as though you’re being seen or heard. Hopefully things change for the better.
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No, the daughter is with a different woman. He told me that she'd send those messages over the last few years saying that she “loves him” then “hates him” from different numbers but using the same area code. I know there's an app to do that…I haven't ever seen them on his phone but he seemed really paranoid and worried when we first got together that she'd show up to where he was at and would tell me this over the phone (we were long distance at first) and also told me once she when he was staying at his mom's she showed up. Thank you for the advice, yes I'll look into it.
Sounds like you breaking up with her was a god sent to that poor girl. I'm sure you groomed her into liking a older guy. I have no sympathy for you. I'm sure she find a great guy soon.
Who is your husbands best friend? Go sleep with him, and your best friend’s ex husband, preferably at the same time. THEN start couples therapy.
Nobody is saying that once she enters this guys room, her right to not consent to sex is null and void.
What we are saying is she kissed him, flirted with him and went to his room. Whatever happened after is irrelevant to OP. What she did was cheating. Whether she was coerced into sex after that is another matter entirely.
It's ok!!
Naming a baby is naked. You both need to agree on the baby's name. Grandma didn't want her Granddaughter to be named after her. Your fiancee needs to respect that. Besides, you don't like the name anyway.
Do you have any family nearby or close friend that you can stay with temporarily that you feel you can talk to? But you need to have somewhere you can go once you confront her.
Why would you think its patronising?
You're welcome
Why is everyone married at 18 tf. On-line a little she should be single and fuck around. Not married and cheating. Tel her that she can come but she needs to be single first.
Your boyfriend's fears seem to be well founded. Be there for him.
It redirects because plan b does not help with cramps.
Nope, you're not an asshole, i'd feel the same on your place.
It's your friend's right to keep the baby and it's your right to study in peace without constantly screaming and shitting baby around. Stop feeling guilty and just tell your friend how you feel.
Never give anyone money like that. And any person with any shame would never even ask for any money like that.
I agree with your analysis of this guy’s view of his own marriage and therefore yours.
Could you apply the same logic to the actions made by your GF, please?
You have already answered your own question: I would never get rid of her, she's my everything.
Since she's the non negotiable, what's left?
That's literally aggravated assault
She is your Ex. Regardless of your feelings for her. She is capable of taking her own decisions, and is not your responsibility.
Stop focusing on her and spend time on your self if you are really worry ask a friend of her to keep an eye on her.
You can leave a relationship for any reason. Tell them you’re proud of them, love them, and wish them the best. Offer to be their friend if you’re in a place to do that and support while they come out to others. But tell them a romantic relationship is something you don’t want to pursue any longer.
You were already attracted to a woman- them, long enough that you actually got engaged. Transition doesn’t change the content of the person, just the outsides. It’s fine to leave because they’ll no longer be physically attractive to you, but just something worth keeping in mind, especially since if you do wanna maintain a friendship you need to start thinking about them not as a “former man” but as a woman their whole life, regardless of how she had to portray herself.