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Lucifer released his demon. Sin with me, sinner, ❤️Goal is anal with BIG HUGE dildo ❤️ Lovense on – lets do it very hot! [Multi Goal]
Date: October 30, 2022
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Yeah stop watching TV and go hiking, or to a museum, or go to a market, visit places and do activities together. There must be something enjoyable for both of you?
It sounds like she needs to learn to be more independent. And if she doesn’t want to, you’re simply incompatible…
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You are exceptionally level headed and seem able to give others the benefit of the doubt very easily, and honestly, those traits are very admirable. But have some self-respect.
He's cheating on you, he loves her more than you, and it's time for this marriage to end. Just reading this, he has not given you one indication that he respects the way you feel about this. The entire saga involves you being semi-coerced into agreements, you choosing to be the bigger person, you suffering the consequences of his actions. At not one point does he take responsibility or show any level of respect towards you that befits a happy marriage. It's time for this to end. Best of luck
Thank you so much! I will go with one. Girl 2 makes me feel a lot better about myself so I’ll go with her I think
Come on seiously?. If someone googled yo5u meds to see what they are for, wouldn't you feel like that was a boundary violation? And you want to ask him about it?
If he's not comfortable telling you, please don't invade the guys privacy
You need to be honest with her and have an open conversation about this. No need to be aggressive or defensive, just tell her you're having a hot time lately and this is one of your stressors. It's important for you both to recognize it and manage it together. Managing it means balancing having fun and being frugal. It's probably a good time to talk about her taking out some loans or other financial aid to shoulder some of the burden of the changing economy and also take responsibility for herself.
Why would you want to be a guy who thinks a a rape victim is at fault? That's some extremist thinking. This dude is toxic and will only become more dangerous over time.
Oh I've never been in one, I'm an ugly manlet. Women aren't attracted to those types of guys.
Lol go on, let it out. Let's here your little “no bro, it's definitely your personality bro” ?
I would be honest, which is what the OP is doing. I don't think he's done anything wrong here.
Sometimes, there is no bad guy.
Uuuuuhhhh…block her with no response? You don’t owe her anything.
You need to ask yourself how you feel about having a relationship with a transgender person. It is perfectly okay to not be comfortable with continuing to date this person. When you boil it down to the DNA, she still has the genetic code that made her male. Surgery doesn't change the DNA.
I don't because I am afraid of the potential stressful fallout so I just let it go
Not relationship advice but if you like the ring (although might not be good for everyday) you can paint the inside with clear nail polish to protect your skin (assuming you are not allergic to nail polish).
As a literal bi married woman that's married to a man.
CHEATING IS CHEATING! DOESN'T MATTER THE GENDER! Lord I'm tired of people trying to justify their shitty fucking gross behavior by bringing the lgbt into it.
“Like u shldnt shame me from wanting to sleep with woman because I'm just trying to live my truth” or that a man should be flattered if his wife wants to sleep with other woman it's sexy! God no!
Fuck that. U shldnt be married then!
U married ur wife to be in a monogamous relationship and if that's what u want that's perfectly fine!
If she wants to sleep around u shld serve her with divorce papers. Don't let urself get suckered into some bullshit u didn't sign up for. Ur gonna be on the losing end of that shit OP.
this is definitely not to excuse his behavior because i have told him that it was NOT okay to go against our decisions, but his line of thought was that he wanted to get this big stuff out of the way to prep for baby #2 because originally our plan was to start trying in march. so he did explain this to me later when we discussed how i was frustrated with his actions.
this instace was really the only time he's ever strayed from what we agreed to which is why i was taken aback by ellie. and as for the shceudling, we agreed to this before we even decided to have children. my schedule is hectic but he takes over 100% on his days off and i can sleep/rest/get alone time on these days.
Hi Up-Town,
Yes, she does have a few of those signs (mainly she gets sad if she's left alone for a weekend, for exemple). In the first 3 years we were together, I was not noticing any signs of that. Now, we live 3 hours apart from my parents. Turns out the move was essentially beneficial for us. I've been more optimistic in life in general because my mother is not on our back all the time anymore. It does look like my GF is isolating me though, from an external point of view. The thing is, removing the constant exposition to guilt and negativism from my parents was necessary (they are a bit toxic and I think my mother could have BPD) and I don't feel that constant pressure to please them anymore and to prioritize their needs.
I believe she has indeed an abandonment fear. At the same time, it's not constant because she encourages me to go see my friends from time to time, even when I'm not thinking about it.
Yo. Get your own place.
See, your oldies still.enjoy each others. Get out and give them back their lives.
Time to start your own.
And if you are still as noisy as them at the same age… congrats.
Well, I’m in agreement with you. And I have a real issue with remaining friends with exes like that for the same reasons you are, there’s 20,000 posts on Reddit about where this goes wrong.
However, it appears from your post this, and isn’t an ongoing thing, but a relatively new thing. And so you’re gonna have to tread lightly while you figure out where is loyalty is because that’s the whole thing.
If he’s trying to be nice to a person who is really having a problem and has a conversation with her I see no issue with that. If this becomes an ongoing concern, where he wants to involve with the child in someway, then I would sit down and have a talk to him. One year in the child’s life and he chose not to be there anymore anyway. I would just set a boundary that says please stop doing this it feels like you’re involved in an old relationship and you haven’t closed it up. And it’s hurting my feelings and I need you to stay present with my relationship.
And then you have to watch and see what he does it won’t help to nag it won’t help to do anything you watch and see what he does. Just make sure that conversation you have if it gets to that point it’s very thorough. And then you’ll know what to do. he’s either just a nice man or he’s still attached to her . And if that’s the case he’s chosen his loyalties.
“Whether a bourgie broad, nerd hoe, street chick
Don't call her wifey if you met her at the freaknick
You don't want her, don't waste her time, I'll dupe her”
-MF DOOM
Here's what you have to consider.
— She cheated, twice. You just found out, and are under no obligation to dismiss it based on how long ago it was. Emotionally, she may as well have cheated three weeks ago. If she didn't want you to be so freshly hurt six years later, she should have been honest.
— You don't know why it ended. Maybe her guilt, maybe he found out she had a BF and ended it, maybe he got bored. Your GF is a liar, and so you can only trust anything she says about it so far. It may have continued for months or years without you knowing if not for her getting dumped, if that was what happened.
— You don't know why she told you. She said guilt. But you're planning a wedding. Maybe she knows there will be friends there who might mention it, and wants to get out in front of it and downplay it. Maybe they reconnected on social media and threatened to expose her. Maybe he's dating a friend of yours now and you know you'll run into him. Maybe one of her friends told her it's not right to get married without telling you, and she's been given an ultimatum. You don't know how much guilt she feels now, if any, or whether there are other motivations at play to make it look like she's confessing on her own.
— Don't think this was two, short term, long ago transgressions and that's it. She told you specifically she hid it because she didn't want to lose you. She manipulated you into being with her for six years- stole your right to not be with a cheater for six years- because it got her what she wanted. She's lied to you every day, but omission at least and probably in other discussions about related topics, for six years.
why do you want her to be punished so much? I think you’re projecting some opinions that you’re holding deep within.
you’re ruining potential happiness for some strange form of justice that’s in your head. Ignorant happiness is better than. “red pilled” misery.
This is the first comment closest to answering my question I read in this topic.
Male errections are not directly tied to desier.
Stress, anxiety, substances etc all affect it.
It is completely normal to occasionally lose a errection. Just continue to stimulate eachother and it might come back. Sometimes it takes a while, sometimes it doesn't come back.
The moment that the word stop left your mouth, this was no longer consensual sex and became rape.
Op, I'm so sorry.
The part that really stuck me hardest with your story was “only oral sex” as if that somehow makes it better. Seriously, wtf?!
Do not forgive this disgusting betrayal. Clearly, she's still minimizing what she did, acting like oral is somehow less of a betrayal.
Best wishes to you as you heal and move on with your life.
Oh and BLOCK HER!
There are women who convince themselves that if they dont act enthusiastic about their partner's kinks that the partner will find it elsewhere. Take a big dick up your ass and get back to us.
Then the part where they both skipped the son’s birthday dinner to be with each other???
Is commenting on this subreddit your full time job?
As of this post (and the day just started) you've commented 28x.
Based on your profile you do this everyday.
Theres no way that is healthy for you or this sub reddit. This isn't a subreddit to ask UsuallyWrite2 for advice.
It doesn’t sound all that bad.. is that the extent of it? Sounds like she was just trying to have a good time
He will never respect you or your husband again. That ship has sailed, this is what happens when you do disgusting things like you did. You reap what you sow, your family will never be the same again.
It's really difficult to see loved ones making poor choices. I'm afraid to say that I have never found a way to make someone change their habits. It's a decision and committment that only they can make.
Your gonna have to cut a slice off and count the rings. That's the only way to know for sure.
Thank you. I appreciate your perspective.
It should be.. Id be more surprised to know that this stuff ISN'T classified as assault.. Because it is.
I hope the police where OP lives are more accepting though.. Cause my own experience never got anywhere cause “women don't do that stuff”.
Having kids is not a reason to stay in an unhealthy relationship.
Your kids will learn to accept their parents are separated, and you can tell them the real reason why when they are older.
Idk what you're tryna say, but it's been read with no reply. He's either not sure if or how he wants to reply. Idk what you did, you're allowed feelings, but if you did something over the top, he just might be. Only he knows, it's best to focus on you and maybe how to deal with emotional processing better if you believe you getting mad is the reason.
My darling have you heard the gone girl “cool girl” monologue I suggest you read/listen to it
Lol yea me Mistakingly went on the wrong bus to Pattaya once
Because positive karma on reddit is sooooooo important to have.