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i HATE that.
the only caveat i have is thst sometimes i playfully say to our son stuff about how “that'a it – you and daddy are BOTH grounded”, or “you and daddy are sleeping outside” because it makes all of us laugh. i like being very silly and sarcastic,and the way our kid busts up laughing is soooo cute i could die!
but as far as women who equate their mates to extra children, i just feel a weird sense of sadness and gratefulness. i have a partner, a best friend, not an honorary sperm donor. i wish a lot of these people knew they were worth more than somebody who can't pull their weight or act like adults/parents. it's baffling how much i've seen that happen with people.
Finding awesome cuff links is naked work. Most of the ones I found were at best meh.
The monogrammed ones are some of the best you could hope for though. Unfortunately, the demand for them is just not there. And you do say they are nice. So she definitely put some effort into finding them.
It is weird she had “her initial” on them instead of yours. But then again this might be due to the limited supply of really good cuff links. So it might’ve been the best she could find.
However why cuff links? Does she have a thing for men and cuff link’d shirts? Do you like them?
How likely is she to be distasteful and inelegant in her manners? Unless you know her to be generally thoughtless in matters similar to this one, it’s highly doubtful she’d keep a gift from over a year ago to regift to you.
She was spoiled fucking rotten as a child, raised on nothing but the thought that she was better and more important than her sisters, who were regularly abused by both her and their father. So now her sisters are getting more attention than she is and she can't handle it because she's a spoiled brat.
Your husband and your ex-best friend broke their relationships with you the moment they told you about wanting to have sex with each other. They emotionally cheated before they got your permission otherwise they never would’ve had that base to even talk to you about it. You don’t want a divorce because you want the home to live in with your children. You traded your need for that home with your kids in exchange for the permission for them to act on what they want but by then they were mostly dead to you. They wanted it so bad that they ignored all the signs that you showed that this was not okay and now they are all up in arms when they realized that the grass wasn’t greener. This marriage is broken. But I do want to make something clear, your family is not whole. If you stay, your kids will see and feel that your marriage is broken. They will grow up not being exposed to what healthy love looks like. I think you need to either completely separate and co-parent or come to a healthy co-parenting relationship where you live! together and take care of the kids but are no longer romantically together. Don’t let them blame you for their actions.
I went on strike. Oh, you want to eat? I already did. Go make it yourself. Oh, there's no clean clothes? There's the washer. Do it yourself. Oh, you don't have any more snacks? You know where the store is. Oh, you're out of shampoo? Again, you know where the store is. Stop doing anything and EVERYTHING regarding him. If you don't want to be his mom and you want to be his partner, stop acting like you're a mom to him. Be a mom to yourself. Plan date nights with yourself. Mini vacations by yourself. Plan things for you and forget about him. He'll either wisen up real fast, or you'll end up in divorce. Because, hun, there is no such thing as a 'seven year itch.' There's just falling out of love and feeling stuck unless you actually want to cheat. Now, sure, if someone started giving you attention, it could lead to an affair, but you should get out if that situation arises. Don't cheat, just be honest. Either way, start putting yourself first like he's doing and throw him on the back burner like he's done to you. It'll either fix things or break them completely.
Your husband sounds like he is upset by the changes in your life because you are now “better” than he is. When you dated and married, he had some idea of who both of you were. Now you are prettier, fitter, more interesting, more assertive and paid more. He is thrown off by this and probably insecure. That does not mean he should be saying these things to you.
His reaction is to try to pull you back to where you were, rather than either being happy that he has a partner with her act together or choosing to up his game.
Solutions could involve counseling individually or together, time together cultivating other shared interests, or increased communication between the two of you.
i HATE that.
the only caveat i have is thst sometimes i playfully say to our son stuff about how “that'a it – you and daddy are BOTH grounded”, or “you and daddy are sleeping outside” because it makes all of us laugh. i like being very silly and sarcastic,and the way our kid busts up laughing is soooo cute i could die!
but as far as women who equate their mates to extra children, i just feel a weird sense of sadness and gratefulness. i have a partner, a best friend, not an honorary sperm donor. i wish a lot of these people knew they were worth more than somebody who can't pull their weight or act like adults/parents. it's baffling how much i've seen that happen with people.
Finding awesome cuff links is naked work. Most of the ones I found were at best meh.
The monogrammed ones are some of the best you could hope for though. Unfortunately, the demand for them is just not there. And you do say they are nice. So she definitely put some effort into finding them.
It is weird she had “her initial” on them instead of yours. But then again this might be due to the limited supply of really good cuff links. So it might’ve been the best she could find.
However why cuff links? Does she have a thing for men and cuff link’d shirts? Do you like them?
How likely is she to be distasteful and inelegant in her manners? Unless you know her to be generally thoughtless in matters similar to this one, it’s highly doubtful she’d keep a gift from over a year ago to regift to you.
It's not weird at all.
She was spoiled fucking rotten as a child, raised on nothing but the thought that she was better and more important than her sisters, who were regularly abused by both her and their father. So now her sisters are getting more attention than she is and she can't handle it because she's a spoiled brat.
Trust your gut
Your husband and your ex-best friend broke their relationships with you the moment they told you about wanting to have sex with each other. They emotionally cheated before they got your permission otherwise they never would’ve had that base to even talk to you about it. You don’t want a divorce because you want the home to live in with your children. You traded your need for that home with your kids in exchange for the permission for them to act on what they want but by then they were mostly dead to you. They wanted it so bad that they ignored all the signs that you showed that this was not okay and now they are all up in arms when they realized that the grass wasn’t greener. This marriage is broken. But I do want to make something clear, your family is not whole. If you stay, your kids will see and feel that your marriage is broken. They will grow up not being exposed to what healthy love looks like. I think you need to either completely separate and co-parent or come to a healthy co-parenting relationship where you live! together and take care of the kids but are no longer romantically together. Don’t let them blame you for their actions.
I went on strike. Oh, you want to eat? I already did. Go make it yourself. Oh, there's no clean clothes? There's the washer. Do it yourself. Oh, you don't have any more snacks? You know where the store is. Oh, you're out of shampoo? Again, you know where the store is. Stop doing anything and EVERYTHING regarding him. If you don't want to be his mom and you want to be his partner, stop acting like you're a mom to him. Be a mom to yourself. Plan date nights with yourself. Mini vacations by yourself. Plan things for you and forget about him. He'll either wisen up real fast, or you'll end up in divorce. Because, hun, there is no such thing as a 'seven year itch.' There's just falling out of love and feeling stuck unless you actually want to cheat. Now, sure, if someone started giving you attention, it could lead to an affair, but you should get out if that situation arises. Don't cheat, just be honest. Either way, start putting yourself first like he's doing and throw him on the back burner like he's done to you. It'll either fix things or break them completely.
Your husband sounds like he is upset by the changes in your life because you are now “better” than he is. When you dated and married, he had some idea of who both of you were. Now you are prettier, fitter, more interesting, more assertive and paid more. He is thrown off by this and probably insecure. That does not mean he should be saying these things to you.
His reaction is to try to pull you back to where you were, rather than either being happy that he has a partner with her act together or choosing to up his game.
Solutions could involve counseling individually or together, time together cultivating other shared interests, or increased communication between the two of you.