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Date: October 11, 2022
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At this moment my husband and I are back to back, curled up, feet together, both on our phones. It's quiet. It's nice. 11 years. Things settle into a routine. It can be mundane and cosy and still be love.
As George C. Scott in the role as Patton said I am not retreating that's ground I've already conquered! I'm not going back there (or something like that)!
She's using you as a bank.
Lol it's cheating, if a bloke went down on you it's no different, why do you think it's not cheating because a woman did it
Tell you what, here's the acid test, tell your bf and see what he says ?♀️
I’m not talking about boobs of random strangers. I have seen virtually every one of my women friends in states of partial or total undress from the time we were in elementary school getting into pajamas at a slumber party to going together as teens to the town pool and changing together to sharing fitting rooms to dancing around our respective bedrooms totally bare-asses to music while we got dressed for a night of clubbing in our 20s. All very innocent. Years later I’d still have no issue.
If a bf thinks something so common among platonic girlfriends is cheating then I’d suspect he has other unreasonable opinions. Remember also he is giving her the silent treatment over this which is SO manipulative. Strike two.
I understand your concern but your sister already knows what she is doing if she continues to choose it is not your fault. if she blames you or if you're parents blame you again it is not your fault.
To be very honest, when I was around 22f I didn't think that much about children and would've agreed with her comments. But that's because it just felt like something that was so far away. It's important to ask and make sure she has seriously thought about it. Especially if you're thinking about wanting kids sometime soon, you will need to sit down with her and seriously discuss what she wants vs what you want. If her answer does not change and yours doesn't either, like many others have said, you guys aren't a match, and you can't rely on her to change her mind either.
The fact that you are trying to talk down the severity of the conversation tells me you WILL do this again.
I would heavily advise your husband to test your daughter's DNA, call a lawyer, and develop an exit plan.
I mean you have to tell her bro.
You broke the primacy, you can't hide from that.
It can only be rebuilt thru honesty.
You can't run from this one fool.
He already moved
sadly my insurance doesn’t seem therapy as a need so it doesn’t cover it 🙁 i just find it hot to talk at all even regardless of if i think he’d be nice about it. i wish i knew why but it’s really nude sometimes ig
Don't tell them in the moment give them a chance to prepare or they'll feel ambushed. When they seem like they are in a good headspace tell them you have something a bit uncomfortable that you need to talk to them about and ask them if they'll let you know when they feel up for a talk.
When you have the talk don't dump everything at once. Say something like you enjoy sharing things with them. You think they're a great person (if true) but you have a personal pet peeve about rehashing dreams or repeating stories. Tell them that you haven't been good about communicating that boundary but you hope that they can respect it going forward and that you also hope it doesn't discourage them from sharing other things with you because you really like that about your friendship. If they seem to get defensive tell them that you value their friendship and you believe that establishing open, honest communication and boundaries is the best way to maintain it. In your own words of course.
If they are unable to take this in and respond in a healthy, adult way that's a them thing not a you thing. You are responsible for compassionately communicating your boundaries not for how people chose to respond.
Once you have established this dynamic you should be able to set more boundaries as things come up and they will probably have some for you.
Thanks for the response I guess its what I deserved
Hasn't this been already posted yesterday?
I haven't been subtle. And I have told him straight up, “I want you to propose, and I'm not waiting forever. You are on a deadline.” That was our fourth talk about it.
How long have you two been together?
At that age, NO MA'AM
I would lawyer up. She is setting this up to grab the use of the house and custody of the kids I imagine.
You can have a post nuptial agreement, which covers these things, protects your rights, and be crumpled up and thrown into the garbage if you reconcile. Until then, I would not budge until you get something nailed down legally.
Plus, she is for the streets man…
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Can't I do therapy in a relationship?
I would hope at this point I'm just misunderstanding this delusional conversation and it's simply sarcasm however I don't have any faith in reddit users. If it's not sarcasm feel free to explain your logic some more. If you can't manage that then continue to be upset and understand that I don't care, not even enough to continue this IQ dropping conversation.
Sounds like an abusive person.
I’m just asking for advice on how to lower/tone down feelings without changing things currently, if it’s possible.
Well I told her I've used it since high school. I told her before we took the. Last summer I start binging and lack control and start to enjoy it and go through this cycle and then stop again a year later. I acknowledge my human patterns
She needed you to stand up for her. Your dad does objectify people because the only pets the assets of women. And that whole plate my food for me he’s a grown adult man he can play DAZN food. He’s not that old we’re not talking to old country your dad’s probably about 60 or more so he’s got a generation that knows how to behave better. And again you chose your father over her.
Well if you have to go through your husbands phone with out his permission, whatever happened to get you to that point, either him being shady or you having trust issues shows your relationship is already dead. On top of that him lying and hiding it. But now you’re suppose to believe they didn’t sleep together? Nah, trust is broken, so is the relationship.
You have to give her time. I online in a city where the social crowds are kind of mixed and interlinked. So many people have dated each other but are now friends. My bf is also in a group and often goes for parties where his ex is.
I used to spiral just like your girlfriend and cry and fight. But then once my bf gave me assurance by treating me right and showing me I am his priority, basically making me secure. It stopped bothering me. I don’t care where he goes and does what now because I know how strong we are together. So slowly try and build that trust and security.
It’s been just 4 months of being official. Take it slow. Explain it to her nicely without getting defensive.
I appreciate the advice I don’t think I’m going to apologize for snooping, she’s done it on my phone before. I just don’t know how I’m going to get over this. I’ve turned a blind eye to their friendship for four years now to keep the peace and because I trusted her, she instead took that as an excuse to show her ass off. I’m going to revisit this in the morning as it is 4am here and she is sleeping next to me. I appreciate your help and will update after the fact.
Just curious, does that mean in countries where women going topless is normal are morally inferior to you?
She has been lying to him everyday of this “good marriage”. The only reason he knows now is because someone else told him. Counseling is definitely a good idea but whether it leads to working it out or divorce is completely up to him. I don't think I could ever trust someone who could lie to me so easily everyday for 10 years. It would certainly make me wonder what else they were hiding. Clearly you and I have different definitions of healthy relationships.
I admit I have my own insecurities that I am actively working to heal . I take a lot of responsibility for my shadow work and triggers. However he stone walls me anytime I try to communicate with him . For the littlest things not even including other people . Over clothes , food, etc … if I bring something up to him or openly express that it bothers me and would like to discuss it he ignores me and avoids all conversations. I told him at the beginning of our relationship I wanted to get us into marriage counseling due to our family backgrounds before we had children so we can avoid passing down those dysfunctions.. at first he said yes many times and then when it came down to it he backed out and said he doesn’t need help while I have gotten my counselor and been working with her .
That's what all the crazy cat ladies say. Toxoplasmosis is real. It kills off the brain cells that register the cat stink. Plus you can't have babies with cats around. She's way to young to have three cats
If the condom is falling off during sex he needs to buy smaller condoms. How did he think it’s okay to put lotion on a condom? No more sex unless you see him put the condom on.
How long have you two been divorced?
Also was your divorce amicable? Did he get to keep the home?
Be warned he may will never change.
I fixed that for you.
Miserable-Arm-6797, I wish you all the best in leaving.
He’s cheating on you already and has had this planned for who knows how long. I’m sorry that you trusted him enough to believe this really bizarre cover story but yeah he definitely has already cheated. He either realized it wasn’t that great to sleep with others or the girl he wanted turned him down so he’s coming back to you.
Childcare doesn’t start from birth. The fact that mom will likely be the milk machine for the baby will force her to stay close for a long time.
I don’t think he’s coming back. I too would be unsettled by the fur but I think after one conversation explaining it it wouldn’t bother me. Everyone cherished their pets differently. Unless you have a hoarding issue I don’t see why he’d leave but maybe he’s less open minded than I am. I do think you should let him go, though. You should be with someone who wholly accepts you and I don’t think he’s going to be that for you.
Smoking is the only way most people get through food service jobs. If her smoking bothers you then you can find someone else, but don’t try to tell her not to.
Its interesting. I would honestly never imagine in a million years sleeping in a bed with my brother. If my husband slept in a bed with his sister I'd probably be pretty grossed out. He may be overreacting but idk.
I think you might need to get off the internet for a little bit. Delete reddit/tiktok for a few days. You'll feel so much better
That's why you buy the pepper gel spray
Should I leave him for this?
Yes.
But before you do, you need to make sure you get rid of any nudes of you in his phone. Because the next thing he'll do is share those pics to those AHs.
Also let the girls know that their pics are on that group and they're discussing them in that p0rn group.
Then also leave him with the term of 'revenge p0rn' law.
There is no loving way to say you will roofie someone.
My opinion- he made a false narrative in his head that would excuse him from going through with cheating on you while you were away. He probably had someone set up to go before you left.
Now that you are back and he wants things to go back to normal – either he always planned on getting back with you or it didn’t work out with the other person. Problem is he now feels guilty for his deceit and is having a hot time acting normal with you or making eye contact.
Honestly, do you really want to be with someone who 1 – accused you of cheating, 2- did so via text, 3- did it right before you left on a very important internship, 4- ignored you for two months, and 5- refuses to acknowledge or apologize for his behaviour??
You deserve better than this.
get a water flosser to help remove them and brush as far back on your tongue as possible and stay hydrated to prevent them.
Nope, sounds like you made the right choice. I mean, it would be frustrating to not feel trusted but wtf are you supposed to do. Her reaction is super sus to me.
Break up and when you do, dont do any of the I love yous and all that bollocks. Say you’re both different people and want different things and this isn’t working nor it is going to work long term.
And when you break up, do it with a finality. Dont leave half a door open dont say lets be friends just walk away, rip the band aid off, and dont give him any kind on inlet back in.
It sucks but its easier that way
Literally this! Generally I need a lot of foreplay and honestly fore-foreplay to really get going. So I’ll pour some wine and get into some cute undies and ask for a short massage. He gets the message, lol. How is your partner supposed to know you like having sex with them if you never initiate?
This man is desperately trying to destroy your self esteem, ambition, and financial security. He wants you down and broken so he can feel comfortable. He wants you financially dependent on him, isolated, and easily controllable.
This is not a person you should trust, live with, or be married to.