Nobody is stopping her from leaving. She just couldn't avoid tearing him down a bit before she goes. That's abusive.
Dude might have deserved it. He sounds like somebody she should have left long before this. But when you say the kinds of things OP said to somebody in an effort to hurt them, it's abuse.
It makes me concerned for their relationship. Have there been other instances where he's steam rolled over her wishes, so she knows he has the habit of doing things like that again here? I hope not, because that's not a healthy dynamic at all
OK that’s the worst thing don’t cheat with somebody else’s woman. Cheating destroys people. It’s horrible karma to carry around and somebody will do it to you and they don’t do it when you’re looking for it they do it when you’re madly in love and you think you’ve escaped it never do it. If you go to war veteran that may have some PTSD anyway, that comes home to his wife it’s been sleeping with his cousin. Now he feels even worse. You don’t do it. And her being financial stable is really the least problematic of the whole thing.
Anything but an enthusiastic yes is a no. Follow your gut or set rules and a safe word. Maybe don’t have intercourse with friend if you want to keep that between you and wifey or just watch the women if they are comfortable being together. All of this should be discussed thoroughly with your wife then again with her friend.
thank you. I think I will wait a little longer and if there’s still nothing by like 4:30 or 5 today then i will do this. ? prayers up
Especially since they’ve been dating a few years. So 23 and 35? That’s a huge difference in terms of life stages and life experience.
Nobody is stopping her from leaving. She just couldn't avoid tearing him down a bit before she goes. That's abusive.
Dude might have deserved it. He sounds like somebody she should have left long before this. But when you say the kinds of things OP said to somebody in an effort to hurt them, it's abuse.
It makes me concerned for their relationship. Have there been other instances where he's steam rolled over her wishes, so she knows he has the habit of doing things like that again here? I hope not, because that's not a healthy dynamic at all
Which is fine, I'm just saying that if you're comparing the costs, he can certainly do it much more cheaply than you're thinking of charging.
OK that’s the worst thing don’t cheat with somebody else’s woman. Cheating destroys people. It’s horrible karma to carry around and somebody will do it to you and they don’t do it when you’re looking for it they do it when you’re madly in love and you think you’ve escaped it never do it. If you go to war veteran that may have some PTSD anyway, that comes home to his wife it’s been sleeping with his cousin. Now he feels even worse. You don’t do it. And her being financial stable is really the least problematic of the whole thing.
Anything but an enthusiastic yes is a no. Follow your gut or set rules and a safe word. Maybe don’t have intercourse with friend if you want to keep that between you and wifey or just watch the women if they are comfortable being together. All of this should be discussed thoroughly with your wife then again with her friend.