If you were unable to do the thing you agreed to do, you should have let her know – just as a heads-up, so she wasn’t blindsided when she got home by having to put something back onto her mental list, when she thought it was dealt with because you’d said you’d take care of it.
She shouldn’t have blown up at you, but you could have prevented it by keeping her in the loop, and not made it worse by becoming instantly defensive.
She cheated, didn’t tell you, lied about it, lied about it some more and you don’t think it’s a deal breaker?
It’s my partner’s brother, that’s why I’m concerned.
Teen love is blind af
If you were unable to do the thing you agreed to do, you should have let her know – just as a heads-up, so she wasn’t blindsided when she got home by having to put something back onto her mental list, when she thought it was dealt with because you’d said you’d take care of it.
She shouldn’t have blown up at you, but you could have prevented it by keeping her in the loop, and not made it worse by becoming instantly defensive.
You sound incredibly controlling in every single comment, dude.