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Date: October 3, 2022
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Not true about the bubbly aspect. If it's the unfiltered juice, that's also called cider, whether it's sparkling or not, alcoholic or not.
It's only called juice when it's the filtered juice.
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He's sexually assaulting you. Dump hisass.
Nonce.
First of all: you need to take care of yourself. Get help from a professional therapist. They should be able to deal with your trauma much better.
Second: I don't know her so I don't know what's going on with her. The thing is that people can react very strange to accounts of trauma. You went through a lot of shit and hearing about it may have truly overwhelmed her which is why she has become avoidant. She may genuinely be horrible and not care enough, or maybe she remembered some trauma of her own. She may however also suffer from something called “secondary trauma” (look it up).
In any case it is wise to focus on yourself for now. She should also get help but it will probably be best to keep a little distance at the moment and let her come to you (talk about this with your therapist once you have one).
Why do you feel like you owe her anything, really?
Unless you're don't it to be clear about boundaries, ghosting doesn't make you an asshole, it's also an answer and a message. It's an exit with your chin up, showing your worth
No. You are 20 years old. It is a repressive society for women. Unless you take like your mother, or somebody with you to chaperon it is not wise.
I don't want to repeat
Hey jw if you heard of Al-Anon? It's a support group for you (the family members/ friends of alcoholics). It's free. Meanwhile, you can establish some boundaries to protect yourself and avoid enabling her, like:
Don't offer to be her designated driver, because it encourages the alcoholic to plan on getting drunk
Don't buy her any alcohol
Dont drink with her
Don't lie for her, minimize her behavior, or help cover up for her in any way
Don't bail her out or pay her fees if/ when she gets arrested
With this disease, she will get help when she decides to, and not a moment before. You cant make her get treatment and you cant love her enough to make her stop. Thats the sucky part. But you can focus on yourself and meeting your needs, because thats whats in your control. If she decides to step into recovery, be wary of relapses, because shit happens.
It's also ok to be honest if at some pt you know you just can't do this anymore- it's really really hot to be the partner of an addict.
He's a child. You have an immature manbaby on your hands. Remember, people don't change. They just slowly reveal who they are. Now, you see who he really is. This will continue. He has to start taking responsibility. If you mention it in therapy, he will probably turn it on you. He needs to grow up.
From every person that was in your shoes at your age, we all feel so truly blessed to not have ended up with the person we dated at that time in our lives. Seriously, he’s not your person if you have this much drama, alone at any age is better than whatever you think this is.