Me too, whilst I don't hate people who watch porn or anything, I believe most porn is misogyny-filled and harmful. I couldn't be with someone who watches it regularly but that's just me. I feel for op.
Yeah… this is beyond shitty. She's older than I am and definitely knows this is assault. She did this on purpose. End it. Seriously. Sorry this happened to you.
If they were both older? Not a big deal. But at those ages? Yeah, no, they’re worlds apart. An 18 year old just moved out of their parents house and are living on their own for the first time, most still haven’t even paid bills. They have minimal to no relationship experience. They can’t even drink legally. A 23 year old has likely been out of college developing their career for a year or two, has lived on their own for five years and has WAY more relationship experience than an 18 year old does.
I have no problem with age gap relationships as long as both parties were sufficiently mature at the start of the relationship. My husband is 8 years older than me. But I was 28 and he was 36 when we met- both well established adults with thriving careers and over a decade of adult life under our belts.
Yep. My ex fiancé knocked a chick up, married her, and moved her into the house I was paying for while I was overseas working for a couple of months. It was fucking hot! Grieving the loss of the future you had planned is not unlike grieving the loss of a pet or family member. It’s a process. And if you don’t work through the process alone or in therapy and carry your grief and fears into the next relationship, you’ll ruin it.
I think the easiest explanation might be the case, your husband has an office girlfriend and doesn't want her to find out he's married and cut him off. Who was the co-worker he made dinner plans with, a guy or a woman?
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Me too, whilst I don't hate people who watch porn or anything, I believe most porn is misogyny-filled and harmful. I couldn't be with someone who watches it regularly but that's just me. I feel for op.
Yeah… this is beyond shitty. She's older than I am and definitely knows this is assault. She did this on purpose. End it. Seriously. Sorry this happened to you.
Then don't have sex. Easy solution is what I'm saying. Or may I suggest anal?
thankyou, I appreciate your input. This is what I thought, I was just shocked at the rate of decline between us.
If they were both older? Not a big deal. But at those ages? Yeah, no, they’re worlds apart. An 18 year old just moved out of their parents house and are living on their own for the first time, most still haven’t even paid bills. They have minimal to no relationship experience. They can’t even drink legally. A 23 year old has likely been out of college developing their career for a year or two, has lived on their own for five years and has WAY more relationship experience than an 18 year old does.
I have no problem with age gap relationships as long as both parties were sufficiently mature at the start of the relationship. My husband is 8 years older than me. But I was 28 and he was 36 when we met- both well established adults with thriving careers and over a decade of adult life under our belts.
You know the answer.
Your GF is too difficult to have a relationship with. At some point it will just be a co-parenting situation.
When that happens, depends on how long you feel you can endure this fatigue.
What you do now, won't change that result
Yep. My ex fiancé knocked a chick up, married her, and moved her into the house I was paying for while I was overseas working for a couple of months. It was fucking hot! Grieving the loss of the future you had planned is not unlike grieving the loss of a pet or family member. It’s a process. And if you don’t work through the process alone or in therapy and carry your grief and fears into the next relationship, you’ll ruin it.
I'm wondering if he gave her something or otherwise engineered he bring tired out. It's just sticking out a little as an odd thing…
I think the easiest explanation might be the case, your husband has an office girlfriend and doesn't want her to find out he's married and cut him off. Who was the co-worker he made dinner plans with, a guy or a woman?
Well, go talk to her dad. Make life uncomfortable for her until she comes clean