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Date: November 13, 2022
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Not every orgasm is an out of body experience. It can depend on so many variables. Sometimes they’re little ones, sometimes they’re big ones. Sometimes they’re a long warm ripple sometimes they’re like a tidal wave.
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It's going to sound stupid but there are different kinds of cheaters. Those who never learn their lesson and don't give a monkeys and those that do.
The issue is, you need to figure out which one he was.
Has he ever gone into detail about why and how long ago it was? Again, some blame it on being young and stupid. Others blame it on being trapped or bored. If he said it was a mistake and he loved her …. blah blah … then it's definitely a red flag. Cheatings a choice. This was planned and executed more then once. Meaning he would have trouble committing and being loyal as he sees how easy it is to get what he wants.
You may need to dig up his past a little bit and reevaluate your relationship. If you've seen he's put a lot of work into himself and he's been single for a while… not even casual sex etc then this could be a good sign. Be careful though. Not all cheaters are genuinely sorry.
A “normal life” with a friend who cheats on every partner he's ever had, is a sore winner constantly rubbing his money in everyone's face, is manipulative to the point of trying to destroy other people's relationships, and who knows what else?
Dude. Is your only friend this much of a jerk?
Now he says he's telling me all that because he wanted me to be better
That's what a lot of abusers say, to mentally justify their own abuse. It's still just abuse, I'd be seriously weighing if I still wanted this person in my life or not.
From experience (not personal, but I know others that were in this situation) it is possibles to be very close and good friends after something like this. But it takes work, you need a therapist for all the ugly emotions and trauma this inflicts on you, and you need close friends you can discuss everything else with. And with time, you and her can have calm conversations about this from both viewpoints, and heal. You have been married, clearly there is love between you two, just not romantic love from her point of view. If you both want, you can make it work, but for now, take care of yourself and sort out what to do with your kids 🙂
This happened to one of my good friends and now he and his ex-wife are best friends. They focused on coparenting and found out they are a better team this way. His ex-wife introduced him to the girl he is seeing now. I am sure in the moment you are really upset but you never know how this may turn out?
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I call it a minor mishap because that what mixing up the date of an adult’s birthday actually is.
If you’re a grown-ass adult and consider it something more than that then there is an issue with your priorities. It has nothing to do with “valuing their birthday.”
You're not wrong and I wish we could. Even if things could go to neutral between us I'd be fine with it.
I was circumcised young and have no memory of it but if I wasn’t, I 100% would not give my weiner’s hoodie up for a girl
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You set your goals and let her set hers. As a matter of fact you both don’t even need to go to the same gym if that helps. If she really is your best friend and an amazing partner who now has decided that she is placing a boundary on talking about her weight or her physical abilities due to how it is affecting her mental health, is it important enough for you to respect it ?
Im an asshole because I am assuming something after 2 years of dating? I know her well and she knows me well, i think you just want to make me sound like a bad person.
Not all boundaries should be blindly accepted. It’s a black and white logic that isn’t healthy for any party involved e.g. alcohol consumption. Replace talking about weight with talking about how much alcohol she drinks. Same concept but more clearly shows the stupidity of a mentality of never questioning boundaries.
On one hand she's lovely. She messages she loves me, I'm on her Instagram posts and she's introduced me to all her friends and even her co -workers know about me but on the other hand she is able to lie to my face, even after I told her honesty is important to me, she still stuck with her story.
I can assure you there are women who do this and far more and still cheat, I had an ex who tattooed my name very big and bold on her waist even though i told her not to, just to prove to me that she loves me and im the only one, and guess what, she was cheating on me, to this day i haven't seen the tattoo in person only on a picture the day she did it
Not every guy they cheat with will have an empathetic conscience and realize that what he's doing is bad and he needs to come clean to you, most of them don't really give a shit and the fact she has a boyfriend would just be more thrill to them. She continued to lie even though you told her how important being honest in the relationship is, that just shows she has no respect for nether you nor the relationship
Proves he can use the “test” card and get away with anything from now on
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l (26 F) have never came from penetration sex and I'm okay with that. I told my bf (30 M) this when we first started dating so there would be no surprise. We’ve been together 10 months and over the last few I noticed he’d become distant and we weren’t as physical as before. I brought this up to him and he told me he sees sex as pointless since I don't orgasm. I told him that just because I don't finish it doesn't mean I'm not having a good time, but it's a hump he apparently is having a hot time getting over. And apparently he said all the girls (~7) he’s been with before have all finished so apparently I’m the odd one out (also feel like statistically something there isn’t adding up) Since this came up I’ve felt so broken and less confident in my body. I can’t even think about sex without getting depressed. I can’t just start faking orgasms because I don’t want to lie to him and plus that would be sus at this point. Is there a way to get past this? We really don’t want to break up but it seems it’s something he can’t seem to get past and I can’t really change how my body works…
Nobody is arguing that she molested him. Even she agrees and is the reason why she is showing so much remorse. The point I was making was that he actually didn’t care she did it but still made her feel like shit for doing it.
You said he doesn't make much money and comes from poverty, did his phone maybe get shut off? Are you texting him or are you calling him?
I understand that you want an answer but you need to rule out him ghosting you. Call him first, try getting an answer that way. If he doesn't pick up, then you have clearance to go to the house to be more direct. He's probably embarrassed at his situation knowing what you come from. It can be really nude to overcome that but if you're dedicated to staying with him and he likes you, you guys can work it out.
You can call it what you like, but it is cheating.
Came here to say the same
I am with you, ages aside, this guy has lied to you for 9mths. What is there to save?! Dating is a process to find enjoyment and someone to settle down with and see neither in this dude. Run don't walk away.
The issue is not one of condoms, it’s that your husband seems to be hanging on to a possible future where he conceives biological children despite your mutual agreement that was absolutely not happening in your marriage. In other words, he’s keeping his options open to father a child with another woman in case you divorce, die, whatever.
Forget the vasectomy for a moment—are you both still on the same page about children? Has he had a change of heart? That’s the real issue here—the form birth control will probably figure itself out if the two of you really are on the same page.
I think of it as someone you can talk to who won’t judge you, isn’t emotionally invested in your situation, you won’t burden with your problems (which can happen with friends) and they don’t go tell everyone. I think most, if not all, people would benefit from at least a little therapy.
The person you were falling in love with valued monogamy and respected you. He has proven that he isn’t that person. Mourn the loss of that person but please don’t fall for the jerk that he really is.
Listen, I grew up in a home like this….and if ANYONE ever raised their voice at me let alone hit me…I would walk away. YOU KNOW DEEP DOWN this is NOT NORMAL and YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN WHAT YOU GREW UP WITH. Set your bar WAY HIGHER! You may love him, but once you break up with him, and not living with him, and no longer have to walk on eggshells because you are afraid of his anger…you will feel the relief of not being with him anymore. AND he DOES NOT LOVE YOU….if he did he wouldn’t hurt you.
If this is the first time he beat you and you stay with him…it will NOT be the LAST TIME.
Been here before. Made the wrong call. Now divorced.
Damn imagine taking the side of the bloke who cheated and his AP.
Go mum might as well drop all the toxic people in her life.
Sounds like you and your wife should talk about this more to make sure you're both on the same page.
That made me laugh but also I feel like that is so true
I look almost exactly like my father's mother. Genetics are crazy!!
I think it’s just the age gap kink that she likes, and the fact that it feels wrong. But yeah idk I don’t want to think about that
You sound like a cheater yourself.
Op, I don't think we online in the same country and even then, I would be a better family to you!
If I was you, I would just put on mute the notifications of the family chat and online on. If they plan something that you can't go, just say you can't and move on. Don't move your schedule for them, if it is convenient for you, you go to stuff, if it isn't, then don't even worry. Don't make your family the most important people in your life if they aren't willing to give back the consideration. Make plans, make new friends and even a new family. Put yourself first.
Op, I don't think we online in the same country and even then, I would be a better family to you!
If I was you, I would just put on mute the notifications of the family chat and online on. If they plan something that you can't go, just say you can't and move on. Don't move your schedule for them, if it is convenient for you, you go to stuff, if it isn't, then don't even worry. Don't make your family the most important people in your life if they aren't willing to give back the consideration. Make plans, make new friends and even a new family. Put yourself first.
Good point, thanks for putting it into perspective. I’ll try to shut down this thought process and get back to focusing on myself.
That seems the easiest way to have answers
That seems the easiest way to have answers
Ask her what she wants from you. If she’s not going to date you then why would she care who you date?
Have you asked her how she plans to date? Marriage doesn’t happen by accident.
Decide what you want from her. If she’s going to keep playing games then you are wasting your time on a girl that likes you but plans to do nothing more. Why invest so much time, no matter how much you wished she was available, to avoid dating others. It’s time for some decisions.
You date or end it.
Watch the movie, “The Graduate,” and you'll find your answer.
And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson,
Jesus loves you more than you will know.
Whoa, whoa, whoa
Thank you for the link.
Yah, this is your thing, get a hotel room or stay with friends. I wouldn’t be changing my plans, she’s ridiculous.
Some children who have to be adults early. She didn't raise him. She just birthed him.
Do you know we pick our partners by how they treat us and what kind of people they are. A couple of big red flags number one Caleb’s life is disastrous and it doesn’t make choices very well. As evidence by how is behaved before you and around you.
Secondly, basically ghosted you for another girl, so do you go back and start liking him again until the next one comes around? There’s something no way I would go near a guy like that. He’s toxic and just poison. If you want except his apology, say thank you we were nothing and good luck with your life I’m not interested. You will avoid so many problems, so that five years from now you’re not in the cheating stories with your horrible story about Caleb