Ask him. And if tge answer is weird… leave. Sorry to say that.
I once was with a guy who always would tell me: “When we build a house…. When we build a house.” (he had land with a construction permit on it.). He even went as far as planning out the direction, where which rooms were to be. Etc.
One day… don't ask me, what bit me that day… I asked him: “Who is we?” His answer was: “Me, my parents and my grandpa.”
I asked him, why I was not included. He told me I just wasn't the girl he wanted to stay with on the long run.
I was flabbergasted and so hurt.
Why am I telling you that?
Sometimes guys will be with girls but perfectly KNOW that this isn't a long term relationship. Not the “and they stayed together ever after.”
ASK your guy what on earth bit him to hurt and bully you that way? (Yes, bullying is also excluding one person when everybody else is included).
It MAY he that there are issues on his side.
But it may also that this was supposed to be a family chat but his younger brother had just thrown his gf in there without even asking for permission and they couldn't well throw her out without upsetting little brother.
There’s a term for what the cheater is doing – DARVO please look it up. It’s basically them not taking any responsibility, then turning it on the betrayed that they doubted her in the first place
‘Yes I went back to the AP’s house, but how dare you not trust me after I betrayed your trust?’ Something convoluted like this.
If she has so much issue being watched she should just leave. Also even if she wanted to get something from the guy’s house (which I don’t believe but whatever) there’s no reason she couldn’t have told her husband first, or send someone else
sure her reasoning makes sense. Just not to you..out of curiosity what are you doing on a Friday night, out with friends, till one am? it matters, so how about some extra info…are you at a charity hospital cheering up the terminally ill patients? late night softball league?
I always find it when couples get upset over watching porn.
She did not gave me the numbers, the first I found it myself and the guy from the gym I have not talk to the guy ever
Whaaaat? What is that weird crap?
Ask him. And if tge answer is weird… leave. Sorry to say that.
I once was with a guy who always would tell me: “When we build a house…. When we build a house.” (he had land with a construction permit on it.). He even went as far as planning out the direction, where which rooms were to be. Etc.
One day… don't ask me, what bit me that day… I asked him: “Who is we?” His answer was: “Me, my parents and my grandpa.”
I asked him, why I was not included. He told me I just wasn't the girl he wanted to stay with on the long run.
I was flabbergasted and so hurt.
Why am I telling you that?
Sometimes guys will be with girls but perfectly KNOW that this isn't a long term relationship. Not the “and they stayed together ever after.”
ASK your guy what on earth bit him to hurt and bully you that way? (Yes, bullying is also excluding one person when everybody else is included).
It MAY he that there are issues on his side.
But it may also that this was supposed to be a family chat but his younger brother had just thrown his gf in there without even asking for permission and they couldn't well throw her out without upsetting little brother.
Ask.
There’s a term for what the cheater is doing – DARVO please look it up. It’s basically them not taking any responsibility, then turning it on the betrayed that they doubted her in the first place
‘Yes I went back to the AP’s house, but how dare you not trust me after I betrayed your trust?’ Something convoluted like this.
If she has so much issue being watched she should just leave. Also even if she wanted to get something from the guy’s house (which I don’t believe but whatever) there’s no reason she couldn’t have told her husband first, or send someone else
Guess he was pretty blind those months
Lmao what, how do you miss a flight?
but also saying that he’d like to see me and that if I did book a flight, any time works for him.
So he just said any time works for him, and you follow that with:
I was trying to choose between a few times and asking if he had a preference
This might be difficult for you to understand, but when you make mistakes – especially ones that impact others – you have to fix them.
Am I being dense for feeling extremely bothered by his response?
You admit that he's absolutely justified in his annoyance…so yes, you are being dense.
Now I’m not sure if I should fly out to see him because I don’t think this is behavior I’d want to let slide.
Nope, I take that last part back. “Dense” is a compliment compared to what you've posted here
sure her reasoning makes sense. Just not to you..out of curiosity what are you doing on a Friday night, out with friends, till one am? it matters, so how about some extra info…are you at a charity hospital cheering up the terminally ill patients? late night softball league?