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Date: October 13, 2022
Thanks for the advice
Well, I think it's fair to disclose such information if you want to have babies with her in the future.
I’ve been turning down his offers for sex, so he begs me for just a few seconds and usually I concede, after saying no several times
Why are you dating someone that doesn't respect you enough to accept the fact that you don't want sex?
I told him no that I just wanted to kiss him. He proceeded to try to get me off, and I (forcefully because he was resistant) pushed his hand away and told him no about 5 times
I'm not a lawyer, but if the sexual coercion wasn't some form of assault, then this definitely is. Someone who respects and cares about you wouldn't touch you after you say no, and you shouldn't have to physically fight off anyone trying to grope you, least of all your BF. Why does he even bother to ask if you want sex if he will only accept the answer that he wants?
how many times am I going to have to say no?
I just don’t know how to approach it because I’m such a pushover and I usually concede
I think you're past that. By your own admission, you often say no and then end up having sex anyway because your BF is so persistent. It's literally easier for you to have sex that you don't want than it is for you to get your BF to accept your autonomy over your own body.
This isn't a “you being a pushover” problem, this is a “your BF is a rapist” problem, you've established clear and concise boundaries, your BF is just ignoring them because sex is more important to him than what you want. You shouldn't have to explain consent to a 23 year old man.
I'm not sure why any assumptions are being made by your friends, you or anyone else.
The “jokes” being made are happening, because there are situations where this might very well be a reality. Hopefully it's not here, that's that, and you can just communicate it and/or laugh it off.
On the other end, is this a realistic situation? I get you're only a month in and he's told you he won't entertain the notion of an arranged marriage, but is that his family's expectation? Will they cut him off if he marries someone they don't approve?
To back up, we can all logically agree that shit like this is absolutely fucking archaic, and separately that if it's an issue that as an adult, people should just tell their family to go fuck themselves. I get it. Unfortunately, the reality isn't that simple. It might be absurd, but if that's the expectation and your partner needs his parents' approval, then that's the end of it.
Your dating history is irrelevant. It doesn't matter how educated you are. Your partner might very well be telling you these things genuinely because he believes them. But you need to find out if that's the absolute truth.
You might personally know couples that look like you. But that's not an argument. Again, I'm fully on your side and I certainly believe that your relationship could absolutely work in a certain context. The problem is that the context is a huge deal here. It's not something that can be argued.
So talk to your boyfriend about all of this and ensure he's honest about it all. Good luck.