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Birth Date: 1995-05-05
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Ethnicity: ethnicityIndian
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Date: October 22, 2022
it was never my intention to be insensitive. i obviously will never tell a soul. i came to reddit because its anonymous here and i wanted advice on how to support him better, what to do when he needs me, what to say. i would never betray him like that. thank you for showing me a different perspective. im sorry that happened to you. more power to you
How could you possible forgive her for that?
How could she possible be paying you back?
She's been defrauding you, dude. She's been sucking on you like a vampire. Do you even think you actually know this woman? Why would you want to stay with someone who has just spent years lying to you and stealing from you? How are you supposed to ever look at her again? Are you going to lie to your family about what she did? Lie to your friends? Coz if you tell them the truth, they're going to slap you silly (metaphorically).
Come on.
This relationship needs to be dead.
And you need to sue her ass off.
2 different issues.
You're friends don't get to say who you date, they need to accept you can and should date whoever you want.
However, you and this guy are fundamentally different and have completely opposite views on several key, usually deal-breaker topics. Money, educational views, raising kids, religion, etc. Those aren't “he loves Italian cuisine, I prefer Indian” differences, those are core things that I expect will make dating this guy just not work out.
It’s high school level cockiness. He’s insecure and immature
It’s a serious issue. I used to masturbate all the time at an old job because the job was so boring. He should be intimate with you and willing to work on that. If he’s just relying on porn, then he’s not worth it.
That’s why I kept sort of trying to be almost nice as I argued. I once again have zero issue with you having a preference for fit, active men. I forget if I mentioned it, but anecdotally, I’m a guy and I’m happily married. My preference is fit women. My wife’s fit. She was fit when we met. But that’s the point; we committed to each other because we learned we we’re compatible from the beginning.
Now, before everyone loses their mind, attraction as it relates to compatibility is just one piece of a much larger puzzle, but it’s a piece nonetheless. I don’t love my wife because I’m attracted to her. I love my wife because if that and every other area making us compatible.
To go back to the point, he’s not fit and wasn’t when you committed to him. Maybe you assumed he’d just change. But that’s on you. If he were fit, you’ve been dating a while, and he let himself go, I assure you this would be a different conversation.
The dad thing is weird, but I’d have to assume their marital issues are fair deeper than his body type, so it’s not fair for you to project that onto your boyfriend. But honestly, if you associate overweight men to being shitty partners, why did you get into this relationship?
To address the end and summarize, the issue any of us have with you is that this wasn’t how you titled or framed your argument. You’re now being honest which is what I asked for and I’m glad you did. But you now have to be honest with him about what you want. Maybe he breaks up with you. But honestly, so be it. You’re not going to be happy if nothing changes. We can shit on you all day, but it’s your life. Do what makes you happy.
Why are u together with him? He uses your naivety for who*ing around with your permission and blames the look of your Vag for his legalized cheating? Girl, what do u get out of this relationship?!
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You don't break up for what someone did, you break up for who that person is.
You ought to talk with him about these sorts of things first and understand what his point of view is toward it.
If he's a good guy who treats you well and just made a mistake then that's one thing, but if he's a habitual derelict then that's when you should leave.
The weight loss is a big deal here. It’s not uncommon men who choose a bigger woman to do so because they expect her to be insecure and to be codependent with him; it makes him feel in control and like she’ll never leave him.
This husband sounds like a prime example of that, and now that she’s in shape he’s the one whose insecurities are showing.