At this point, I think you should cancel the wedding. You seem insecure and unsure of everything to the point of where you're now asking her of every little thing and “grilling” to get truths. I don't know half the crap I get on my clothes but I can say that I've had mud treatments before and have always had a little left behind here and there that has gotten onto my clothes. I feel like you're more insecure at the fact that she's had a random orgasm while with a professional who just happens to be male amd you've said you've never gotten her close so quickly so it's easier to turn it all around.
Yes, I am, so that we can have a healthier and more balanced relationship. I understand that everyone has their hobbies and interests, but when it becomes an addiction that starts affecting other aspects of their life, including our relationship, then it becomes a problem that needs to be addressed.
Tell her she can explore, on her own and break up with her. She is cheating and is stupid too. She left it open….Tell her to explore before she gets in to a committed relationship and good luck.
Thanks for that context. I’m happy to hear that. So the reality is that you’re infatuated with her and putting her up on a pedestal while wearing rose colored glasses. In general, no judgement here. Everyone gets excited in these similar situations.
But you need to realize she’s not perfect. I’m not saying she’s not amazing or as great as you’ve learned that she is, but you’re currently looking at her as the model of perfection and are worrying that you aren’t good enough. You need to let that go.
No one’s holding a gun to her head to be with you. It’s not even just one date; it’s multiple dates and it’s still going. As such, you need to be confident in yourself. While you’re here worrying that she’s too good for you? She’s thinking the same.
The issue becomes not that you’re “too kind” or “too romantic;” those are great attributes. The problem is that many people (and I assume you) see being overbearing as being kind and romantic. It’s not.
You’re also asking for constant reassurance. That’s a problem and you need to stop. It’s honestly absurd that you’re doing this this early. It’s never good, but it’s really really bad considering you’re at the two week point. Just accept that she’s into you. Her actions will show you if she’s not.
Thank you, this brings up some very thoughtful issues. With the main issue being — “What if it doesn’t work out and we want to separate while you’re living here?” I don’t anticipate she’ll be offended at all by that question, and it’s a really important one. I think having her own place would be a great idea.
I wouldn't. She is a young adult, give her some time to work it out on her own. She also might really resent you. Step back, talk with her.
He loves you but tells you to shut up when you ask him to do basic chores? If that’s love i don’t wanna know what being disliked by him is like
At this point, I think you should cancel the wedding. You seem insecure and unsure of everything to the point of where you're now asking her of every little thing and “grilling” to get truths. I don't know half the crap I get on my clothes but I can say that I've had mud treatments before and have always had a little left behind here and there that has gotten onto my clothes. I feel like you're more insecure at the fact that she's had a random orgasm while with a professional who just happens to be male amd you've said you've never gotten her close so quickly so it's easier to turn it all around.
Yes, I am, so that we can have a healthier and more balanced relationship. I understand that everyone has their hobbies and interests, but when it becomes an addiction that starts affecting other aspects of their life, including our relationship, then it becomes a problem that needs to be addressed.
Depends on what you've done
Actions speak louder than words
Time heals most wounds
Everyone in this thread is pretending they never went on a porosity?
All videos are labeled as “teen”, even if the woman is 40 years old…
Tell her she can explore, on her own and break up with her. She is cheating and is stupid too. She left it open….Tell her to explore before she gets in to a committed relationship and good luck.
Thanks for that context. I’m happy to hear that. So the reality is that you’re infatuated with her and putting her up on a pedestal while wearing rose colored glasses. In general, no judgement here. Everyone gets excited in these similar situations.
But you need to realize she’s not perfect. I’m not saying she’s not amazing or as great as you’ve learned that she is, but you’re currently looking at her as the model of perfection and are worrying that you aren’t good enough. You need to let that go.
No one’s holding a gun to her head to be with you. It’s not even just one date; it’s multiple dates and it’s still going. As such, you need to be confident in yourself. While you’re here worrying that she’s too good for you? She’s thinking the same.
The issue becomes not that you’re “too kind” or “too romantic;” those are great attributes. The problem is that many people (and I assume you) see being overbearing as being kind and romantic. It’s not.
You’re also asking for constant reassurance. That’s a problem and you need to stop. It’s honestly absurd that you’re doing this this early. It’s never good, but it’s really really bad considering you’re at the two week point. Just accept that she’s into you. Her actions will show you if she’s not.
Thank you, this brings up some very thoughtful issues. With the main issue being — “What if it doesn’t work out and we want to separate while you’re living here?” I don’t anticipate she’ll be offended at all by that question, and it’s a really important one. I think having her own place would be a great idea.