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Date: October 19, 2022
If you were an office character you'd be Angela.
OP, your parents should have no reason to feel unsafe coming to visit you unless your father assaults you again. If he doesn’t, then all will be well. You should remind them of that.
Because she did break up with you. She's been trying to “trickle” break up to let you down easy, but the truth is you're over. You need to respect her wishes and find a healthy way to deal with how you feel, because you're allowed to feel very confused and sad based on how drawn out this was. But yes, you two are over.
I’m a Muslim. My husband was a huge flirt during our engagement but he never asked for n)des. He doesn’t even ask for them during our marriage. A respectable man would never ask that.
Trust me. Just say no to the guy. If he breaks up with you that means he wanted to play around and was not interested in a halal relationship in the first place.
boyfriend (37m) is mad that I got an apartment
You did nothing inappropriate, he shouldn't be mad at you – his behavior/reaction is very inappropriate.
My landlord also divulged my boyfriend's yelling and stuff were factors in why he evicted me because I had been fine
Yeah, you should dump him – in addition to all the above, he's 37 and still living with “brother, sister in law and nieces” – by 37 I'd been living independently for two decades. And what's your boyfriend done for you? Causes you to get evicted and then gets mad at you for finding your own place.
give up on him
Yeah, that's likely the best move.
Okay, if you want to believe him then he needs to prove everything, and by proof I mean concrete proof, no half baked excuses or I can’t remember, if not say goodbye and get a divorce. Count how much time , anguish and hurt you have given this, emotionally and mentally then ask yourself is this all you deserve. No!then move on.
and that's totally fine if you're totally fine with your partner being a hot no or hard yes or anything in between. eg when we first got together my husband was similar to you and I was a very hot no – so we didn't have kids and we're both absolutely content with that. but it doesn't really sound like OP is okay with not having kids
Her daughter definitely needs to watch her boyfriends around her in the future.
Imo, you two aren’t married so it makes sense that she gives them her name.
even if you guys made 140 total, that would still be more than a lot of people make. idk, 4 months isnt a long time. idk if she realizes how insensitive her comment was. and if the roles were reversed, all her friends would be screaming at her to leave you. please check out of this. shes gonna resent you in the future
This is real, I'm at my wits end. She's easily manipulated by other people. What is her life going to look like in twenty years?? How will she keep a job? these people are destroying her.
A healthy boundary is that if someone tells her something in confidence it becomes need to know. Why do you need to know her friends lives?
Also I don’t tell my partner stuff because he can’t remember what’s supposed to be confidential and blurts it out. So now I don’t tell him anything about other people that I’ve been confided with unless he strictly needs to know.
Listen to what you are perceiving. It's likely true. He sounds immature, and tbh, any man over 22 who dates a teenager isn't doing it for the deep meaningfulness of a mature relationship.
Age gap relationships are fine, as long as they're in the window of “same era of life” you and he are not in that. If he was 43 and you were 31, that would be in that same stage of life era. But as 19 and 31, nope.
You have so much more potential than dating a douchebag 30 something man-boy.
When he ask if I’m going to marry my boyfriend I tell him that we are very happy and so happy we don’t feel the need to change anything. I mean I don’t just sit there like an idiot. But how many times can sometimes ask if you’re going to marry someone before you just tell them yes to shut up. It’s like the entire point I can’t say anything is because my boyfriend prohibited any talk of each other at work let alone our relationship status.
If he's gonna pay 1/2 the mortgage, he should get 1/2 ownership with the exception that if the house sells in the event you break up, he gets half of everything EXCEPT the amount you put down to secure the house. ?
His job can pull him at any point for any reason. I’m not comfortable revealing what he does but I have witnessed him receive calls where he’s had to drop everything and race to work. I respect that, but it’s not consistently every day. It’s maybe twice a week & his job is aware he has a family. I don’t understand why he couldn’t just drop them with me on his way in if he gets called in. But I know they are worried about if I’m busy or he doesn’t have time…
Update : I ended things with the girl I was dating, I feel less guilty now, I will look forward and not think about my past too much, thanks commenters
Yes I got uncomfortable when I noticed he started giving them more attention than me.
This is clearly fake, if it’s not, get a therapist
This is why we don't date children.
She is likely thinking engagement isn’t far away and he’s asking how to tell her that it is. If he isn’t going to be honest, she is going to believe that he is planning to ask. He isn’t going to ask her to marry him. She deserves to know that.
She said he is military.
Ur mom is a complete piece dog shit and what’s worse is she has the audacity to feel sorry for herself
Ur mom is a complete piece dog shit and what’s worse is she has the audacity to feel sorry for herself
Why are you not directing some of that anger towards your brother? He agreed to take care of the dogs and left dog waste all over the house. He's a crappy dog sitter.
No one is making you deal with the dog or the kids. You can choose to leave. Find someone who wasn't already a father when you were 11 years old.
Well if it isn’t the pot call the kettle with this guy. Projection big time.
He’s stalking her live, lying to you, and yet is all shocked you are wanting the truth by trying to string together inconsistencies that are consistent.
Op? This guy is doing more than flirting with her.
He’s actively giving his number to her… a guy doesn’t do that unless it’s for business or pleasure.
And clearly it’s not for business reasons if he’s having to LIE about being around her.
She really does sound a little scary
If he didn't think it was wrong he wouldn't call her while he was alone.
And it is an affair, he giving all he spare time to another woman,
I'd flat out tell him to get his shit and get out, until he can acknowledge what he doing is wrong then you are over. And if he never acknowledges it then lucky break
Back in the 90's I was in a small group of people, an “inner circle” of my friends group and we all shared porn with each other.
Both men and women, including my then g/f, her BFF and older sister.
I'm not sure I understand the joke here ?
So, without saying “love”, tell me what you get out of this marriage.
What tangible, emotional, specific benefit does being in this relationship provide? Love is not an answer here because it's vague and easy to hide behind. List specifically what you get out of this relationship. Specifically what makes your life better by being in this relationship.
This doesn't sound like a fulfilling relationship. Or a partnership.
You sound resentful and burnt out. Unhappy. I can't say I blame you. I wouldn't be happy either.
So, what do you get out of this marriage?
What does marriage mean to you? What do you want marriage to look like for you? In your current marriage, are you happy? If no, what would need to change in order for you to be happy? Can you realistically see your husband making those changes? If yes, what steps do you think need to be made to start seeing those changes? Therapy? If no, what do you plan on doing about that?
Where do you want to be in 5 years? What would your ideal life look like? What steps would you need to take to shape that future?
The best advice anyone can give you is not on how to make your husband view your family as his own. He isn't going to. You've been together for nearly 2 decades at this point. If he doesn't treat your family as his own by now, he isn't going to. Nothing you say or do is going to change that. The best advice you can get is to think reflectivity on your life as it is, and determine if you are happy. If you aren't, determine what changes need to be made so you can be happy. They may be little changes, they may be much bigger changes. But only you know what those changes need to be.
Speaking from my own experiences (i.e. as someone with it), it sounds like he has borderline personality disorder alongside PTSD. I heavily second the other comment about hanging out in some of the BPD threads on reddit and maybe seeing if some people would be open to talking to you about it their own experiences with it and experiences with having a partner with the disorder. I
It absolutely does not excuse his behaviour, which is emotionally abusive, but it would explain it at a minimum. He needs to go back into therapy, but try to avoid CBT as that is basically gaslighting for trauma victims. DBT or MBT are ideal if he does indeed have borderline, but would help with PTSD if they find he has that and not BPD.
I would also honestly recommend either breaking up completely or taking a break until he decides to seek help. It's not fair on you to constantly take the brunt of this, and it's going to make you resent him in the long run. Whatever you choose to do, I wish you the best of luck with this
That's fair. Thank you for being honest.
That's fair. Thank you for being honest.
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