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curvy-matture chat
Date: November 25, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
curvy-matture chat
Yes i tell my partner everything i do, if i go out i tell them where i am going and what im doing. She doesnt mind me going out, as long as she knows where i am. That isnt controlling, thats just what people do. Controlling is telling them “no” you can’t do that. Maybe you think it is okay and your partner does too, but that is not a common thing in monogamous relationships.
You are very confused and im sorry you don’t understand the difference between sus and controlling.
Is she on birth control or other medications? Many meds can cause a decrease in libido.
No if he was I wouldn’t consider getting back with him
You have a right to be upset however this wasn't done to intentionally hurt you.
Set a boundary, tell her you're not comfortable wirh your sex life being discussed further with her friends. If she agrees then you can put this down to a misunderstanding. If she doesn't agree then she doesn't respect you or your feelings.
if you want to stay with him despite his compulsive lying, you're going to have to stop snooping as deep down I think you know you're always going to find something. him 'breaking down' when you confront him is manipulation. he's making you comfort him because he knows what he did is wrong and can't face your (rightful) anger. I know you want to stay with him but if he is continuing to lie about this, what else could he be lying about? especially considering you're long distance, you have no idea what he's doing when he wants this 'alone time'. I think he's proved to you that he is unable / unwilling to cut out porn for you. especially watching it while you're with him in person. it's disrespectful to you. I know it's an addiction but he's not taking the steps to stop. he still has twitter, which is clearly a catalyst for this behaviour. if he truly cared, he would delete this off his phone. consider if you want this going forward in your relationship. since you've been with him for 3 years at such a young age I'm aware it will feel crazy to even consider leaving him, but I promise you you deserve and definitely can find someone better.
It’s hot but I’ll try to get over it thanks man
any advice ?
please nothing about divorce because…
Reminds me of that scene from My Big Fat Greek Wedding: Voula: “Tell me what to do, but don't tell me what to do!” Maria: “Perfect!”
OP: You ask for advice, but you want to QUALIFY what advice people can give you; you don't really want advice.
You SERIOUSLY think your children growing up in a home where you and your husband ignore each other and are openly hostile is better than 2 divorced homes where love (and self-love) reside in each home? You need individual therapy.
I’ve been experiencing something similar lately with a family member (not husband). They have ‘a guy’ for everything, someone they feel a little buddy-buddy with, like plumbers and electricians. Because he sees them sort of as friends (I don’t think they see him that way, he’s just a client), he feels embarrassed if we express any doubt about something they tell us. Because they are his ‘friends,’ we are supposed to trust them completely and go along with what they say or else he feels like it negatively reflects on him and they won’t like him as much.
Maybe you have something like that going on? It is very prudent to consult someone else and stopping to think about something before impulsively agreeing to it is ideal. Money can make things really awkward in personal/coworker relationships.