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Date: October 11, 2022
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Yes—because that message is all about you and your needs. You’re imposing your unresolved issues on her. It’s deeply unfair and unkind. To quote my mother: “stop looking at your own navel and start really considering other people. You are not the star of a drama.”
Idk if I'm becoming obsessed about age gaps bc of reddit but every time I read the posts the first thing I do is making math, context is very important when it's about adults grooming naive young people.
Look, I did my fair share of being a Tinderella and I made some really bad choices and some really good ones. As women we have to take additional precautions when it comes to meeting strange (to us) men for the first time. Some of these precautions include what you talk about and when. Some things are better left found out or said before you meet. In your case, I feel like this is one of those things. My reasoning is based on the fact that you came here to ask how you should handle this. I’m concerned that if you address this in person you’ll feel put on the spot and might freeze up or not want to hurt his feelings and then it’ll just be awkward. Idk I have anxiety just thinking about it.
Talk to him before. if he adjusts, cool, if not, then bullet dodged.
^ this
If she is THAT triggered that you protected her and your home, she needs therapy. I’ve been abused and would actually feel safe knowing that my partner could and would defend. In fact I’d be a bit disgusted, albeit privately I’d hope, if you’d screamed, shut the door, froze, etc.
It doesn’t quite make sense honestly. Does she have ANY reason to believe you’d have a blackout like rage toward her? That is the only reason I can fathom she’d react like that toward you.
Brother or not, I would feel a bit violated if someone else slept in my bed regardless of relationship or any sexual activity.
If marriage isn't even in foreseeable future, I think it's too much to ask of you to just stop having sex especially since he's been doing it before.
Maybe he's using this to try and trap you in a marriage sooner than you want?
When your best friend gets a boyfriend, you become the second best friend. This is a juvenile take but it still is the truth. Why dont you accept this simple reality?
It is very difficult to deal with a parent in an arranged-marriage society. Bargaining, delaying tactics, and defiance are your choices.
By way of bargaining, it seems unlikely to me that this marriage would be completed while you and the proposed bride are still working on becoming independent adults. My understanding of your traditions is that you first complete medical training and secure steady employment before taking wedding vows. You could ask father if this bride is to have nothing required of her? Are you seriously expected to teach her to be an adult, a wife, or a mother? If she has not learned these things, then completing this training before marriage must be part of the marriage bargain. Perhaps the stubborn bride and proud family will refuse the bargain.
Delaying tactics are usually about preparing yourself to be a husband and father. To complete military service, education, training. To have a steady career, income, and savings. Perhaps by then the impatient bride and her family will have made other plans.
The defiance route is to thank him for his concern about your financial future, and tell him that you are a man now, and you will take responsibility for yourself, as a man should. Now, how to get into medicine without financial support is the question. The fastest route is probably to work as a medical aide, if not for your own country's military or national health service, then for any employer, perhaps in a war zone, or any place where hazardous-duty pay can be high.