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Date: November 21, 2022
Your fiancé is telling you he’s going to stand you up at your wedding. Is he offering to offset the cost of canceling the wedding or is he planning on leaving you holding the bag?
There’s no way he HAS to sign a contract that has him gone in 10 months. And even then there’s usually leave granted, he couldn’t work in a week off for his wedding and honeymoon into the contract?
It doesn’t sound like your fiancé is making much space for you in his life, he makes the decisions and expects you to do all the legwork to stay together. Listen to your gut, don’t give up your life for someone who isn’t making an effort to be in yours.
This!!!
I second going with your gut on this, OP. Your husband left for two weeks. You said that it was traumatic for you. He had his two weeks, tell him you need your two weeks. Matter of fact, take as long as you need.
Reflect & figure out if this is a relationship you want to keep. Is it worth it? Do you trust him?
If he wants therapy, let him. But he should have sought therapy BEFORE abandoning his marriage.
I don't think 'stress' is necessarily code for anything but stress in our situation. We do not live together, we live an hour away and I drive to her constantly. She is evidently very stressed and depressed from her loss. Her new family dynamic and exactly how much responsibility it requires of her has been talking a toll on her. I hate that my frustration and resent has come up at such a difficult time for her, but I have been trying to address this problem between us for so long with no real progress. We've talked about it at nauseam and see constantly sees it from a viewpoint of disgust. She says I am only here for sex! She tells me how “psychotic” it is that I want sex at a time like this. I have tried and tried to explain that this isn't about sex as much as it is about being physically and intimately connected. She is set in her ways and does not see my perspective.
I want to help her through her loss. I also feel grief for the loss of her father. I go out of my way to help her and her family with anything and everything. It is hurtful when she says “all you want is sex” because it discounts everything I do for her on a daily basis. Regardless of what the latest challenge is in the relationship, we all have needs that need to be met for the relationship to function properly. She does not feel supported, considered, nor heard. I want to help and I am a good man, I treat her right, but lately my resentment for this intimacy issue has gotten the best of me.
I do not want to leave her, especially while she is enduring such pain and stress in the aftermath of her loss, I am just not sure what to do. It has been so long since I first brought this to her attention.
It’s hilarious watching you repeatedly try to put your morality onto the population as a whole, and just get repeatedly corrected
Yeah they've figured out more since we were in school. Read the article that is linked in a reply to my first comment in this thread. It explains it.
I don't see why the chances of either scenario I mentioned happening.
I mean he respected your no huge green flag. But side note my wife and I are legit sparring partners because of the strength difference so I can be her safe space while she learns self defense.
No. It's not. You wash the dishes to show that you're grateful to the other person for cooking. You gas up the car when you're driving because you are the one using it.
I'm sorry if that's too difficult for you.
Guys it is entirely possible that Rick is just drunk. Although I think it's more likely that this is a creative writing exercise.
Did he grow up rich? Because I had no idea that any of that is against “social rules”
Now, my boyfriend wants to break up with me because of my behaviour towards men that I know. He doesn’t care how I interact with women because it’s different, even though I am bisexual. I’m unsure on whether or not I want to continue to be in a relationship with someone who wants me to act like a robot in public
You had a conversation with a man, and that's what he find disrespectful? Because you agreed when you went out to the bar to have fun, you had fun? And you turned in your seat a bit? That is grossly exaggerated to be called disrespect.
We’ve had some disagreements regarding what is appropriate and inappropriate behavior in relationships. He believes that if you love someone, you would do anything for them.
This kind of talk, “you would do anything for me if you loved me” is VERY manipulative. He's clearly controlling and manipulating you emotionally given the examples you provided.
You are younger and less experienced in adult romantic relationships, he's a well practiced manipulator. Beware.
Can u pls explain why? 🙁 thank you.
I really like that you responded this way to my comment. Proves everyone’s point about OP dropping this friend. a little sarcasm to put things into perspective look at all the downvotes. So OP are you going to stay friends or not??
My comment was total bullshit just like OP trying keep this friendship over his wife’s feelings.
I’m sure your friend also said at some point that they’d never cheat on their spouse and look what happened. You really can’t say anything with certainty, but your actions and who you chose to surround yourself with are pretty good indicators. I’m sure your wife is reevaluating your character, not her trust in you.
As an alt guy who likes a variety of different types of guys: often times people just want to date people who look similarly to them or give off the same vibes. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but you gotta keep it pushin, and keep lookin.
We have an app that allows us to track our kids location, driving, etc. One day, it showed our son was sitting in the same place for hours. During a big snow storm. His phone app just froze for the entire morning. We checked the location twice then went to his school to make sure he had made it. Just a glitch.
It's only manipulative if you're doing something intentionally to get her to act a certain way. Accepting that money and never talking to her again isn't doing anything manipulative at all.
All in all, I feel like I was used. Financially when I paid a 3rd of their rent when dad was still looking for work in my city and I didn't want them to be stuck out while missing expected income bc fiancé was living there in between driving trucks over the road. Emotionally when ever I was needed I was there as a shoulder to cry on or to talk when they needed me or just t be there even when they didn't need me. I would call just to say hi and check on them and let them know i loved them. I am so hurt and confused and feeling a bit worthless after this experience.
We were 21/31 respectively when we met.
I don't know anymore. The way he was talking…yeah, it seems like he does.
I mean, you hurt her. You want to play the technicality game go for it but that won't really ever change the fact that you acknowledge you'd be hurt if she did the same, though at least you sort of humoured the idea it might while she didn't at all so she took the full brunt of that kick to the stomach. If saying it wasn't formally cheating helps you sleep at night then yes, fine, it wasn't formally cheating because you two didn't technically set boundaries.
I don't think that will help her though. The fact it was alcohol, that it was regrettable, that it was not technically cheating… you already know those things won't really convince her that this was okay. Likely one of her big fears about distance were confirmed.
Just give her time. It may be that she never really gets over it, if that is the case you reflect on your relationship with alcohol moving forwards.
Damn, how many times have you posted this?