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I couldn’t concentrate on the rest of the post because I am trying to figure out what word he meant instead of elaborate.
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-Herbal teas such as chamomile or lavender
-Exercise
-Spending time in nature
-Deep breathing exercises
-Yoga or meditation
Some advice on how to be more supportive to your partner during this time may include:
-Being an active listener – really try to understand what they are going through and how they are feeling
-Offering practical help where you can, such as taking on some of their chores or errands so they can have a break from everything
-Encouraging them to take care of themselves both physically and mentally, by getting enough rest, exercise, and healthy food
It sounds like outside pressure is the problem, or maybe your perception of outside pressure. To hell with all of that. If you make each other happy, that's more important than all the rest, and I'd bet a lot of these equal-level relationships will end badly because that's no foundation to build a relationship on.
Yeah we do have a pretty good relationship, the sex situation is one of the few real pain points for me. And I haven't really been able to make much progress over the years of our relationship. If anything we've moved backwards, early in the relationship she would try oral sex sort of halfheartedly for maybe 5-10 seconds before getting bored/tired/grossed out and quitting, at time of writing it's been half a year since she tried to go down on me. The only reason I'm reaching out to internet strangers (you've been great by the way, I really appreciate you taking the time to give advice on this) is that I'm pretty much out of ideas.
7 years age gap doesn’t sound like a big gap until something like this comes up.
You clearly told him you weren’t ready numerous times and he just didn’t listen.
It wouldn’t surprise me if you also felt relieved now that the relationship is over. Just enjoy yourself
I was just saying that’s the minimum age I would be comfortable getting engaged.
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It’s fucking weird for him not use lube. That’s just ridiculous and it feels like he’s blaming you but he’s not even trying.
I want to know how you send nudes to somebody in a non-sexual way?
Obviously, but surely if I ask “do you like me” it might come across weird or something?
They announced it was a hoax already. Why does OP need to contact the husband specifically? They should just contact the police station.
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If this isn't a troll, you need to projectile eject this subhuman scum out of your life. This person is not good for or to you, no matter how nice or loving he may seem otherwise or the previous good times you've had with him. I don't know how to be clearer in this, for your sake, leave him.
Sorry you go through this … his behavior showing that he’s about sex only not even wants to be friends with you .. you started to develop attachment to him but seems he’s not interested…. You’ll get your power back , try to meditate, hang with family … it’s naked at the beginning but you’ll get that power one day.
The only way to know where he stands would be to ask him. Especially since it’s an live friendship.
I will say, seeing as it’s been an live! friendship that developed from a sort of sexting online fling, I would imagine it’s a “low stakes” relationship in his mind. I don’t know anything for certain, but unless you’ve had a discussion about otherwise that’s how I would imagine most would classify it.
Either way, I think you just need to ask him to get clarity. But, I would say it might be good for you to take some “you time” regardless of how this turns out. Coming out of a 10 year relationship where you feel like you’ve lost your self-worth is a lot. It sounds like you’re really getting into your head over a casual online relationship, and as you’ve stated, it probably has a lot to do with your past relationship. Spending time building yourself up before jumping back into dating will help you navigate relationships better when you’re ready.
I am in Arizona. And everything’s been great. I have her cats in my new place and her 2 motorcycles in my garage next to mine.
Yes he has random anger and breaks something occasionally. Last week it was our printer. He broke our mirror, and there are also holes in our walls too. He can’t control the mood swings that come with the side effects
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Sounds like something i'd have wrote on my LiveJournal when I was 16.
Yeah we were sitting on the couch next to each other with our arms over each others shoulders, but we were also quite drunk. (Id never dance with a girl if I wasnt). Im scared shed tell other people about me dming her though or that itll become awkward next time I see her, but maybe Im overthinking too much
Give yourself some time to let your feelings settle. It’s normally to feel horribly sad right now and devastated. However that doesn’t mean going back is what is right for you.
Break ups are never easy. And we always want to believe that if something was different we could have made it work with our ex.. but this is also hardly the truth. Ask yourself – do I want to be a father type figure? Do I want to plan all vacations around two kids? Spend my time with them? Etc. if the answer is not a hell yes , even if you love her still I would encourage you to walk away.
Side note: I think if you go into something fearing you will disappoint them and it ready, you are already one foot out the door and set up for failure.
Turns out I wasn’t overthinking lol she removed me on insta yesterday. I get not wanting to go on another date, that happens all the time, but telling me she was down & then unfriending & ghosting me feels a littlee dirty
Literally like it was okay to cheat on his wife but breaking it off with the mistress is where he draws the line ??
Then my best guess is ego.
Men don’t like the idea that another object can please their SO. That it should be solely their job.
I don’t agree with it but I’d say men taking issue with their SO getting off is a semi frequent post on here and ego seems to be the common theme.
He needs to learn that it’s your body and your choice. As long as you aren’t jerking it to his friends Instagram accounts, I’d say it’s not really any of his business and he should support you.
I dont really see an issue from this instance, but judging from your comments there’s a lot more history and perhaps an alcohol problem.
But if you have an issue, you need to communicate with her and not expect her to read your mind. If you have boundaries when partying, you should communicate this before hand (no all nighters or something), not afterwards and then get upset. Both of them wanted to include you so I don’t think there’s anything malicious going on.
I also don’t know what the argument was about, your gf could’ve rightfully stood up for her friend. I’m not going to judge your gf just because they argued.
Can people not handle their booze in the states?
Where I live it’s pretty normal to go on work nights out on a Thursday and then rock up to work on the Friday.
that means no tv or lights on in the room, please
I would’ve rolled my eyes too. She’s not your daughter, she’s your wife. She’s a grown adult, not a child. She doesn’t need to be disrespected by you. And if you do that, I’d say an eye roll is an appropriate response.
How would you feel if the baby lived full time with you, and your gf went home to her own place every night?
Well, as for the specific question you're asking here there is not a way to say no without hurting his feelings.
However, you might be honest and tell him what you wrote here and it could cushion the blow.
You need to take care of yourself. Your kid is old enough now to notice these toxic patterns and you are modeling a relationship to your child — you’re teaching them that it’s acceptable for one person to do all of the work and carry the full burden.
You run the very high risk of your child going out and getting straight into an abusive relationship. That’s all they’ve ever seen. Then when they get older they realize you just never stood up for yourself and allowed your partner to treat you like crap for decades for literally nothing. They will resent you for not teaching them how to set boundaries and be strong, and they will resent your wife for being neglectful and taking advantage.
If your kid was 18 and about to date your wife what would you tell them? Would you tell them to stick it out for another 15 years?
You need to start making some changes. See if you can get a therapist for yourself. Your codependency is not doing you any favors. Being alone would be far better than this. And your wife would find a way to take care of herself. But you have to make some big changes because it is very naked for a child to grow up with two parents who resent each other but will not leave. They’ll be out the door at 18 and you won’t hear from them again.
That is not true at all.
My dad was like that and my mom stopped trying after like 10 years of fighting but didn't have him… and he never owned a tooth brush and his teeth all fell out and he smells and never did anything to help while she with he'd two jobs and he did work yes, but not as much and fever hell is with me or my 2 siblings. She finally left him and 32 years and has no idea what to do with herself. There's your future.
You've asked for advice before. You've been given it. Now that things have escalated, and you are not only in physical danger, but are in danger of being jobless and homeless, you can guarantee the advice won't change.
You need to break up. There is literally no other advice that will help you.
But you won't. So what do you expect by continuing to come here? No one's gonna change their mind now that it's worse, and frankly, if you're only after sympathy, you're in the wrong place.
Being “serious” has zero value when he leverages his power over you when you're vulnerable.
It's even worse.
Believe the dozens of voices in this thread: you do not want to be “serious” or attached to a man that will abandon you in an unsafe position when you need his help the most.
The qualities you listed are the basic ticket to entry for a healthy relationship. They are not outstanding and he's nothing special.
I don't care if they do that either (pleasure themselves to a picture or video of another person). The women I know don't care either. And many of us watch porn for pleasure as well. I'm not trying to say I'm an authority, I'm simply saying I personally find it more common for women NOT to care. Except on Reddit. But I think that's because a lot of women on Reddit are younger and in newer relationships. I also think a lot of younger women are made to feel incredibly insecure by social media. It affects all of us, but maybe those of us that are of my generation (Gen X), are old enough to see it for what it is (propaganda to make women feel less than).
I would rather be alone than with some guy who decided to screw my best friend… Clearly he doesn't love you and neither does your friend. You're not going to be alone anyway, you're clearly able to find someone since you had a guy that wanted you right off. You're son to be ex only wanted your friend because he couldn't have her. He did and it wasn't as exciting as he thought. Get rid of both of those people
I would rather be alone than with some guy who decided to screw my best friend… Clearly he doesn't love you and neither does your friend. You're not going to be alone anyway, you're clearly able to find someone since you had a guy that wanted you right off. You're son to be ex only wanted your friend because he couldn't have her. He did and it wasn't as exciting as he thought. Get rid of both of those people
Dude this means nothing, this is a dna test not a paternity test they are totally different things and since you don’t have your parents genetic profiles to compare it to who cares man. Asia is technically massive and ruled the world multiple times through history, hell dude Ghengis Khans DNA literally exists in something like 25% of the worlds population as he basically fathered kids everywhere he went and he owned the modern world at the time, this is almost assuredly where you’re Asian genes are from.
Life isn’t a soap opera man the reality is that your genes date back thousands of years and have two different family sides that they follow. Like if I’m being honest I’d say it’s probably like 5% chance it’s what you’re thinking and 95% chance that it’s one of hundreds of reasons why it could be.
Like I know someone who is whiter than shit Irish, red headed yada yada and has something like 25% Asian genes in there somewhere man.
Like there is more to genetics than just skin color and hair, maybe you have fucking Asian lungs and liver or some shit lol dude like cmon now you’re an adult act like one.
Watch man show the results to your parents they will think that’s cool take one too and bam will find out that one of them is a large amount Asian and never knew it because genealogical records are dog shit anymore than 150 years ago and are still suspect.
To be fair, they just kissed. They weren't exclusive, she didn't know how deep his feelings for her were. For all she knew, they were just having fun and he would do the exact same thing if a girl approached him in that moment. She realised she upset him and deeply apologized. There's really no need to be petty or mean.
To be fair, they just kissed. They weren't exclusive, she didn't know how deep his feelings for her were. For all she knew, they were just having fun and he would do the exact same thing if a girl approached him in that moment. She realised she upset him and deeply apologized. There's really no need to be petty or mean.
What emotions are we talking about?
Oh I'm sticking with my therapist! They're really the best and have helped me so much in the past 5 months I think. And I'm wondering if that help is why I'm feeling this way. I have gotten a lot of clarity and am standing up for myself better. I'm saying no more and speaking up when I can! And I'm not sure how to create the tension. We do not argue so there's no makeup anything, I've tried looking up ways to encourage romantic growth but that's not been helpful because… well Google lol.
What a disgusting double standard comes out in this sub when scratched.
Polygamy = multiple wives. Do you know anything about your lifestyle?
Post in r/polyamory to get advice
Idk what I just read