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Date: January 19, 2023
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
hi everyone happy to see u here)lets make fun
Thank you so much. Everyone around me was telling me it was the right thing to do but I just didn't feel like it was. I just needed someone to tell me the truth
This was very heartbreaking to read. I am so sorry this happened to you and that your gf is such a weak person that she let very unprofessional co workers tamper with her to the point she broke up. They are not her friends and that never should have happened, nor should she have allowed it to continue. I believe she was much more of an active participant in it than she is letting on. What she showed you was that she was someone that lacks integrity, and frequently airs all her dirty laundry to anyone willing to bend their ear to her. She lacks the maturity to know when and what to keep as her business, and what should and shouldn’t be work talk. She is not mature enough to be a wife. For her sake, hopefully she grows up. But you are right, it’s well and fine to be sorry, but actions still have consequences and her actions pretty clearly showed her ass.
From the rear…
Thanks, I fully agree that Sami is being too kind and generous to Tom (and have told her so, albeit quite gently). Certainly far more generous than I would be. But it's her life and she has to come to terms with the end of her marriage (and the end of the dream she had for her marriage) on her own timeline.
I don't have any evidence that Mark is or has cheated – but it's certainly possible he is projecting or is hiding some sort of related secret.
Hey OP, a few things. First in general good job doing you! My wife and I both grew a lot in our early 20s, but we’ve grown together (early 30s now) growing apart is also totally possible.
The reason I’m replying to this in particular is your “memory” issues don’t sound like memory issues, they sound like underdeveloped executive functioning. Please see a mental health professional, in addition to the general benefits of therapy (my wife and I do individual therapy, couples therapy might help you and your husbands relationship) talking to one might help you with strategies or even medication to help with those issues. I’ve spent a long time developing a hodgepodge system (phone reminders being some of mine too) to get me through those.