She says I do the bare minimum by helping her now when it comes to money and how she does everything. As far as household chores I clean are room every morning, wipe down the bathrooms, laundry, put away clothes, vacuum, dishes, cooking, etc. I did all this before I even lost my job. It’s mainly about money and she doesn’t realize I can find a job that pays 10X what she is getting and then I could just do the same to her which I would never do. It’s essentially like me being rich and going and buying a Range Rover and then saying to her “you can’t even afford this car you barely help.” Except she’s not rich and doesn’t have a Range Rover lol.
Absolutely understand no plus ones. But I don't understand how he wouldn't know about it. I figured he had rsvpd already, and didn't just assume I could come. Maybe the mother was unaware as well but I find it a bit odd she asked if I was going. I actually wasn't invited at the time she asked, so I said no and that I hadn't been asked. Her reply was “oh don't worry, he will”.
Anyway, would you be upset w your partner for being so unaware? The wedding is next week, it's been over 6 months since it was announced.
“I love her and wouldn’t change our life for the world” You asked to have sex with other people. Just by asking that question you changed her world. There would be no coming back from this if I were your wife. You need to ask her to go to marriage counseling or just accept that this is how your marriage is going to be from now on.
Oh damn. I don’t know if it’s cultural norms for them to get to do all the names- I’m shocked he wouldn’t be okay with having middle names, or adding names in addition to his parents names.
mmm…I don't trust that friend. I wonder if she convinced her she had been assaulted?
I think I would leave her too. If you can't kiss your gf on the lips without asking permission…what sort of a relationship is it?
Where is acting as a snob? As someone with AUTISM I don’t see a snob, I see someone with Autism and doing her routines, being herself.
You on the other, maybe a little judging others and start working on judging yourself less so you stop being so f-cking harsh for once in your life.
She says I do the bare minimum by helping her now when it comes to money and how she does everything. As far as household chores I clean are room every morning, wipe down the bathrooms, laundry, put away clothes, vacuum, dishes, cooking, etc. I did all this before I even lost my job. It’s mainly about money and she doesn’t realize I can find a job that pays 10X what she is getting and then I could just do the same to her which I would never do. It’s essentially like me being rich and going and buying a Range Rover and then saying to her “you can’t even afford this car you barely help.” Except she’s not rich and doesn’t have a Range Rover lol.
Absolutely understand no plus ones. But I don't understand how he wouldn't know about it. I figured he had rsvpd already, and didn't just assume I could come. Maybe the mother was unaware as well but I find it a bit odd she asked if I was going. I actually wasn't invited at the time she asked, so I said no and that I hadn't been asked. Her reply was “oh don't worry, he will”.
Anyway, would you be upset w your partner for being so unaware? The wedding is next week, it's been over 6 months since it was announced.
“I love her and wouldn’t change our life for the world” You asked to have sex with other people. Just by asking that question you changed her world. There would be no coming back from this if I were your wife. You need to ask her to go to marriage counseling or just accept that this is how your marriage is going to be from now on.
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Oh damn. I don’t know if it’s cultural norms for them to get to do all the names- I’m shocked he wouldn’t be okay with having middle names, or adding names in addition to his parents names.