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Date: October 7, 2022
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She made you promise not to get in contact with them. Are you going to break that promise? You want to risk that one of her family members is a pedophile?
Jail time
Imo, your bf is right, by staying away and taking the easy way out (hiding until the woman who hopefully might be your future mother in law leaves), instead of fighting to get her approval back. You know you were wrong, you know you messed up, now you have to face the consequences and try and regain their faith and affection. The family was the one witnessing how much of a wreck your guy was, so I think it's understandable that they're hesitant to welcome you back.
I'm sorry about your past marriage and what happened to you, but what his mother knows is that to her you bailed once, you were firm for years that you didn't want kids and then, when with someone else, you decided you wanted her son back. Why should she believe you won't bail again?
Imo, you have to be present, patient and prove that this time you'll stick around. Maybe, at a later date once she's thawed a bit, try and explain your perspective.
It’s looking more and more like it’s exactly what I assumed it was with the age gap and his comments.
He found a 20 year old with a rough childhood and at 32 she’s grown up and he still hasn’t.
I mean from what you said here your boyfriend sounds like a good guy that just wants to help. Just always keep your wits about you, becoming financially dependent can happen. If he starts to abuse his position in any way get out right away. As for your friends…have they given you a better explanation as to why you shouldn't trust him?
Her actions not matching your words about her desires; isn’t relevant?
You have deeper problems but it will work itself out naturally.
This is honestly what it seems like. He was used to and comfortable with OP the way she was. She has made a lot of great changes and, unfortunately, instead of being happy for her/proud of her, etc. – he is clearly seeing these changes as a threat to him/their relationship. And he's clearly not handling it well. And as you say, he may not be doing/saying these things on purpose as some grand manipulation tactic – I don't think he is. I think he's super insecure with all the changes OP has made and he's handling it horribly. Not an excuse and doesn't make it ok. But it's the reason why I'd give him the opportunity to go to couple's counseling first.
If he doesn't want to or doubles down or anything like that – well, then – you can't work with that and it's time to consider ending the relationship. Which is sad, because he'll think it's all the reasons he feared, instead of understanding it was solely based on the way he handled himself.