I honestly don’t know if this is the case or not. But as a rape victim myself and hearing other’s experiences, there can be a lot of behavior afterwards that makes zero sense to the average person but feels logical to the victim. Just thought I’d offer a different perspective
Don’t ever stay with someone you’ve found out has a history of cheating. I just found out that the mother of my child who I provide EVERYTHING for has been cheating on me — with the guy she has cheated with in the past over 10 years ago now in a prior relationship. I thought people could change. 8 years into the relationship and I find photo evidence of cheating. I’m physically sick. I feel so angry and upset, but at the same time I feel totally nothing, like it’s not even worth putting energy into. anyone reading this, learn from my mistake so you don’t waste years of your life and have a kid with a garbage excuse of a human being. If they have cheated in the past, THEY WILL NOT CHANGE
Yeah definitely something I need to consider for sure.
I honestly don’t know if this is the case or not. But as a rape victim myself and hearing other’s experiences, there can be a lot of behavior afterwards that makes zero sense to the average person but feels logical to the victim. Just thought I’d offer a different perspective
I would opt not to have sex before I willingly had sex with someone I thought was cheating and asking them to wear condoms.
He is slowly trapping you. Find a new job, put the money in an individual account and GTFO. This is not safe for you or the baby.
Don’t ever stay with someone you’ve found out has a history of cheating. I just found out that the mother of my child who I provide EVERYTHING for has been cheating on me — with the guy she has cheated with in the past over 10 years ago now in a prior relationship. I thought people could change. 8 years into the relationship and I find photo evidence of cheating. I’m physically sick. I feel so angry and upset, but at the same time I feel totally nothing, like it’s not even worth putting energy into. anyone reading this, learn from my mistake so you don’t waste years of your life and have a kid with a garbage excuse of a human being. If they have cheated in the past, THEY WILL NOT CHANGE
Idk I’m female and that’s gross behavior. I’d be so turned off and I’d break up if I were in your shoes. I couldn’t get past this.