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Date: November 17, 2022
You block and/or delete the number then you tell your friends and family about the abuse he put you through and then you go stay at a friends for like a week or two or three and give them your phone and you only get it for supervised calls and shit. Move if possible. Delete any social media you have him on make sure he has no way to contact you not even email. You might have to have a friend go through your mail and take any letter he might send you.
Why are you sleeping with somebody like this.
Trying to use big words to sound right and you aren’t even using them correctly. I’m sure there’s some projection in there about not being taken seriously by like anyone in your life. Have a good one ?
Nice, again with false allegations making a mockery to real victims. Maybe this is why your Mom doesn't claim you as her kid? Because you are delusional and incapable of thinking critically at all.
My divorce has been finalized more than a year when we met. I was I thought ready to date and was traveling across the country taking the first sabbatical from work since opening businesses, marriage as I met my ex in 1998, had finished raising my son who is captain of NCAA football team and has over 4.0 GPA, both parents passed as I took care of them financially last 15 years – I was asked to speak at a alumni assembly of a fraternity organization in the state in which my partner lived. I was there to see another man who was perfect on paper as I call it but did nothing for me physically. He and I parted ways and another developer (what I do professionally) offered me a home they didn’t use and I accepted as they have been family friends for a decade. I was just meeting people and enjoying myself – I am an athlete and thought when I met my partner at 42, he would not be mature enough to date but we could do extreme sports together – I am an adrenaline junkie. But the first meeting there may have as well been a fire there was so much chemistry. Which completely through me off balance. I had tried not to like him on that level but failed – buy you can’t fake chemistry and true desire. And then we just got closer and closer the more time we spent together the more respected him and his values and opinions. He is a great person, friend, father, son, uncle, manager to his staff and had an abundance of knowledge in Manhattan areas of business and is the funniest most interesting and intriguing man I have met – and I work in a man’s world and know a lot of men.
I randomly wash dishes my wife is supposed to wash, I fold the pile of clothes she just put on the bed, I brush her hair when she’s starting her period and the crazy starts to come out, I sweep while she’s cooking and I do all the outside work. You man needs to be more man and less man child. He ain’t living with his momma
You know her best, if you don’t want to do public maybe a small setting with her family and closest friends. How old are the girls? Can you ask them if their mom ever mentioned it? I think it would be super cute to involve them in the question asking. Is the bio dad around? If not maybe see how they feel about you being their dad too along with the new baby or bonus dad if bio is around. Good luck and please let us know???
I feel like this in comparison to your earlier reply is different….. if you don’t like having sex with someone you respect, that is different than just having a kink…. Not being interested in sex with anyone you respect seems like a therapy-level emotional/perhaps trauma issue, but just having a kink in which you like it rougher seems like you need to kinda just expand your horizons with the gal you love
You don't think she will do that? Bud, she's already shaking you down.
Uh you need to tell her and file a police report! This same thing happened to me TWICE with male acquaintances and one of the times I ended up apologizing to HIM like wtf. It was so bad for my self-worth long term. I wish I’d handled it differently
Also, he’s dangerous. The friend saying to keep your mouth shut is giving you very bad advice. Please don’t listen.
im sorry im new to reddit lol
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It’s not that he turns it sexual but whenever it happens I start to look at what we’re doing as more sexual because of it
I had a bf tell me after he went to a conference, and after I moved to a different state for him, that he met a guy who had a practice in Spain he could join. I was like well it was a big thing for me to move “here”, not sure about Spain. His response was, “I didn’t plan on you going”. That’s when I realized I was in relationship by myself. If he is making life plans without you, especially if you already online together, then he doesn’t plan on continuing the relationship.
If you want to break up then do it. When he’s gone pack his stuff, change the locks, and put it out on the porch for him to take. If he wont leave, contact the police. Or if you have a friend you could stay with, go there. Maybe if it’s just you temporarily, a friend might be more willing. Then leave him in the hoarding situation.
Side note: He ended up not going to Spain, but I certainly didn’t stay.
You get to decide, but if you’re not exclusive there’s no point in doing it and risking STIs.
I had an ex who took like 2 showers a day and somehow kept giving me Utis we both had to clean before and after as a result I even carry wipes in my purse as backup. He washed it. I couldn’t tell if it was like stinky precum or if wherever it turtles to is like a rotting milk hot pocket .
I’m not going out with him again, I was overcompensating because I didn’t want to be rude or mean about a disfigurement, any satisfaction he tried to give me was so he could ask for more. I know he doesn’t care about me.
Then don’t move in if you don’t want to.
You’ve only been together for a year. If he’s serious don’t move in yet, he can wait. Tell him to get a roommate if this is an issue affording the mortgage or ask to get refinanced so he can.
If I were you, I would have left him. You obviously have different views on marriage, for you it seems to be important and having a nice wedding day is a dream for you – whereas for him not so much. He knows this is important for you and still isn't making effort to propose even after 6+ years together, and knowing how much you want it. Weddings are super stressful to plan, especially moreso if you are dreaming of a fairytale one and he's admitting he's willing to let you bare all of that responsibility not only mentally, emotionally but also financially on top of it. Your bf may as well just be another guest at the wedding and not THE groom since the only thing he's willing to do is show up and have no involvement in the planning process otherwise. He isn't willing to contribute to anything besides his presence. It sounds quite selfish imo, and I would be wary going into a marriage with him as this signals to me that he may view the commitment in a negative way instead of something positive. Like the type of man to call his wife “the ol' ball and chain” after a few yrs of marriage.
He's dangerous. Run girl.
You tell all your family and friends that you broke up with him and that he had threatened all of their lives – then go to the police and file a report – block and delete him everywhere.
Don't ever be alone with him…ever again.
Updateme!
Updateme!
Leave.
Relationships are 50/50 it's clear you put far more effort into the relationship than she did
Sounds like the BF is planning a future without OP in it.
I online at home and I'm not very monied either so I'm not judging those parts. Also don't mind doing open relationships if everyone's on the same page. I would call our situation an “invite only party.” Since the already established fwbs are ok with me that fits what I've asked for limit wise.
That he didn't know this guy offline at all and didn't have the spare change if anything were to go wrong were my primary concerns. He's been sexually abused before and nothing about this feels safe to me.
You have a two year old. It can take up to 5 years for a woman’s body/brain to return to pre-baby levels. Coercion looks like many things, including what you admitted above that you did by telling her you’d find someone else to meet your sexual desires if she isn’t going to. Your example of coercion (throwing her kicking and screaming) would actually be sexual assault/rape, not coercion.
You both need therapy, separately and together, to learn how to communicate better.
You are very rude.
I can tell you as a plain-vanilla-sex-having mom of four living in the suburbs of America that she is absolutely correct.
You sound exhausting and, frankly, my advice in response to your cringey post, is:
Grow up.
Yea no still super dumb. They may have other arrangements to see one another or the man may drive to see the woman or the woman to see the man. There are so many variables that to claim specifically because she drove two hours to see him that he doesn't care enough about her is super dumb.
Correct in this case, but it's otherwise a generalization without much merit, in my opinion.
Well if he isn't make you cum, and he says he wants to, that sounds like the issue right there. He may think he's inadequate. Or worse, he may believe your past partners got you there and that he isn't, which is a feeling no one wants to experience. He's nervous, which is perfectly normal.
How do I make him less anxious about having sex with me and just enjoy the moment?
Be grateful that he actually cares about your pleasure. Most women deal with men who only focus on enjoying the moment for themselves and they are left very unhappy lol
Just spit out coffee. A poop knife! Or stick?
Just spit out coffee. A poop knife! Or stick?
This is not a healthy relationship dynamic to model for your children
I'm sorry OP, eventually you will meet someone deserving and realize this was worth it and you wont regret it.
He's an idiot
What stupid about it explain….
It's accurate.
Not a single thing in this post indicates anything other than your bf has a friend. You’re displaying a level of irrational jealousy that is frightening.
Jade is also around his age, at 35. She is even married with kids. I totally understand what you mean though, I think I can agree and understand his POV. But you're right, the three of us need to sit down and have a conversation if this is to work out. Now that I think about it, they don't have much in common, and all we can really talk about is what happens in class… Will consider this
I've read so many of these stories on reddit of spouses doing exactly what OP's wife has done here, I pretty much have PTSD through other people's stress and suffering.
Yeah, that's not boudoir. Don't get me wrong, if youd discussed this sort of thing, we're down with it then go for it. But even then a lot of shoots like that would involve bringing a friend or someone along to make sure it stayed safe and appropriate.
(Top tip, any photographer that doesn't allow you to bring a friend or family member to a shoot likely isn't to be trusted).
But going along to a shoot by a mutual friend and going that far seems certainly uncomfortable to me.
(Ps this is reddit, I'm not implying this should end your relationship at all, but it's certainly a talk about how it's way past your boundaries)
That is what I fear but I appreciate your comments. Thank you.
The wife signed a consent / signed over the rights before the photo shoot started. So did I.
I would not do that today.
It’s not naive or stupid to trust a friend, tho.
I did photo shoots with other friends before that really bad experience happened, and everything always went fine. The one time I was asked to sign a consent was the one time it became coercive and something bad happened. I’m not sure there’s a correlation, but definitely a similarity
He was also willing. And is totally allowed to share that information where he practices that. Again – you don’t have to, but you don’t have a right to dictate other people.
Dude, run….
Nope. And it’s a two way street, too!
At work, I’m the only woman in a team of 12. I just spent a week at a work trip abroad and didn’t have time to call him. I sent him maybe 3 texts, most of which were about drinks, dinners, hotels and other work functions. The only message I got from him said that he’s proud of me.
You shit the bed twice. Once on accident and the second on purpose. I suggest you learn how to keep your shitty jokes in.
Evidence? Lol just random statistics based on conjecture. We don’t know anything about this specific persons situation and the question of the actual topic is if OP should help her/essentially be her social worker. The answer is no, she can find the info herself. Bye
I guess your husband has never heard of the 3 rules for a man. 1. Never be alone with another woman, 2. Never be alone with another woman, 3. Never be alone with another woman