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It sounds like you have a need for reassurance that he finds you physically attractive, and you’re sending him these (nude?) photos of yourself specifically because you want to hear that reassurance from him, is that correct?
“Honey, I send you photos because you’re my bf, and I want to make you happy and I also want to know that you find me physically attractive. When you don’t reply and tell me that the pic looks very hot, I think you’re not attracted to me. When you joke about getting pictures from other girls, I feel even worse, and I think you’d rather have someone other than me. I have a need to feel desired and feel that my boyfriend loves me and is attracted to me. Can you talk to me about why you’ve been so resistant to respond to me with things like ‘I kinda like it’ when you know that’s not the kind of thing a boyfriend says to a girlfriend about her pics?”
I feel like with my emotions I would lash out and say things I don't mean so I freeze and the situation just repeats over and over repeating that feelings and it's hell.
Thanks for your advice! I'm kind of hoping there's a way to find out if he's like that in general, or if the age thing was really just an live thing and I might be wrong about the other thing. It's so hard for me because so much else fits between us.
Tell her to invite him for dinner and hangout so you see how they interact. Maby that will make you feel better. If not, you can tell her what in there interaction makes you uncomfortable.
It sounds like you have a need for reassurance that he finds you physically attractive, and you’re sending him these (nude?) photos of yourself specifically because you want to hear that reassurance from him, is that correct?
“Honey, I send you photos because you’re my bf, and I want to make you happy and I also want to know that you find me physically attractive. When you don’t reply and tell me that the pic looks very hot, I think you’re not attracted to me. When you joke about getting pictures from other girls, I feel even worse, and I think you’d rather have someone other than me. I have a need to feel desired and feel that my boyfriend loves me and is attracted to me. Can you talk to me about why you’ve been so resistant to respond to me with things like ‘I kinda like it’ when you know that’s not the kind of thing a boyfriend says to a girlfriend about her pics?”
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I feel like with my emotions I would lash out and say things I don't mean so I freeze and the situation just repeats over and over repeating that feelings and it's hell.
Thanks for your advice! I'm kind of hoping there's a way to find out if he's like that in general, or if the age thing was really just an live thing and I might be wrong about the other thing. It's so hard for me because so much else fits between us.
Tell her to invite him for dinner and hangout so you see how they interact. Maby that will make you feel better. If not, you can tell her what in there interaction makes you uncomfortable.