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Model from: us
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1921-03-17
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
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Date: October 22, 2022
Leaving is the best option. He is extremely picky, opinionated, selfish, and not an easy going person. Immaturity plays a role and he definitely has some sort of problems adulting. He doesn’t see any of this and he’s starting to even lose friends. I don’t want to sound mean but he’s not that type who would have someone’s back when shit hits the fan. Unfortunately, he doesn’t see it at all and finds himself an awesome human being…
I’d post on a subreddit catered to your culture. I find that I tend to get very bland advice when it comes to navigating cultural intricacies, ie setting boundaries with parents
Yeah they went 0-100 real fast.
Okay so a couple things-
That friend is not your friend. He’s waiting on the sidelines for his chance at you. Ditch him. Work on building friendships based on mutual respect.
Don’t use alcohol to cope with your feelings. It seems easy now, but that’s a rabbit hole that gets out of hand very quickly and easily. Alcohol is only a solution when it comes to chemistry, otherwise it’s a problem.
Your boyfriend does not love you or care about you as much as you do him. For him to ignore your needs for so long is not fair to you. You are not a sex doll for him to get off on, you are a human being. Sex, love, and relationships are reciprocal. Remember that people will love and respect you based on how you expect to be treated. If you allow him to ignore your needs and stick around, you’re telling him it’s okay even when it’s not. If he’s not caring about you and not caring enough to have a conversation about your feelings, that it not the man for you.
Ty she didn’t reveal any of this to me until post engagement and after she moved into my condo. She’s currently in Brazil with her ex boyfriend for a “work trip” and spent Valentine’s Day with him at carnaval. She really doesn’t care about anyone but herself. She was pinning outfits on her Pinterest for a trip to Romania that I bought us tickets for for Xmas. All after spending the day partying with her ex care free. She seems to only mention ptsd when I confront her about abusing me or violating boundaries.
The reason I don’t believe she was abused is because she never lived with her dad. Her mother and grandma raised her. They never left her alone with the dad because of all the CPS reports from the first wife and cautions from her. Despite the first wife disliking my fiancé’s mother for sleeping with her husband (fiancé’s dad) while they were still married. My fiancé’s mom didn’t believe the allegations but still never left her daughter alone with him. My fiancé lived hours away and her dad came to here and was always supervised at her school events and such. He paid for the limo and all the gifts from a distance but wasn’t there for those things. Got her a car for her 16th bday, paid for college. But she didn’t live with him. She also vehemently denies it on her podcast interview and said she would never ever have guessed her dad who’s her hero would do such a thing. She’s smart but manipulative.
Have you tried talking to him about it? As you know having a child is a fuck ton of work. It’s easy to get out of habit of being intimate when there’s a little person needing attention all day. Maybe try talking to him about wanting to be more intimate with each other and see where it goes? And honestly probably every person you’ve even been with has looked at that stuff. They were just better at hiding it lol.
Also, as an example, I enjoy following models on Instagram etc but no matter what, I would never want to replace my fiancée with them. Looks, personality, nothing. And I would bet he wouldn’t either.
I’d be upset for a minute too, and I’d ask about your dreams. But neither of you can do anything about it. Does he stay upset for long?
They're not into you? They have standards? They don't like you? They don't want a wannabe?
Thank you for saying that. I felt like up until this point I had it going on with what I was doing because there have been no prior issues with money or anything. Maybe I’m blindsided by this and that’s why its so hurtful because I was unaware going into the marriage conversation that he felt this way about proposing.
Keyword is YOU, that isn't the case for everyone
Lol, get fucked. 4-1 yrs isnt any kind of age gap at all. Buddy is being straight shang hai'd for being into someone well within his age range.
You lost me at lying again and boyfriend in same sentence.
When is too much lying enough for you to stop calling him bf?
What separates this event from the many similar ones I imagine you have had throughout your 3-year relationship?
This isn't a right-or-wrong type of situation, it's a situation where two people with different dispositions feel differently about something. You're not being unreasonable at all, but neither is your boyfriend.
You've likely been looking forward to attending this family function together as a couple, and so it's naturally hurtful for you to find out that he doesn't feel the same. On the other hand, this can't possibly be the first time your boyfriend has expressed mixed feelings about going along with you somewhere.
It kind of sounds like this particular event has made you question your relationship as a whole and feel like you need to decide whether your boyfriend is really someone you can imagine being happy with in the long run. If that's the case, all you need to know is that it's ok if you don't think so, but then that's something you need to bring up with separately.