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Date: October 5, 2022
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today let’s get more nude Goal is: top off [Multi Goal]
Tell him to have fun and enjoy himself. Try to see it as something positive that he has his own life and things he enjoys. It should help with the anxiety. Also, trust can grow with good experiences, so don't look into this too much.
The only way to save this relationship is for her to show him this post. Let him see the comments. See if he is willing and able to change. Other than that I see no way forward.
Religious shame says she has to blame someone. If you're not responsible for it then she is, therefore her ego says it must be your fault. Can't be her choices, she believes she's too good to choose to do a thing she thinks is bad. And honestly that's kind of scary for you because it means she has to stick to this obviously bullshit “I was asleep” story and everything that implies.
If it were me, I'd want to A) get ahead of it, and B) the relationship wouldn't make it longer than it takes to do that. I'd be in survival mode right now.
What you're feeling isn't love, it's crippling emotional dependence.
So, you started dating your 47 year old boss when you were 19 from what I gathered from the comments. Just pretend for a minute this isn't about you for a minute because love is blind…. Let me tell you a headline and you tell me what you think about it.
47 year old man in a relationship with his 19 year old employee
Remember, this isn't your relationship, just someone else's. What do you automatically assume about this relationship?
it’s a lose lose situation. You’re not in a relationship. he’s already told you he “can help himself” when it comes to other women. you’ve wasted 4 months with this loser. Block him. Not only is he not your boyfriend – he’s taking up the space where a good boyfriend would go. There’s no room in your life for a good person as long as he’s here.
Without an enthusiastic “yes,” it's a “no!” Coercion is abuse. Sex without enthusiastic consent on both sides needs to stop.
Ty for being so kind and gentle in your attempt to reach her.
I accidentally caught the oldest child of my 42yo sister telling the oldest child of my 39yo sister that “we hate him” (referring to their family in general I am assuming) when he asked him about his opinion of me.
It wasn't the sister it was one of her kids.
The kid got it from somewhere, though.
Lawyer. Lawyer. Lawyer. And I’m sorry.
Well, I do commend your for realizing this, even so soon. Truthfully, some people take many years(and even decades) before they understand such a folly and break away from it.
Hope it goes well with later on(but yeah, that guy is no good).
I have multiple female friends and my best friend is a girl. I have never had the intention to sleep with them , even when I was single. My girlfriend has multiple guy friends and even had lunch yesterday with one. I am sticking with my idea that you are a 12 year old who is super insecure.
OP, this actually says a lot about you. You think guys can not be friends with the other sex because they want to fuck them. So in that state of mind you can not be friends with guys because either A you want to fuck them or B they want to fuck you and you know it.
Time to unfollow your BF.
Don't go unless your BF is also invited.
But is it possible that your parents aren't impressed by you dating for 15 years and not being married?
If she wasn’t around that wouldn’t be a question but anyways that’s not what I asked for advice on
Seriously. One of our best friends is a professional chef. If we hang out sometimes they cook and it's just a fun hang out time.
We 100% always pay when we go to his restaurant because we go to support his business because his food is kick ass and we want to see him succeed.
Also it's $20 and OP doesn't know this woman. Stupid woman should have asked before hand and then expected OP to feel sorry for her choosing beggar butt.
I feel like the BF's mom is trying to use this as an excuse to break them up probably because the BF is maturing and learning to develop boundaries and momma doesn't like that. So it's obviously OPs fault and her influence on the BF that she's losing her baaaaby. /s
Do not let them guilt you into taking back that person. Once they cheat, they belong to the streets.
Maybe he only followed you to give you that message in a more personal way.
I will definitely be doing my share of chores. Every time I visit I usually stay for weeks at a time and help out anywhere I can. I hate feeling like a burden on others!
Im pretty sure she loves me because she said yes to me marrying her, and i love her too! But the problem is me! Im the problem im the one who always think these negative stuff and think that she doesn’t love me! Idk what to do
This is wrong because you’ll still have your medical school debt. And CC debt is high interest. It’ll compound out of control. You need to post on personal finance and ask how to pay these off.
Such as , stop going to concerts and push him and yourself to pay these off. If you can’t afford to pay cash, don’t buy it.
No I didn't read what you wrote because it was bullshit. You spoke about what you've researched, not what you've experienced. Hence, bullshit.
How long were you together before? Like, 38/27 isn’t necessarily the most egregious age gap, since you are both adults, but it’s still a pretty big one that could be causing some issues here. Elsewhere you said his behavior was “toxic.” And while I wouldn’t condone what you did here, I can also see his reaction as potentially one in a long series of controlling behaviors on his part. But I only know what’s written here.
You should think carefully and critically about your relationship, why it ended, and how you know whether things have been fixed versus you just miss him/being with someone. Sometimes that feeling can be so strong it leads us to stay in situations that truly aren’t good for us.
Why have you been together for 10 years and thinking about kids and the technicalities of that only after getting married?
If she was really sorry, she would have told OP right away.
Oh someone came, OP while writing this.
Everything you said is also quite worrisome.
I can conceive of a situation where it wouldn't be break up worthy, but maybe I'm too trusting. Maybe her friends spent too much, and she needed to make a snap decision to cover them. And, in this scenario, her friends, as well as her,would pay him back ASAP. Maybe the intent wasn't to defraud him. However, in the event the intention was to defraud him OP needs to GTFO.