A lot of us ask those probing questions to gauge reactions before deciding if we want to continue what we wanted to originally ask. It was a coping mechanism from my extremely angry father, because his reactions decided whether I risked a beating or just a yelling at.
I think this is you grappling with what society tells you a man should be in a relationship, and I’m here to tell you to choose happiness. This soft man makes you happy, he brings out the protector in you. Don’t let gender roles ruin something that is working for both of you.
he's so much older than you and knew toy had a very young child at home when yoy started seeing each other. she doesn't want him to touch her or be alone in the room with him. she routinely pees the bed and wakes up through the night, both are signs of early childhood trauma. he tells her frequently that it makes him sad that she doesn't want to make physical contact with him, trying to guilt her into doing so.
DO NOT IGNORE THESE FLAGS!!! there is a very likely chance that he is hurting her when you aren't around!!
Tammy is all done. Too much damage she can’t get past. It’s better and easier for her to start over with someone new. It hurts both of you but it’s better this way. She deserves a calm peaceful life and you need to grow and heal. Sorry it’s over but it sounds very over.
You may have to evict her. If she's a tenant, and it is very easy to establish tenancy even if you think that's not the case, and you kick her out it would be an illegal eviction.
Well if they were out in the open and you didnt have to snoop to find them then id talk to him about it. Really no other advise here. Wont be a fun conversation but if he like/loves you as you say then he will have a rationale for it, but its possible it will be what you dont want to hear.
Hopefully this ultimately strengthens your relationship because some people maybe your bf are really bad at communicating in relationships and if he is getting unhappy maybe this is the moment where you both sit down and air your grievances and come out the other end stronger.
How so she liked the friend better until she realized she was the side piece and the guy was 19 and further from having career? And now SHE was played and came back to play you some more.
You handled that like a king my freidn from the rejection to the come back.
A lesser soul would have treated her as an unknowing fwb for a while then dumped her but your are a noble one. Hat's down.
Tell him that headphones offer a much better gaming experience- which is true.
A lot of us ask those probing questions to gauge reactions before deciding if we want to continue what we wanted to originally ask. It was a coping mechanism from my extremely angry father, because his reactions decided whether I risked a beating or just a yelling at.
I think this is you grappling with what society tells you a man should be in a relationship, and I’m here to tell you to choose happiness. This soft man makes you happy, he brings out the protector in you. Don’t let gender roles ruin something that is working for both of you.
If he doesn't like you waking him up loudly, tell him that he is a grown ass adult who can wake himself up in the morning.
he's so much older than you and knew toy had a very young child at home when yoy started seeing each other. she doesn't want him to touch her or be alone in the room with him. she routinely pees the bed and wakes up through the night, both are signs of early childhood trauma. he tells her frequently that it makes him sad that she doesn't want to make physical contact with him, trying to guilt her into doing so.
DO NOT IGNORE THESE FLAGS!!! there is a very likely chance that he is hurting her when you aren't around!!
I like a lil bit of stank.
A nude day of work is not 'little' though.
She needed to know asap how to play it because Jim was waiting on an answer.
Tammy is all done. Too much damage she can’t get past. It’s better and easier for her to start over with someone new. It hurts both of you but it’s better this way. She deserves a calm peaceful life and you need to grow and heal. Sorry it’s over but it sounds very over.
finished all laundry
Finished all his laundry.
Honestly it just sounds like OP is grasping at straws to make herself look better.
Try saving photos of dicks to your phone and see how he likes it
You may have to evict her. If she's a tenant, and it is very easy to establish tenancy even if you think that's not the case, and you kick her out it would be an illegal eviction.
He had a whole gf of 6 years than he was cheating on with OP. Mans is whack
So he likes to lie, is this someone worth being with?
Well if they were out in the open and you didnt have to snoop to find them then id talk to him about it. Really no other advise here. Wont be a fun conversation but if he like/loves you as you say then he will have a rationale for it, but its possible it will be what you dont want to hear.
Hopefully this ultimately strengthens your relationship because some people maybe your bf are really bad at communicating in relationships and if he is getting unhappy maybe this is the moment where you both sit down and air your grievances and come out the other end stronger.
Better to know now vs later.
Sit down and have a conversation with her. If that doesn't work take your concerns to HR
How so she liked the friend better until she realized she was the side piece and the guy was 19 and further from having career? And now SHE was played and came back to play you some more.
You handled that like a king my freidn from the rejection to the come back.
A lesser soul would have treated her as an unknowing fwb for a while then dumped her but your are a noble one. Hat's down.