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Date: October 12, 2022
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Yes you are in the wrong. But this is why you don't agree to things like opening the relationship when you don't actually want to. And guess what? You didn't want to.
Also he's wrong for not communicating that he wanted swinging to be solely about sex. You are dating the guy.
Obviously this kind of thing is unlikely to ever get prosecuted when it’s personal phones/petty conflicts, i just felt it was an apt explanation for why this is a violation of privacy and why it’s wrong—as there’s already laws about it.
If what he says is true, he intentionally went digging through private messages he was not meant to see. There’s no changing that fact. Those messages were never meant for him, nor were they lying around to be found. He went looking.
Whether you think that’s fine or not is up to you, but if your significant other reads all your private conversations you have a responsibility to make sure you inform the people you’re talking to that your conversations are not private and he will also be reading them! It might change how much they tell you—and reasonably so.
My girlfriend and I use each other’s phones all the time and have no secrets. I have no issue with her reading anything on my phone that does not involve another person. Reading back through my private conversations without consent, however, would make me deeply uncomfortable. Not because I’ve ever done or said anything incriminating, but because people talking to me assume a level of privacy. A text conversation is just a high speed letter and it is meant for my eyes only. Allowing someone else to read it violates the trust of the people who talk with me. That’s why it’s morally wrong to read someone’s private conversations.
OP gained useful insights and (as I have said over and over lol) should break up with his girlfriend for it, but that doesn’t mean that the way he found out is a good thing or okay to do generally.
I take people’s ability to trust me very seriously and I hate Reddit’s double standard on this whole phone thing (Aka: it’s bad behaviour if you find nothing—then you’re just insecure, but if you do find something then you’re justified. It’s hypocritical behaviour so it bothers me lol). But anyways, we can agree to disagree!
She's having a trauma response. That's not something you can just “get over”.
Trauma therapists are what's needed here.
So I’m not opposed to the party, I even invited some of my friends. I’m not sure how much of the post you read. I’m just more annoyed that she’s upset that I don’t want to wear a costume, I just want to dress casually and enjoy the night with friends without needing to spend extra money on things that won’t be needed ever again after.
Although, it would be nice for your fiancé to tell her to back off if she’s saying anything explicit.
To start things off bluntly- your wife does not get to have a child the two of you cannot realistic take care off to make herself feel better. That's a terrible idea and you're looking at pushing a much worse quality of life on you, your wife, and your kids if you have another child for the sole reason that she's looking for a new purpose and a new challenge.
That's the very blunt version. Obviously, your wife is going through a very naked time right now. I can understand why she feels lost and why she's grasping for something, anything, that makes her feel like she's contributing to some higher purpose. But she cannot expect other people- including babies- to fill that hole for her. If she wants a new challenge, to feel like she's a part of something important again, then I agree she would probably find a lot more happiness and fulfillment in a new career.
I would recommend finding someone to take the kids for a night and sitting down for a very serious talk with your wife. I would be very gentle, but firm, that another baby just can't happen with your mental health issues and her physical health. Tell her you love her, you support her, and you want to help her find fulfillment in her life again. But you will not be having another baby with her. It would just be too selfish.
Would anyone please chime