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What is with everyone and the biphobia. That’s not how bisexuality works. Most bisexual people in a relationship are committed to their partner in the same way most straight people or gay people are committed to their partner. Yeah you get some people who cheat but you get that in every sexuality
Shutting down completely from everyone when stressed is a coping mechanism, and not a healthy one. You are probably not the only one he's withdrawn from. And unfortunately he doesn't seem to realize how destructive this is yet. You have tried being gentle, now I think it's time to be blunt. His emotional unavailability is a dealbreaker for you. If it's not something he's willing to work on then you are out. There will be times when both of you are stressed at the same time, and not being able to count on him in those times is not what you signed up for. Is he going to withdraw during wedding planning, pregnancy, a recession or children, all things that are guaranteed to be stressful for both of you. If he is willing to work on it, he needs to put together a plan of action and stick to it, which includes finding a therapist, creating a game plan with the therapist and holding himself accountable. And maybe I would plan to be away for a week/weekend, to give him time to make his decision and realize that you are serious. I think you've tried to be kind and considerate to his stress, but he hasn't been considerate of yours.
Yeah. Or let's say they have three kids and they know they don't want more. Is he going to get snipped? I would add that question in addition to this one.
And I wouldn't be so quick to assume that he would abort in the case of a fetal abnormality that is life-threatening. A lot of times the people who say just the life of the mother really mean it.
OH fuck off. The cat is the problem. It is attacking OPs bfs cats. So it’s fine for OP to want to keep her cat, but not fine for her bf to want to keep his cats safe?
What is with everyone and the biphobia. That’s not how bisexuality works. Most bisexual people in a relationship are committed to their partner in the same way most straight people or gay people are committed to their partner. Yeah you get some people who cheat but you get that in every sexuality
Shutting down completely from everyone when stressed is a coping mechanism, and not a healthy one. You are probably not the only one he's withdrawn from. And unfortunately he doesn't seem to realize how destructive this is yet. You have tried being gentle, now I think it's time to be blunt. His emotional unavailability is a dealbreaker for you. If it's not something he's willing to work on then you are out. There will be times when both of you are stressed at the same time, and not being able to count on him in those times is not what you signed up for. Is he going to withdraw during wedding planning, pregnancy, a recession or children, all things that are guaranteed to be stressful for both of you. If he is willing to work on it, he needs to put together a plan of action and stick to it, which includes finding a therapist, creating a game plan with the therapist and holding himself accountable. And maybe I would plan to be away for a week/weekend, to give him time to make his decision and realize that you are serious. I think you've tried to be kind and considerate to his stress, but he hasn't been considerate of yours.
I'm not disagreeing at all, I'm saying that it's very easy to just say “take the pill” when you're not counting every penny.
Yeah. Or let's say they have three kids and they know they don't want more. Is he going to get snipped? I would add that question in addition to this one.
And I wouldn't be so quick to assume that he would abort in the case of a fetal abnormality that is life-threatening. A lot of times the people who say just the life of the mother really mean it.
except it's not crazy. she has an abused past… actual triggers and PTSD are a thing, and you cannot control them
OH fuck off. The cat is the problem. It is attacking OPs bfs cats. So it’s fine for OP to want to keep her cat, but not fine for her bf to want to keep his cats safe?
where do you plan to get your long-term income if “social media” doesn't work out?