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TSUNAMI SQUIRT [876 tokens remaining]
Date: October 10, 2022
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She don't give a fuck about you, why are you giving a fuck about her. Tell her you know about her cheating and then ghost the fuck out of the bitch. She belongs to the streets
Well I wish you luck and for your sake I hope she’s not so you can move on and have a child with someone who appreciates how caring you are
Match the energy. Love it! Might steal it.
Nah it's just friendship in jokes
It is going to be near impossible to try and change someone's mindset and believes, because to him this is the “truth” and in some cases someone “truth” is the only one there is and anything else is “false”. People like your boyfriend aren't going to learn these comments are harmfull.
So that leaves for you the question; are you willing to stay in a relationship like this and keep on pushing yourself to “change” him or are you going to help yourself and find a loving partner who is caring, sweet and respectful to you throughout your whole relationship instead of only the first few months?
Firstly, I’m sorry that someone has made you feel this worthless. Your lack of self esteem, self respect and bad mental health are more than likely being cause by this person.
I hope you read your post back and realise how disgusting and inappropriate this persons behaviour is. You deserve better, but you need to believe that you deserve better.
Being alone is 1090% better for you than continuing in this situationship. You will not be alone forever, you are young and there are so many wonderful people out there that you haven’t even met yet.
Leave, without a second thought. Get out of that toxic environment and remember what a great person you are, how much your family love you and your friends care about you.
Because you shouldn’t have much in common with someone 6 years your junior at 24. At your age you should be talking about university or work or getting your own house etc. At 18, he’s pretty much fresh out of school. It’s weird. Just trust the majority of people in the Reddit page.
I don’t think you’re crazy. If you’ve already communicated this to her, then she should have understood. I always try to tell my partner too when I’m busy.
Is her reaction unreasonable? Yes. Is there anything you can really do about it? No.
Honestly if she's willing to end a relationship just because she had to wait a couple hours for a reply to her text, it sounds like you two aren't compatible.
It's a scam.
I think you should probably join one of the sugaring forums and get to learn the ropes a bit before you actually put yourself out there OP.
Problem of letting ex's in your current relationship. He's playing with her emotions and it is affecting you.
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What should you do that she's flashing her tits to someone? Geez idk, either be okay with it or not.
Run far away from that insecure mess.
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I stopped cold when I read him trying to shame you with what’s “ladylike” That’s a big old load of misogynistic controlling crap that’s waaaaay outdated.
And farting is a normal bodily function that EVERYONE does ?
NO, there were not misunderstandigs. Both of you knew what happened and why. You are an adult, come on!!! Now you want to keep her friendship, but why? Are you interested in her attention, in her love? do you want to be unfaithful towards your wife your marriage? Yes, definitely you are cheating right now.
That’s weird, are you sure it was acid? If you take too much your entire reality can change and you sometimes forget you exist as a single entity (ego death) did this happen to you? Did you see incredible hallucinations? Did the passage of time almost stop?
You wife is abusive.
She was physically abusive with throwing and breaking things. She is was verbally abusive with the name calling and loud attacked. She was emotionally abusive by forcing you to online in a box where you can’t watch, or talk, or exist without being judged or abused.
Your wife has self esteem issues. That’s okay. But it is not okay to make you online a life where you can’t do anything without an interrogation.
I would also flag that your shared friends and family also already know about this. That’s the abusers trick. You have carefully held these cards tight, while she is looking for sympathy and blasts your failures public. If things go south, she will make them toxic, cutting you further off from all you love.
Counseling may help. But while you can change behavior, these are some deep seeded personality issues. I doubt that they would change, as she doesn’t see she’s doing anything wrong.
So, I would recommend you get an individual therapist who can help give perspective and support. And I think you affirming your boundaries and finding what you want in life is good. They can help with this.
If someone only loves you when you jump through their hoops, they don’t love you.
Good luck, mate.
Plenty of stories of female teachers grooming students out there, though, so it's not exactly unheard of. Although the stereotypical pedophiles is some old dude that looks creepy there are of course plenty of women who are also pedophiles.
This must be the longest post on Reddit ever. I’m not sure exactly what’s going on because I couldn’t read it all, but obviously the main problem is you got married too young. You can’t change that but that is a factor. You say you don’t want to leave her but she says she will murder you if you do. Take her seriously. The girl is not well and she will harm you if she thinks you are cheating even if you aren’t. There is nothing you can do except try to convince her to get therapy. Talking to her yourself won’t change her. If you tell her your love for her will grow if she goes into therapy, that might convince her. Make sure you say you don’t think she’s crazy and therapy is not for crazy people, just for people who need someone to talk to. Tell her that she will like the private time she gets with her therapist and make it sound like a spa day. Hopefully as she gets older she will change but that is not always the case.
sounds like she might be talking to someone her own age
Dog owner/parent here. Yeah, no I’d break up with him too. I’d be damned if my dog can only walk around outside. Your boyfriend knows how you treat your dog and now suddenly dictates these rather cruel conditions? Dude is trying to control you. There are plenty of guys (girls if you’re bi or etc) who will love your dog and want your dog around too. If you don’t see it as a controlling issue (we only know what you tell us and age gap is concerning combined with this) then see it as a compatibility issue. He’s clearly not into pets or pets that she’d aka your dog so the guy isn’t you. Don’t for a moment put him before your little buddy. He should know how much this dog means to you and to have him locked up at all times is so cruel and disregarding your feelings as well as the dog’s. Personally is see it as a lack of empathy. I’m allergic to cats and most animals but especially cats but I’d NEVER do this or expect the person I’m dating to do what he does to the animal.
Nah. Keep going NC.
Do him a favor and leave so he can have a family of his own, if you’re sure you don’t want kids that is. Super unfair if you are on the fence and he never gets the chance 🙂
34M and I don't want kids.
I’d possibly add, I believe I heard you tell me something. Not say something, but tell me something. It’s more clear that it seems to be a confession you heard. Then see if he reacts.
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You can be a better person in the future and that starts by actively becoming better now so that you never hurt someone like this again and so you don’t hurt yourself again. You can do it.
For the sake of you both just break up with him and apologise and wish him well. I know you prob won’t listen to this but it’s the best choice even if it hurts for a year or 2. The pain will ease and you’ll survive
She's going to fuck her ex. What are you going to do about it?
You are demonstrating to us why you date a 20yo
I also know someone who is cheating at wordle (it's very obvious, he is the only person in the group to guess in 1 multiple times a month, and guesses in 2 most days.)
He isn't my SO but it does make me question him in other aspects of life. As someone whose moral alignment is lawful good, I get your concern.
With that said, most likely he is just trying to impress you, but I think it would be good to have a conversation about it. There won't be a lot of motivation to play if you are questioning whether he is playing legit.
She's taking a walk, on the streets, where she belongs, and where her daughters will end up as well. I don't wanna hear it from anyone, because women never get involved with someone kids unless hes loaded, us guys accept kids BEFORE we get serious, and most of these mom's are 100% unqualified to be gfs/wives/moms. They peaked in highschool or college and are just dragging guys down with them.
Nop, thats a very short minded and biased reading that you are doing of what Im saying.
Point 1) OP clearly stated that she suffers a lot of mental illnesses.
Point 2) She got a complete overhaul style change in the spawn of a year, while going from a “standart western” feminine style to a full pierced face, overweight and coloured hair style. This alone its sign of mental inestability. Changing your hair colour, having a piercing, a tatoo… but a FULL change over one year, from a person that we already know that has mental problems? Do you need me to explain to you why 1 + 1 equals 2?
Point 3 ) Im not critizicing anyone in my post, Im just stating facts about her behaviour, and the most probable outcome that I see in that relationship.
Point 4) She can of course drees anyway she wants, and behave anyway she wants, thats called individual freedom and Im a full supporter of it above anything else. And also of course OP has every right to not be attracted to her.
Point 4 ) She does not need to make anyone happy, not even herself (wich seems to be the case). But hey, let me give you a life tip with a book quotation: “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” – Robert Heinlein. Do not take it as a literal thing, but in general terms if you feel that you dont “need” to make your SO happy ( and yourself also ), you are running to have a very sad relationship, and life in general.
This is exactly what I was thinking. They’re already married how is their older parents dating going to be an issue? Sure it’ll be uncomfortable for a bit but get over it. They deserve to be happy.
I think at some point that may be possible but with these still being relatively recent I’d back off on it. Give it time, it could come back down the road.
It's not a big deal, but I would say hook up culture is more about being attracted to someone, most people don't just go up to just anyone and sleep with them, they find the person they're attracted to/vibe with. Not caring about them necessarily, but some type of attraction whether it be looks or personality will factor in to casual sex.
I've never known anyone to casually sleep with someone they weren't attracted to at all.
Your wife has a point. It’s crossed the line into emotional cheating. This level of communication where you start neglecting your own relationship and lying to your wife makes it very inappropriate.
Instead of spending so much time and energy on this woman work on things with your wife and take your kids to the museum.
Why is your wife not invited to these outings? When is the last time you’ve taken your wife to a museum or date?