As someone who’s been the not included sibling, you may be incredibly accurate. They had a bond due to being the same age, having the same memories, and way more similar personalities. When I would get invited, I never realized how much I could get grumpy or snippy. Not constantly, but once or twice a day. It brought down the mood, including mine because then I was mad at myself at withdrawn. It took a lot of work but now we’re super tight! I’ll always be the odd man out, but, such is life unfortunately. Siblings can be friends and friends don’t want to invite the downer all the time. We got closer because I would casually reach out just to check up and tell them I love them!
From my perspective, almost everything that you have said and the way that you have phrased it, sounds like it all about what is best for you. Even when I brought up your family and children, you didn't seem to care or understand why her decision would affect them. That shows an enormous lack of emotional maturity and empathy. Are you asking what to do, because she would be happier, or because you would be happier not having to deal with the fallout of your actions?
Is there another explanation? I got an STI, I haven't slept with anyone else, I've confronted the internet, I asked my doctors if it's possible that I got it some other way. They told me no. If there's another explanation then I'm listening.
But how can I judge her behavior accurately? I can't know what's happening in her head.
Yeah. Again, its a harsh lesson that a lot of people have to learn.
Unfortunately I don't think I have any advice on how to fix things because I don't think they can be fixed. But you can do better in your next relationship once you've healed.
Yup, we’ll, you just laid it out by saying his race is what she is attracted to and she’s pouring in all this attention.
It’s extremely obvious.
As someone who’s been the not included sibling, you may be incredibly accurate. They had a bond due to being the same age, having the same memories, and way more similar personalities. When I would get invited, I never realized how much I could get grumpy or snippy. Not constantly, but once or twice a day. It brought down the mood, including mine because then I was mad at myself at withdrawn. It took a lot of work but now we’re super tight! I’ll always be the odd man out, but, such is life unfortunately. Siblings can be friends and friends don’t want to invite the downer all the time. We got closer because I would casually reach out just to check up and tell them I love them!
From my perspective, almost everything that you have said and the way that you have phrased it, sounds like it all about what is best for you. Even when I brought up your family and children, you didn't seem to care or understand why her decision would affect them. That shows an enormous lack of emotional maturity and empathy. Are you asking what to do, because she would be happier, or because you would be happier not having to deal with the fallout of your actions?
Since you don't want advice, maybe try /r/TrueOffMyChest?
Is there another explanation? I got an STI, I haven't slept with anyone else, I've confronted the internet, I asked my doctors if it's possible that I got it some other way. They told me no. If there's another explanation then I'm listening.
But how can I judge her behavior accurately? I can't know what's happening in her head.
Thes why we dont do drugs kids
Yeah. Again, its a harsh lesson that a lot of people have to learn.
Unfortunately I don't think I have any advice on how to fix things because I don't think they can be fixed. But you can do better in your next relationship once you've healed.