If she was too inebriated to know what she was doing when the coworker had sex with her, then ask her if she was raped. Because if you are too drunk to consent, then that is rape. Personally, I think you'll rapidly discovered that once a serious word like “rape” starts getting thrown around, she'll get caught up in her own excuses (which she engineered not to paint herself as a victim of sexual assault, but purely to get out of her decision to cheat on you again).
And you know this is an excuse. You don't cheat on someone, then cheat again, as a mistake.
It actually happened. I’m concerned. That’s why I made a post.
It's gross and bad hygiene. Are there other things she does that are bad like thism
If she was too inebriated to know what she was doing when the coworker had sex with her, then ask her if she was raped. Because if you are too drunk to consent, then that is rape. Personally, I think you'll rapidly discovered that once a serious word like “rape” starts getting thrown around, she'll get caught up in her own excuses (which she engineered not to paint herself as a victim of sexual assault, but purely to get out of her decision to cheat on you again).
And you know this is an excuse. You don't cheat on someone, then cheat again, as a mistake.
Listen to your gut instincts and dump her.
Google “mental load”, because he is burdening you with the entirety of it.
In my opinion someone this far gone is unlikely to make the changes you’re looking for.
It has crossed my mind.