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Chloe!, 20 y.o.
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Date: October 9, 2022
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This is why marriage is a joke. Your vows were through sickness and health. You smiled and agreed just assuming she wouldn’t get sick or unhealthy. Now that life is hot, you want to abandon her. Yea she has problems and yea your life sucks now. But that’s the bed you made by getting married.
If you’re thinking divorce, the least you could do is lay it all out to her and be honest. Maybe her pain can be alleviated somehow and that would help with her depression and immobility. I don’t like the idea of giving up and abandoning someone you love just because something bad happened to them.
Seeing happy couples and feeling a pang of jealousy is normal. It’s like a parent of a disabled child seeing others run around normally and thinking what if.
If he jumps up to help when you ask, then you've got a winner. I can feel the jealousy from my fellow Redditors as I type this.
OK, I think I just realized what's happening here. Was he always like this? If so, then that is who you married, and (this is going to sound harsh but) you don't have the right to expect him to change. That's not how (healthy) relationships work.
What you can do is focus on your expectation that he should do things without asking. I know you feel this is important for your own mental well being, but the reality is that this type of thinking is a trap.
There will always be something that you don't like about your husband (nobody is perfect). So the question becomes: can you learn to accept and love him the way he is? Because right now you are basically making your love for your husband conditional based on how you think he should be, instead of accepting who he is.